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Topic: those who have experienced true pain
Maureeno Joined Sat 04/26/08 Posts: 1780	Wed 06/18/08 03:49 PM
can appreciate true joy and thankfulness and the bonus of having deep inner strength

kendrab90 Joined Tue 04/15/08 Posts: 1917	Wed 06/18/08 03:50 PM
i miss nik will someone please tell him to sign the divorce papers

Maureeno Joined Sat 04/26/08 Posts: 1780	Wed 06/18/08 03:50 PM
i miss nik will someone please tell him to sign the divorce papers lol

wraithme66 Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 1909	Wed 06/18/08 04:14 PM
Hey... If every day was good... There would be noo good days.

bluesunflower Joined Thu 05/15/08 Posts: 1163	Wed 06/18/08 04:15 PM Edited by bluesunflower on Wed 06/18/08 04:26 PM
i must ask and not to open some big can of worms. but what is the definition of true pain to you?

Maureeno Joined Sat 04/26/08 Posts: 1780	Wed 06/18/08 04:32 PM
i must ask and not to open some big can of worms. but what is the definition of true pain to you? a broken heart.

bluesunflower Joined Thu 05/15/08 Posts: 1163	Wed 06/18/08 04:34 PM
i must ask and not to open some big can of worms. but what is the definition of true pain to you? a broken heart. then why in the other thread were you kinda dogging on the dude with a broken heart..telling him when he feels true pain....nm i dont want to get into this. peace n luv

chris1979 Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 4987	Wed 06/18/08 04:35 PM
no such thing as pain

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Wed 06/18/08 04:36 PM
can appreciate true joy and thankfulness and the bonus of having deep inner strength I would definately agree with THAT!

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Wed 06/18/08 04:47 PM
you read my mind i must ask and not to open some big can of worms. but what is the definition of true pain to you? a broken heart. then why in the other thread were you kinda dogging on the dude with a broken heart..telling him when he feels true pain....nm i dont want to get into this. peace n luv

Maureeno Joined Sat 04/26/08 Posts: 1780	Thu 06/19/08 11:46 AM
then why in the other thread were you kinda dogging on the dude with a broken heart..telling him when he feels true pain....nm i dont want to get into this. peace n luv his heart is not broken, he said he was hurt. and it takes more than 6 months to break a heart. it it was broken withink 6 months then its not really the heart, its just feelings and pride. the heart does not breakt like that.

bluesunflower Joined Thu 05/15/08 Posts: 1163	Thu 06/19/08 03:46 PM
oh man you can believe that it takes longer than six months but everyone is different. you cant say that it is a definate 6 months and over type thing just because it was that way with you. yes i know he said he was hurt, then why did you bring true pain up. peace n luv this is all jmo of course

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Thu 06/19/08 03:56 PM
some fall faster than others.. and some times there is a "click" where you are suposed to be with them.. or so it seems at the time...... and this pian is jsut as deep and true as the true pain you were talking of.. i met someone once.. we were together every day for 4 months... call me anything you want o call me.. but we were engaged after 4 months.. were engaged for another 3 months.. and he died in my arms after a horrible car accident... was my pain any less than the guy to whom you are refering?? or is there some sort of circumstaces that govern "true pain" and imaginary pain!!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!

boneyjoe Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 6196	Thu 06/19/08 03:58 PM
some pain last for ever

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Thu 06/19/08 04:00 PM
do you mean emotional pain? cuz that piercing did nothing for my inner strength.

bluesunflower Joined Thu 05/15/08 Posts: 1163	Thu 06/19/08 04:02 PM
some fall faster than others.. and some times there is a "click" where you are suposed to be with them.. or so it seems at the time...... and this pian is jsut as deep and true as the true pain you were talking of.. i met someone once.. we were together every day for 4 months... call me anything you want o call me.. but we were engaged after 4 months.. were engaged for another 3 months.. and he died in my arms after a horrible car accident... was my pain any less than the guy to whom you are refering?? or is there some sort of circumstaces that govern "true pain" and imaginary pain!!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?! i am so sorry to hear of your loss izzie. i am glad i am not the only one upset by the topic earlier. take care lady

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 06/19/08 04:04 PM
can appreciate true joy and thankfulness and the bonus of having deep inner strength A strong heart is one that has been broken many times.

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Thu 06/19/08 04:08 PM
i am so sorry to hear of your loss izzie. i am glad i am not the only one upset by the topic earlier. take care lady thank you blue sunflower... it wasalmost 8 years ago. but it still upsets me when some people act so ignorant of some peoples feelings. like joe said.. some pain lasts forever..

Maureeno Joined Sat 04/26/08 Posts: 1780	Thu 06/19/08 05:29 PM
oh man you can believe that it takes longer than six months but everyone is different. you cant say that it is a definate 6 months and over type thing just because it was that way with you. yes i know he said he was hurt, then why did you bring true pain up. peace n luv this is all jmo of course i changed the topic from heart to pain . it was not a continuation of the subject, incase you did not notice.

Maureeno Joined Sat 04/26/08 Posts: 1780	Thu 06/19/08 05:56 PM
some fall faster than others.. and some times there is a "click" where you are suposed to be with them.. or so it seems at the time...... and this pian is jsut as deep and true as the true pain you were talking of.. i met someone once.. we were together every day for 4 months... call me anything you want o call me.. but we were engaged after 4 months.. were engaged for another 3 months.. and he died in my arms after a horrible car accident... was my pain any less than the guy to whom you are refering?? or is there some sort of circumstaces that govern "true pain" and imaginary pain!!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?! first of all, i am sorry to hear about your loss. that is tragic. the circumstances in which you lost the one you were beginning to love is different from a guy who spend perhaps 5 days out of 6 with someone for 6 months, if you add those days up. its hardly any time to really, truly love someone. in my opinion. and, i doubt whether they spend all 24 hours together. so think about it. but most definitely your loss cannot be compared to the situation in discussed.