the point in my story was that there is no way for ANY one to know how somone feels about someone.. unless they are that person..
the people that i grew up with.. the same ones that thought we were such a cute couple.. and "knew that our lives together would be so blessed!!"
stood back and told me that i had no right to miss him like i did when he was gone. said that i had not known him long enough to feel the loss that friends who had known him since grade school had felt.


the point in was and is this.. who are you.. who am i who are any of us to judge the feelings of another person.. im not sayin that i dont to some extent agree.. im just sayin that you should have done the same thing that some people should have done for me back then.. shown some tact.. and some compassion...

thank you.
jmo of course/.

thank you izzie you have said it better n nicer than i could have

hugs to you dear lady

They arent stumbling blocks they are stepping stones!