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Topic: Can you be in love?
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 10/25/08 04:32 PM
Can you love,and be in love with someone you don't find physically attractive?

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Sat 10/25/08 04:33 PM
yeah just make sure it's always dark

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Sat 10/25/08 04:34 PM
Can you love,and be in love with someone you don't find physically attractive? Yes, indeed

SilverJoy Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 570	Sat 10/25/08 04:35 PM
Nope! Because anyone I love or am in love with is "beautiful" in my eyes.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 10/25/08 04:40 PM
yeah just make sure it's always dark You and I need the lights on

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Sat 10/25/08 04:45 PM
sure you can, but there has to be something there that attacts you to them.

coz1976 Joined Sun 07/13/08 Posts: 1196	Sat 10/25/08 04:45 PM
Nope! Because anyone I love or am in love with is "beautiful" in my eyes. that's it

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Sat 10/25/08 04:47 PM
yeah just make sure it's always dark You and I need the lights on

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Sat 10/25/08 04:58 PM
yes

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sat 10/25/08 04:59 PM
AWWWWW Mirror , you know I still love you

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Sat 10/25/08 05:03 PM
AWWWWW Mirror , you know I still love you gigglesnort

solestria Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 204	Sat 10/25/08 05:59 PM
I don't think I could. I wouldn't want to be, at any rate. That attraction and passion is important to me, and everyone deserves to be with someone who thinks they're smoking hot.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 10/25/08 06:02 PM
Can you love,and be in love with someone you don't find physically attractive? No, I could never do it.

boudicaphx1 Joined Sat 10/11/08 Posts: 2457	Sat 10/25/08 06:04 PM
Love is blind... but it takes a spark.

me_me_me_pick_me Joined Tue 10/14/08 Posts: 175	Sat 10/25/08 06:05 PM Edited by me_me_me_pick_me on Sat 10/25/08 06:05 PM
There are different kinds of love....but if you mean, "romantic love", when you find someone physically unattractive from the beginning, I'd say "no".

CHARISMA Joined Wed 01/03/07 Posts: 109	Sat 10/25/08 09:19 PM
Can you love,and be in love with someone you don't find physically attractive? NO... There must be an attraction there to get my attention. Thats why BEAUTY is in the eyes of the BEHOLDER! Everyone is attractive/beautiful to SOMEBODY!

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Sat 10/25/08 09:25 PM
Someone can start out not being that attractive and then you get to know them and they become so desireable it goes to another level.

pyrochik Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 111	Sun 10/26/08 05:19 PM
I've only been in love once. He had been in a serious accident as a small child, and had many, many reconstruction as he grew. There was something immediate and chemical when I met him (I was working in a C-store). I could see that his features were not quite asymmetrical, but until I saw a photo of him, I didn't see the extent of the damage. My mind saw him as my heart saw him, apparently. Still does. So much time and effort spent on the goal of "attractiveness"...One question: if you were blind, how would you know who was attractive or not? "The mind calculates, the spirit yearns, and the heart knows what the heart knows."

symbelmyne Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 5356	Sun 10/26/08 05:33 PM
depends on what kind of love you are talking about...one can love for many different reasons..now if you are asking if its possible to have an intimate, long-term relationship with someone one you are not physically attracted to I think the question answers itself..you can love that person, but will end up in a different type of relationship.

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Tue 10/28/08 08:59 PM
Can you NOT fall in love with someone you can't keep your hands off of?