Topic: Goof asks......
SunnyMcleod's photo
Mon 08/11/08 12:07 PM
"Baby Got Back":banana: :banana: :banana: laugh laugh laugh

msmyka's photo
Mon 08/11/08 12:09 PM
Same goes for guys.... Guys dont want a "dirty girl" they want a nice girl that they can corrupt and do dirty things to.

Women want a "bad boy" who they can tame into a nice guy of their very own.



Goofball73's photo
Mon 08/11/08 12:12 PM

Same goes for guys.... Guys dont want a "dirty girl" they want a nice girl that they can corrupt and do dirty things to.

Women want a "bad boy" who they can tame into a nice guy of their very own.





Nah. I was way corrupted before I met my girlfriend. She just opened it back up cause my ex-wife had closed it.bigsmile laugh

But, I do see your point here. If I am reading into right.

msmyka's photo
Mon 08/11/08 12:14 PM
The gist of it is that we ALL want the best of both worlds so we all need a little pitchfork and :angel:

Goofball73's photo
Mon 08/11/08 12:17 PM
Yup. Guys....we need to start a Fight Club!laugh

DestinysDream's photo
Mon 08/11/08 12:19 PM
Women don't want a choirboy. What do women see in a bad boy? Its all about sex and attraction. Guys do the same thing when they go ga-ga over a silicone injected tramp.

Goofball73's photo
Mon 08/11/08 12:25 PM

"Baby Got Back":banana: :banana: :banana: laugh laugh laugh


OMG....Becky!laugh laugh laugh laugh

No1sLove's photo
Mon 08/11/08 12:42 PM
Edited by No1sLove on Mon 08/11/08 12:45 PM


Tanya states my mind exactly. Nice guy does not mean living at the florist and cooking gourmet meals every night. flowerforyou Bad boy does not mean drunk and rowdy bank robber wanted in 12 states. noway

I think most women like someone who can be thoughtful without being asked to be, but can break the speed limit now and then too. :wink:

I see so many men walking on the black or white side of the fence, but few who seem to be able to jump back and forth anymore. All we want is someone who can jump the fence now and then. flowerforyou



So, in other words, you want the perfect man huh? Nice guy who is also able to live a little on the edge? I hate to break this to you...but majority of nice guys do this already. You guys just can't seem to get passed the exterior part of it enough to see it. Just my humble opinion.

My girlfriends answer was she felt that women don't know if the bad boy is truly theirs, and as a result, they stay with them and put up with alot more cause it is like a cat and mouse game. She feels that if a woman has a man, and she knows she does, yet she becomes bored with him, then she is going to lose interest in him. Bad boys are often mysterious, and thus it intrigues women.
Sure...the perfect man is something a little different to each of us though. My perfect man likes to drag race, but is useful in the kitchen too. He can grow a perfect lawn, and is not scared of that laundry washing thingamajiggy. laugh

As long as he takes off the apron before jumping on his hog to run to the store for my tampons, life is perfect, cause I don't have to be his mama, and he don't have to always be a lumberjack. flowerforyou Balance is the key.

tanyaann's photo
Mon 08/11/08 12:50 PM
Edited by tanyaann on Mon 08/11/08 12:50 PM
rofl lova ya, sweets! rofl





Sure...the perfect man is something a little different to each of us though. My perfect man likes to drag race, but is useful in the kitchen too. He can grow a perfect lawn, and is not scared of that laundry washing thingamajiggy. laugh

As long as he takes off the apron before jumping on his hog to run to the store for my tampons, life is perfect, cause I don't have to be his mama, and he don't have to always be a lumberjack. flowerforyou Balance is the key.



SunnyMcleod's photo
Mon 08/11/08 01:40 PM


"Baby Got Back":banana: :banana: :banana: laugh laugh laugh


OMG....Becky!laugh laugh laugh laugh

For some reason I thought that when I saw your one postembarassed laugh

But c'mon, every girl wants a guy who'll drool all over her and wanna do all the good bad stuff. All the while being an all around good guy. bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

Joaverage's photo
Mon 08/11/08 01:51 PM
Don't ya'll think bad boy image:facial hair, tatoos,Harley riding,jeans and tank top kinda looks rough around the edges but has respect and treats you right?I think its mostly about the look???? Or not?

DestinysDream's photo
Mon 08/11/08 02:31 PM
I do. I'm not a woman but I think it turns some on to see that imagery. I think it also carries into the relationship. The "bad boy" does something which is asinine but the woman forgives him. Why? Do women think he is a "bad boy" therefore the bad behavior is part of his image?

Oh what a tangled web we weave.

galendgirl's photo
Mon 08/11/08 05:45 PM

It's funny. My lady prevents me from being the "bad boy". Well, except in the bedroom, but that is another topic for another thread.bigsmile laugh

And, I'm sorry, but alot of bad boys have more insecurities about them then nice guys do. At least I know my limits. Bad boys put on more of an act than nice guys do. Just my observation.

And before you ask, yes, I love bad women. Mine is good in so many ways, and bad in the ways that I want her to be.bigsmile I never say I want a good, obedient woman who will worship me. I tell the truth. If you got back, and attitude...let's talk.laugh


Sounds like you HAVE found the perfect balance...not the perfect person (you or her) just the BALANCE...awesome!:smile:

cflbikedog's photo
Mon 08/11/08 05:52 PM
I think what they really want is the plunger, Goof.....

no photo
Mon 08/11/08 06:04 PM

I think we just want a balanced person.

Some guys that say that they are 'nice guys' are whiney. Girls hate whiners!!!!!

We just want someone that is firm on their beliefs but respectful of other's beliefs/opinions/etc.

Does that make sense?


Makes perfect sense. No one wants someone who whines about being too nice all the time. It isn't attractive. Being in between a "nice guy" and a "bad boy" is good.

Goofball73's photo
Tue 08/12/08 12:45 AM
Nice guys whine all the time huh? Well, that is only cause you ladies talk of having a man who is in touch with his feelings. So what if some dude goes to the extreme? You asked for it, and now you received it...and now you wanna take it back. Sheesh!!:wink: bigsmile

JustAGuy2112's photo
Tue 08/12/08 01:19 AM

Nice guys whine all the time huh? Well, that is only cause you ladies talk of having a man who is in touch with his feelings. So what if some dude goes to the extreme? You asked for it, and now you received it...and now you wanna take it back. Sheesh!!:wink: bigsmile


Just face it, Goof. No matter what we do, we simply can't win....lol

Goofball73's photo
Tue 08/12/08 01:26 AM


Nice guys whine all the time huh? Well, that is only cause you ladies talk of having a man who is in touch with his feelings. So what if some dude goes to the extreme? You asked for it, and now you received it...and now you wanna take it back. Sheesh!!:wink: bigsmile


Just face it, Goof. No matter what we do, we simply can't win....lol


As Buzz Lightyear says, "Too infinity, and...."....wait. No. Not that line. Oh yeah. "Never give up. Never surrender!":wink: laugh

no photo
Tue 08/12/08 02:24 AM
bah!!! do I have to explain everything lucy????noway

Stallion99's photo
Tue 08/12/08 02:38 AM
Edited by Stallion99 on Tue 08/12/08 02:45 AM
Man I've been asking this same question for YEARS!!!! One of my exes left me and then got with a "bad boy." Next thing I know she calls my phone crying about how he broke her heart. Women listen to the name. Bad boys are just that... BAD!!!!