Topic: Just ask JustAGuy - part 2
justme659's photo
Sat 11/15/08 06:30 PM
Why did my favorite finger nail break today?

KymmieSue's photo
Sat 11/15/08 06:30 PM
why is it so hard for the babies to understand i want to give my friends here some attention too?

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 11/15/08 06:34 PM

Why did my favorite finger nail break today?


Because it was your favorite one. From now on....don't pick favorites because the other nails will conspire against the one you choose.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 11/15/08 06:34 PM

why is it so hard for the babies to understand i want to give my friends here some attention too?


Because being a fraidy cat just doesn't work when they can't SEE what there is to be afraid of...lol

KymmieSue's photo
Sat 11/15/08 06:42 PM
what time is a good bed time? after this turns?

i still thinks its possible

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 11/15/08 06:56 PM

what time is a good bed time? after this turns?

i still thinks its possible


Hmm....I dunno....you'll be pushing that 2am wake up call methinks....lol

KymmieSue's photo
Sat 11/15/08 07:06 PM


what time is a good bed time? after this turns?

i still thinks its possible


Hmm....I dunno....you'll be pushing that 2am wake up call methinks....lol


ok fine.....once again you are right.......i just got a call have to go in early. getting up at midnight.

good night, sweet dreams

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 11/15/08 07:13 PM



what time is a good bed time? after this turns?

i still thinks its possible


Hmm....I dunno....you'll be pushing that 2am wake up call methinks....lol


ok fine.....once again you are right.......i just got a call have to go in early. getting up at midnight.

good night, sweet dreams


Sleep well Kymmie. :-)

galendgirl's photo
Sat 11/15/08 07:58 PM
When I ask "is the bathroom mom-clean?" and my son answers "yes" - why is it apparently some OTHER mom's version of mom-clean?

MsCarmen's photo
Sat 11/15/08 08:28 PM
What do you do when you just found out horrible news about yourself, but you can't talk to anyone about it for fear of being a disappointment and/or chastised for it, but you desperately need a shoulder to cry on?

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 11/15/08 09:48 PM

When I ask "is the bathroom mom-clean?" and my son answers "yes" - why is it apparently some OTHER mom's version of mom-clean?


That's what happens when you allow him out of the basement and over to other people's houses...lmao

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 11/15/08 09:49 PM

What do you do when you just found out horrible news about yourself, but you can't talk to anyone about it for fear of being a disappointment and/or chastised for it, but you desperately need a shoulder to cry on?


Horrible news about yourself???

Tough one.

I realize that you don't know me at all except from my posts....but if you need someone to talk to...my email is always open.flowerforyou

TelephoneMan's photo
Sat 11/15/08 10:10 PM
Edited by TelephoneMan on Sat 11/15/08 10:20 PM
OK, oh wise Wizard of Just... answer me this...

Diabetic, blood glucose for the day >>> 452, (400 is stroke territory), blood pressure off the Sphygmomanometer scale... and about when your at your absolute worst... somebody wants to ask you about why you hadn't responded to this or that message about this or that... (not that a near death experience was easy to set aside at the time...)

How does one apologize to somebody after totally having a crappy day beyond belief (see above paragraph) and wigging out beyond what even YOU yourself (me) thinks is acceptable?

Probably shouldn't have even been on the computer that night... should have been in bed, resting...

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 11/15/08 10:19 PM

OK, oh wise Wizard of Just... answer me this...

How does one apologize to somebody after totally having a crappy day beyond belief and wigging out beyond what even YOU yourself thinks is acceptable?


Just own it, man.

You realize that you screwed up. That in and of itself, should show the person you are referring to that an apology from you is sincere.

If that doesn't work...you can always try bribery. Or perhaps offer to let her ( I am assuming it's a her ) kick you in the shin for being such a jackass.

Even better yet......

Just tell her that you came to a clueless single guy for advice on how to make it up to her. THAT'LL show her that you are sincere. :thumbsup:

TelephoneMan's photo
Sat 11/15/08 10:21 PM


OK, oh wise Wizard of Just... answer me this...

How does one apologize to somebody after totally having a crappy day beyond belief and wigging out beyond what even YOU yourself thinks is acceptable?


Just own it, man.

You realize that you screwed up. That in and of itself, should show the person you are referring to that an apology from you is sincere.

If that doesn't work...you can always try bribery. Or perhaps offer to let her ( I am assuming it's a her ) kick you in the shin for being such a jackass.

Even better yet......

Just tell her that you came to a clueless single guy for advice on how to make it up to her. THAT'LL show her that you are sincere. :thumbsup:


Well, I had to edit my previous post, and being the on-top-of-it guy you are, while I was editing you were answering...

explode explode explode explode explode explode explode explode

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 11/15/08 10:23 PM
Edited by JustAGuy2112 on Sat 11/15/08 10:26 PM



OK, oh wise Wizard of Just... answer me this...

How does one apologize to somebody after totally having a crappy day beyond belief and wigging out beyond what even YOU yourself thinks is acceptable?


Just own it, man.

You realize that you screwed up. That in and of itself, should show the person you are referring to that an apology from you is sincere.

If that doesn't work...you can always try bribery. Or perhaps offer to let her ( I am assuming it's a her ) kick you in the shin for being such a jackass.

Even better yet......

Just tell her that you came to a clueless single guy for advice on how to make it up to her. THAT'LL show her that you are sincere. :thumbsup:


Well, I had to edit my previous post, and being the on-top-of-it guy you are, while I was editing you were answering...

explode explode explode explode explode explode explode explode


That last part still doesn't change my answer much.

Apologize profusely. Send her a sappy E Card....if you happen to know where she lives...try flowers.

My turn to do an edit.

Dude....does she know about the Diabetes??? If so....then she can find out what kind of effect a fouled up sugar level can have on people.

DO NOT try to use it as an excuse and say that it was all because of that. In all likelihood, she probably wouldn't completely buy that ( even if it's true ) and might think it's " just an excuse ".

TelephoneMan's photo
Sat 11/15/08 10:29 PM
Edited by TelephoneMan on Sat 11/15/08 10:36 PM
I just don't like leaving bitterness out in the universe, it isn't good... but "C'est la vie" I guess...

Ever notice how easy it is to cut down a tree, after it took 50 years to grow the same tree?

Ever notice how easy it is to destroy a house with a bull-dozer, when it took months to build the same house?

Creating seems to always take much long than destroying.

TelephoneMan's photo
Sat 11/15/08 10:36 PM
Edited by TelephoneMan on Sat 11/15/08 10:39 PM




OK, oh wise Wizard of Just... answer me this...

How does one apologize to somebody after totally having a crappy day beyond belief and wigging out beyond what even YOU yourself thinks is acceptable?


Just own it, man.

You realize that you screwed up. That in and of itself, should show the person you are referring to that an apology from you is sincere.

If that doesn't work...you can always try bribery. Or perhaps offer to let her ( I am assuming it's a her ) kick you in the shin for being such a jackass.

Even better yet......

Just tell her that you came to a clueless single guy for advice on how to make it up to her. THAT'LL show her that you are sincere. :thumbsup:


Well, I had to edit my previous post, and being the on-top-of-it guy you are, while I was editing you were answering...

explode explode explode explode explode explode explode explode


That last part still doesn't change my answer much.

Apologize profusely. Send her a sappy E Card....if you happen to know where she lives...try flowers.

My turn to do an edit.

Dude....does she know about the Diabetes??? If so....then she can find out what kind of effect a fouled up sugar level can have on people.

DO NOT try to use it as an excuse and say that it was all because of that. In all likelihood, she probably wouldn't completely buy that ( even if it's true ) and might think it's " just an excuse ".


No, she has no idea I am Diabetic or any of that or anything about what was going on in my body at that exact moment. Nothing went right that day, and its a damn shame it cost me a friend, too.

No excuse, I shouldn't have even been on the computer that day. Yeah, its a fukked up disease, but I'd have to say this is the frist time it has cost me a friend.

It makes you scared when your toes start tingling and it doesn't go away for months at a time (they call it neuropathy)... you wonder how long before they come and take off your feet and such. It was one of those days... forgot my meds for a few days in a row,... then ate a big meal the night before... could of died in my sleep... LOL.

Would have rather died than lose my temper and my composure to a new friend. Probably not reconcilable, but thought I would ask the Wizard of Just ...

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 11/15/08 10:39 PM
So...how long have you been talking to her?

Have you sent an apology??

KymmieSue's photo
Sun 11/16/08 02:01 AM

So...how long have you been talking to her?

Have you sent an apology??


maybe i am a "different" type of woman, but in all honesty if she doesnt know about your health then maybe if you tell her she might forgive you. i know i would, but thats me. it would put things in a different light.

sorry Just, needed a "female" touch