Topic: DO YOU MISS INTIMACY OR LACk OF?
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Sat 09/06/08 03:55 PM
i prefer how it feels oops offtopic blushing

LouLou2's photo
Sat 09/06/08 03:59 PM

Lou & indi,well written.
Spooning is a BIG favorite for me.
a nice nite spooning, doesn't HAVE to include sex.
Better if it does.pitchfork frustrated frustrated
Why Lord do I say things like that.
Helping feed the pygmise again.bigsmile blushing blushing shocked

It's worth it.:thumbsup: :angel: winking


rofl

KoolAidWoman's photo
Sat 09/06/08 04:01 PM
Hi to all! Intimacy;very friendly,suggesting privacy;very personal;close friend;I had it in my life and shell again because i know how to be.
Intimate,A man said he'll never stop searching.
To me that was realy touching!go on Brother and.
Ask and yee shall recive Christ, and some of us have.
And we'll be blessed soon.Just something to ponder
On!waving smile2 flowerforyou

KoolAidWoman's photo
Sat 09/06/08 04:08 PM

intimacy...ummm...well...not sure i have ever experienced true intimacy...where all the parts fit together...including the heart...

... an unconditional giving coupled with the physical...i think they call that love...at this old age its still on my "to do" list... and not for lack of effort...but a one-sided connection doesn't get it...

im wondering if perhaps some of us are just not meant to experience true intimacy in this lifetime...

have any of you also not experienced shared love/true intimacy?
Great answer Girl you'll have it to.
Koolaid

KoolAidWoman's photo
Sat 09/06/08 04:12 PM

I miss when i could have Sex, and not have too worry about a Job,bills,kids,how my a$$ looked, more kids................etc
Thanks darling sky the limit if you ready.Koolaid,:smile:

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Sat 09/06/08 04:28 PM
KoolaidWoman...Thanks! I can use all the encouragement that I can get...

I have been told time and time again...it will happen when you least expect it...well I have to admit...I have been expecting it...for too long...

I guess it's time to lie lowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww...

flame1cutie's photo
Sat 09/06/08 04:51 PM

KoolaidWoman...Thanks! I can use all the encouragement that I can get...

I have been told time and time again...it will happen when you least expect it...well I have to admit...I have been expecting it...for too long...

I guess it's time to lie lowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww...
Just have some fun on here and enjoy yourself, don't be in a hurry, what you were told is true, one day it will be starring you right in the face, until then have some fun on here.bigsmile

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Sat 09/06/08 05:01 PM
i am beginning tonight...looks like it can happen...huh?

flame1cutie's photo
Sat 09/06/08 06:02 PM

i am beginning tonight...looks like it can happen...huh?
Yep, it sure can happenbigsmile smitten

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Sun 09/07/08 05:48 AM

i am beginning tonight...looks like it can happen...huh?

welcome to the forums indiblue. this is a great place to relax and chat, get to make some new friends. lots of good ppl here.

oldsage's photo
Sun 09/07/08 10:03 AM
Indi, if you need some help looking, I could be convinced to help.......LOOK????????????

what are we going to LOOK for again?pitchfork bigsmile bigsmile :tongue:

KoolAidWoman's photo
Mon 09/08/08 09:11 AM
Edited by KoolAidWoman on Mon 09/08/08 09:15 AM

i am beginning tonight...looks like it can happen...huh?
hay no thanks: You go girl you have the key to this one {drinker Koolaid of course Koolaid}

AJ2WINGS's photo
Fri 09/12/08 01:02 PM
I have thought that what I missed most about my wife since she died was companionship but perhaps it is really intimacy. We spent so much time together, especially near the end, that I wondered if we were truly one.

Now, 1 3/4 year later I am beginning to regain my own identity and energy. No wonder that I wonder who am I -- thanks for giving me this to think about.

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Fri 09/12/08 01:06 PM
hi AJ. lots of good ppl hear to talk to. have you check out the widow and widowers thread? There seem to be a lot of folks there who really understand what your going through. Keep posting.

flame1cutie's photo
Fri 09/12/08 01:27 PM
waving Welcome AJ, post and have a good time meeting the people on here. They are all real nice. Make some friends and enjoy yourselfflowerforyou

BettyB's photo
Fri 09/12/08 04:29 PM
I might miss intamacy if I could remeber itlaugh tears noway

KoolAidWoman's photo
Fri 09/12/08 08:30 PM
Edited by KoolAidWoman on Fri 09/12/08 08:33 PM

I have thought that what I missed most about my wife since she died was companionship but perhaps it is really intimacy. We spent so much time together, especially near the end, that I wondered if we were truly one.

Now, 1 3/4 year later I am beginning to regain my own identity and energy. No wonder that I wonder who am I -- thanks for giving me this to think about.
Hang in there your friendships are the best! just watch some cartoons and relive somethings that made you happy in the fore ground.
I don't care what peeps think im not giving up.
Mighty mouse-Tom&Jerry-Popeye,No way thanks and God bless Koolaidwoman. of course}Be in love with you for a change {Your welcome} Just something to ponder on!and Take care of yourself Bev-9/12/08

polypeasant's photo
Fri 09/12/08 08:35 PM
HEY KOOLwaving
WELCOME AJflowers
Yes lets not give up. The human body and soul needs touch. Touching reduces high blood pressure and so much more if I remember.rofl


carolanne58's photo
Fri 09/12/08 08:40 PM

I miss all of it, but I especially miss the little intimacies that go with an exclusive, committed, lovingly intimate relationship. The knowing without the need for words, the comfortable feeling of an arm around my shoulders or a hand holding mine, falling asleep like spoons, a shoulder to rest my head on while watching a movie or listening to music, an ear to fill with my thoughts & dreams. Oh, yes. Yes, I do. I sure do miss all of it...frown

Couldn't have said it better myself cheers!

oldsage's photo
Sat 09/13/08 04:20 AM
You've been hiding, maybe getting some of this?
Good to see those legs back, where are those OTHER pics???flowers flowers flowers