Topic: DO YOU MISS INTIMACY OR LACk OF? | |
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i prefer how it feels
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Lou & indi,well written. Spooning is a BIG favorite for me. a nice nite spooning, doesn't HAVE to include sex. Better if it does. Why Lord do I say things like that. Helping feed the pygmise again. It's worth it. |
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Hi to all! Intimacy;very friendly,suggesting privacy;very personal;close friend;I had it in my life and shell again because i know how to be.
Intimate,A man said he'll never stop searching. To me that was realy touching!go on Brother and. Ask and yee shall recive Christ, and some of us have. And we'll be blessed soon.Just something to ponder On! |
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intimacy...ummm...well...not sure i have ever experienced true intimacy...where all the parts fit together...including the heart... ... an unconditional giving coupled with the physical...i think they call that love...at this old age its still on my "to do" list... and not for lack of effort...but a one-sided connection doesn't get it... im wondering if perhaps some of us are just not meant to experience true intimacy in this lifetime... have any of you also not experienced shared love/true intimacy? Koolaid |
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I miss when i could have Sex, and not have too worry about a Job,bills,kids,how my a$$ looked, more kids................etc |
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KoolaidWoman...Thanks! I can use all the encouragement that I can get...
I have been told time and time again...it will happen when you least expect it...well I have to admit...I have been expecting it...for too long... I guess it's time to lie lowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww... |
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KoolaidWoman...Thanks! I can use all the encouragement that I can get... I have been told time and time again...it will happen when you least expect it...well I have to admit...I have been expecting it...for too long... I guess it's time to lie lowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww... |
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i am beginning tonight...looks like it can happen...huh?
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i am beginning tonight...looks like it can happen...huh? |
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i am beginning tonight...looks like it can happen...huh? welcome to the forums indiblue. this is a great place to relax and chat, get to make some new friends. lots of good ppl here. |
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Indi, if you need some help looking, I could be convinced to help.......LOOK????????????
what are we going to LOOK for again? |
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Edited by
KoolAidWoman
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Mon 09/08/08 09:15 AM
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i am beginning tonight...looks like it can happen...huh? |
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I have thought that what I missed most about my wife since she died was companionship but perhaps it is really intimacy. We spent so much time together, especially near the end, that I wondered if we were truly one.
Now, 1 3/4 year later I am beginning to regain my own identity and energy. No wonder that I wonder who am I -- thanks for giving me this to think about. |
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hi AJ. lots of good ppl hear to talk to. have you check out the widow and widowers thread? There seem to be a lot of folks there who really understand what your going through. Keep posting.
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Welcome AJ, post and have a good time meeting the people on here. They are all real nice. Make some friends and enjoy yourself
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I might miss intamacy if I could remeber it
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Edited by
KoolAidWoman
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Fri 09/12/08 08:33 PM
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I have thought that what I missed most about my wife since she died was companionship but perhaps it is really intimacy. We spent so much time together, especially near the end, that I wondered if we were truly one. Now, 1 3/4 year later I am beginning to regain my own identity and energy. No wonder that I wonder who am I -- thanks for giving me this to think about. I don't care what peeps think im not giving up. Mighty mouse-Tom&Jerry-Popeye,No way thanks and God bless Koolaidwoman. of course}Be in love with you for a change {Your welcome} Just something to ponder on!and Take care of yourself Bev-9/12/08 |
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HEY KOOL
WELCOME AJ Yes lets not give up. The human body and soul needs touch. Touching reduces high blood pressure and so much more if I remember. |
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I miss all of it, but I especially miss the little intimacies that go with an exclusive, committed, lovingly intimate relationship. The knowing without the need for words, the comfortable feeling of an arm around my shoulders or a hand holding mine, falling asleep like spoons, a shoulder to rest my head on while watching a movie or listening to music, an ear to fill with my thoughts & dreams. Oh, yes. Yes, I do. I sure do miss all of it... Couldn't have said it better myself cheers! |
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You've been hiding, maybe getting some of this?
Good to see those legs back, where are those OTHER pics??? |
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