What do you think about husband out with the boys; wives out with the
girls after they become man and wife by common-law or registration?

I think it's healthy as long as there are boundaries and trust.

Trust yes, if there is trust- which there should be- then there is no
question.

Depends on where they're going, what they're doing. Fishing, golf? Fine.
Bars/strip clubs? Not on your life -- especially not strip clubs.

It is Healthy in any Relationship to have that Separate time away from
each other,,, Remember Bounderies are set and trust
is the key word here,,,,

If somebody was in "LOVE", why would you want alone time. I would rather
go out together and have a good time!

Same here Nervesgone.

IT IS GOOD TO SPEND TIME APART AND IT IS HEALTHY TO GO OUT WITH FRIENDS

Let him/her go and have fun and when they return home u expect to have
fun

I agree with jeanc. When you are single you do single people things.I
think married people going to bars or strip clubs is going to bring
nothing but trouble to the marriage.

If you dont like your spouce going out with her friends then either you
are very insecure or you dont trust her, so what is the marriage based
on?

I agree with Shagna. Gotta have trust....

Isn't trust earned?

yea, trust!!

It's all about TRUST! Good Morning All!

I feel it's okay also but there have to be trust from the both of you or
it won't work:)

really depends on the Relationship if some is going to cheat it don't
matter what the other person does that person will cheat

I agree with that. Gosh ... couples don't have to be attached to the hip
24/7

Being in love coupled with the desire to spend lots of time together
doesn't preclude one's need to have alone time. We all have the need to
be individuals and to deny someone that right will not likely end up
beneficial.
To take issue with your partner going out, shows insecurity which says
more about you rather than your partner. It can also seem controlling
from your partner's perspective and would only serve to gather
resentment.
To deny your spouse this time would only suffocate her in the arms of
the relationship.
Anyhoo, that's just my opinion...

I think if there is trust between the two then it's ok. Sometimes we
need a little break from eachother.Come on you wake up together,shower
together,eat together,probably **** together lol and it gets to be
little smothering. Guys need to do guy stuff and women need to do women
things. I never understood why people would get upset with eachother bc
of it.Trust is the most important thing if you want to work that out but
if you're the type thats going to be wondering wwhat the other is doing
then you need to get out of that relationship or work on your own self
issues and insecurities.