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Topic: DO YOU MISS INTIMACY OR LACk OF?
carold's photo
Mon 09/22/08 02:21 PM

Morning Carold and Sage!
Hey Greer what have you been up too :)

oldsage's photo
Mon 09/22/08 03:23 PM
Looks like she's not talking.

broncosrock's photo
Wed 09/24/08 04:57 PM

intimacy...ummm...well...not sure i have ever experienced true intimacy...where all the parts fit together...including the heart...

... an unconditional giving coupled with the physical...i think they call that love...at this old age its still on my "to do" list... and not for lack of effort...but a one-sided connection doesn't get it...

im wondering if perhaps some of us are just not meant to experience true intimacy in this lifetime...

have any of you also not experienced shared love/true intimacy?

indy, those words could have been spoken by me! I've been married twice, but sadly never feel like I've been truly in love, and had that special connection that so many of my friends found. I've questioned, too, if maybe some of us just aren't meant to have that experience. I'm an optimist, and I guess it could still happen. If it's meant to be, it will happen I guess. I know one thing, we all don't get enough hugs, so "hugs" to you all!:smile: :heart: flowerforyou

oldsage's photo
Thu 09/25/08 12:43 AM
Frst wife; no

Gwen; yes

Past 11 yrs; no

Think Bronco & Indy hit it on the head.

Like love, there are different levels of INTIMACY.

May we all attain the highest level, our hearts will allow.

broncosrock's photo
Thu 09/25/08 06:17 AM
Thanks, Sage, and I hope that we all reach that level, too. I'd just like to find a fishing buddy, that would be a start, and someone to go to car shows, sporting events, etc. with. My few single girlfriends don't share my enthusiasm for some of those things. :smile: flowerforyou

tterry71's photo
Sun 10/05/08 05:31 PM
Intimacy can be as simple as holding hands

tterry71's photo
Sun 10/05/08 05:33 PM
Only If one wants to be alone is he/she alone

carolanne58's photo
Sun 10/05/08 09:13 PM
Still waiting for that intimacy thing to happen.lol
It has been a long time since I experienced that feeling of genuine love and affection.Sure I have dated but nothing has come close to the respect,the knowing glances and affection that can pass between our selves and those we love.

oldsage's photo
Mon 10/06/08 03:52 AM
Gets harder to find the older we get.
Good friends are where I seem to end up.
Spoiled by what we had, think we come to understand that there are so many different levels of intimacy/relationships/friendships, we realize that what was; may never be again.

JMO

Greyhound's photo
Mon 10/06/08 04:13 AM
Once again sage. Well said and so true.flowerforyou

carolanne58's photo
Mon 10/06/08 10:06 PM
Sorry to disagree but I believe that I will have that again. smileing

racerjon's photo
Sun 10/12/08 03:45 PM
Yes, I miss it very much.

KoolAidWoman's photo
Sun 10/12/08 04:44 PM
Welcome Jon,to the fab 50s im koolaid! intimacy,
Sure hold's some great memories for us huh!
Have some good one of course Koolaid!

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