Don't know about ya'll but, it seems like my level is dropping.
Used to be, when I saw a lady I was attracted to, I could feel the anticipation rising. Heart racing, knees tremble, face flushing. The type of things that get the pheremones stirring.
To my understanding, that is the main thing that gets the attention of a potential mate.
What do you think?
Have you noticed a change?
Is there a way to exersize or reguvinate them back into action?

Swish----right over MY head!!!

YES, YOU CAN EXCERSIZE: Put the little blue pill in your hand... raise hand to mouth, swallow the pill with a glass of water.

maybe start looking for more than just physical attraction. Maybe once you connect on an emotional, mental, and spiritual level you will feel things rising.

Well said Hiker!!! Some people think that the attractions between the sexes is RIGHT NOW. I be-
lieve that attractions are made of knowledge of each other.

pheromones or hormones?

I think he meant bones

That sounds like that could work.

Are you seeing ladies you are attracted to & ? you are not getting that response?
or not being attracted to anyone lately

I think he is a hit and run poster. He starts threads but never comes back to respond to the people who post.

Which is, by the way, considered rude.

Sounds kinda' unfriendly to me!!

Hickerchick, Assumptions are made without investigation. That may be rude. I have a life outside the internet and am not on 24/7. I get on when I can. I think you condemnation is rude.
Physical attraction is just as important as emotion, ie, spiritual attraction. Why do we post pictures if the physical isn't important?
Many profiles say, I won't respond without seeing what you look like. If it were just for emotions, what is the need for a picture.
As I understand a woman needs hormones to to feel desires. Right or wrong?
Bonniebelle. No, I'm not seeing anyone right now and the desire to pursue, like when I was younger, has diminished a bit. Some women my age say, "I'm single, and want to stay that way. Don't want a man in the house permenantly." I see that as diminished desire also.

willing, I think I understand what you are saying.
Yes, looks & emotions both come to play.
I don't hear you just talking about sex.
Understand that you won't go where you don't seem to be wanted.
Hang in here, get to know folks & I think you will do just fine.
Ever need to bounce some ideas around, drop me a mail.

Yes, I think, for there to be a willingness to even communicate,on any level, there has to be a chemical click.
I wonder, how often that has happened with just viewing a picture or reading a profile?

Sometimes you just have to talk and get to know the person and then see what happens.

It was an observation based on your behavior in two threads that I have seen you in. It was not a condemnation.

It is customary, when starting a thread, to stick around and interact with the people who take the time to post.

I apologize if you felt I was condemning you, as I was not.

One reason women insist on pictures is that many married men troll these sites and will only send pictures privately. Posting a pic is a way of saying that you are not hiding. Also, I can't speak for anyone else, but I like to put a face to a name. That being said, I have often been known to contact someone because he said something particularly intelligent or witty in the forums; only to realize afterward that all of his pics are avatars and there were no pics of him.

Thats how much looks matter.

Willing, I can not agree with the word "chemical."
I have contacted people due to something they have said, provoked an interest. Even with no pic. I watch what people say, how they say it & look for a pattern in their remarks. I find this to be a much better way to form opinions of people. Pics can be arranged to hide physical features, that folks might prejudge on. After having done this for a few yrs., I find I can get a good idea of the real person, using this items for a guide.

Very well said! Sometimes he who listens has much more to say.

Pheremones are just a "thing"!!!!! We, as a whole,
all use them to decide if we are interested in
one another.