Topic: The Love Doctor
tanyaann's photo
Thu 07/31/08 08:37 AM
Let her go, Mrtap! Let her go, work on yourself, do things that you like to do, don't look, and the 'one' will come into your life! Best wishes!

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Thu 07/31/08 08:40 AM
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jtitol's photo
Thu 07/31/08 08:41 AM


luv doc here i go pay atencion to papi im in between the 2 options u mention earlier


So you are one that falls, but won't let anyone know until you have reassurance its mutal. Correct?
almost rite on the money thats rea mean lots of long sex i intend to wait 4 women to say i luv u like u and i want some even tho i ll never back when back down in the courtship all ladies the have 2 watch out for ricky s mojo

tanyaann's photo
Thu 07/31/08 08:42 AM
laugh

jtitol's photo
Thu 07/31/08 08:52 AM
the latin lover always hits the rite spots oh yeah both mentaly physically and emotionally no wonder he is so irresistable wacha

tanyaann's photo
Thu 07/31/08 08:54 AM
Oh so that is why my boyfriend is latin huh? Thanks for providing me with that enlightenment! laugh

jtitol's photo
Thu 07/31/08 08:59 AM

Oh so that is why my boyfriend is latin huh? Thanks for providing me with that enlightenment! laugh
laughlaugh laugh ware is he from this law of don juan only applies 2 pure breed full latin genes and has to be born outside the us:tongue:

tanyaann's photo
Thu 07/31/08 09:10 AM


Oh so that is why my boyfriend is latin huh? Thanks for providing me with that enlightenment! laugh
laughlaugh laugh ware is he from this law of don juan only applies 2 pure breed full latin genes and has to be born outside the us:tongue:


yeah, he was born in south america. Still fresh to the US!

jtitol's photo
Thu 07/31/08 09:19 AM



Oh so that is why my boyfriend is latin huh? Thanks for providing me with that enlightenment! laugh
laughlaugh laugh ware is he from this law of don juan only applies 2 pure breed full latin genes and has to be born outside the us:tongue:


yeah, he was born in south america. Still fresh to the US!
ware does he speak fluent english oh i forgot he has to be from el barrio so he can have elengancy combinada con el callejon

tanyaann's photo
Thu 07/31/08 09:21 AM
Edited by tanyaann on Thu 07/31/08 09:21 AM
laugh

He is college educated back in his country and here in the US, so yes he is fluent in english (still needs work but fluent)

And I don't know spanish... so that last part lost me. laugh

fairycatcher31's photo
Thu 07/31/08 09:24 AM
I have to agree with Mirror love is an addiction...when you feel like you can't breath let alone live without them...what it is a scary yet amazing feeling all wrapped into one!
I am not sure where Sharon and I fall in the two cats but we love and respect each other and KNEW the second we saw each other the physical thing was NEVER going to be an issue! drool rofl And now that she is here we have a lifetime to figure it all out!smitten

tanyaann's photo
Thu 07/31/08 09:27 AM
flowerforyou To a long, healthy, and happy life together for both of you! ((((fairy))))

No1sLove's photo
Thu 07/31/08 09:30 AM

Trying something a little different....

From time to time, I will try to post some kind of discussion point about love, relationships, marriage, etc... Something to get you thinking about yourself.

Feel free to post questions or discussion points that you need help figuring out.



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Two Different Types of Love

We all know love is love right? Those heart flutters, sweaty palms, for me, hives (I get them when I am nervous)... anyways.. I want to focus today on two different types. I am pretty sure that love like a number of different aspects of life falls on a spectrum, there is no black and white. But I want to try to describe some of the polar ends of the rainbow of love.

The first one is where emotions and physical are separate. And no, I am not talking about one-nite stands or cold people. What I am saying is people that clearly can tell someone that they love them based solely on how they feel in their heart. However, the kicker is that they will not commit completely to this until they are sure of the physical. These are usually the people that take a while to fall in love. They need time to let their initial feelings grow and test them against life.

The other one is where emotions and physical are one. There is no separating them. So when you tell someone you love them, it is with everything you are or ever could be. These are the people that fall fast and hard. Ever wonder why your girlfriend is blubbering over not being able to spend time with you, it could be because there is no way to separate the emotion and phyical aspects of love. It hurts just like breaking their heart to try to separate it. You can also think of this type as all or nothing. You are there 100+% or you aren't.

Why is this important you ask. Because with online dating it helps the know what yours and your potential partners' love style is.

So, what is your love style? Where do you fall on the spectrum? Are you in a relationship, where do you and your partner fall? Are you the same or different? How do you handle difference?


Okay, I'll shut up now and let you all voice your opinions and comments.
Hummm...is it possible to be a cross between both I wonder. I am someone it takes a while to get there, but once I'm there and the physical begins...I can't separate emotional from physical.

Then again I have never fallen in under three months before now, so maybe I'm morphing from slow to fast and hard. I guess it all depends on if you consider 3-4 months a short or long time. I think that probably depends on the amount and quality of communication put forth and drawn from each other in that time frame too.

Am I offtopic enough yet? :laughing:

tanyaann's photo
Thu 07/31/08 09:33 AM
No1sLove, as I mentioned love falls on a spectrum... so you may not fall into one or the other but a little of both!

Thanks for sharing your experience... and this isn't really thread that can go off topic... we take it where it flows...

if you can add anything or have a question feel free to post!


jtitol's photo
Thu 07/31/08 09:36 AM

laugh

He is college educated back in his country and here in the US, so yes he is fluent in english (still needs work but fluent)

And I don't know spanish... so that last part lost me. laugh
laugh laugh laugh ware is he from? el barrio means the hood and elengancy combined with the streets still needs work wat??? english easy to learn and i should come naturally once learned

tanyaann's photo
Thu 07/31/08 09:46 AM
Edited by tanyaann on Thu 07/31/08 09:47 AM
He is from the biggest city in his country.

I would say that he was probably had a middle class up bringing. Especially compared to my up bring.

His english is just fine, I am just exteremely critical about everything! laugh He asked me to correct his pronouncation and I do!

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 07/31/08 09:48 AM
love I need Dr.Tanyaann to make a house call:tongue:

tanyaann's photo
Thu 07/31/08 09:49 AM

love I need Dr.Tanyaann to make a house call:tongue:


*shakes her head* mirror mirror mirror mirror!

jtitol's photo
Thu 07/31/08 09:52 AM

love I need Dr.Tanyaann to make a house call:tongue:
m how about i go to ur house and give a big surprise

tanyaann's photo
Thu 07/31/08 09:54 AM
Yeah, give it mirrormirror so he'll leave me alone! laugh