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Topic: Do you still enjoy intimacy?
greer51 Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 2419	Thu 06/19/08 09:05 AM
Weel said Sage!!!

musichic Joined Wed 04/11/07 Posts: 8937	Fri 06/20/08 06:35 AM
So now I go on to make new memories.

notboring111 Joined Sat 10/27/07 Posts: 193	Fri 06/20/08 06:45 AM
Every morning I look in the mirror while brushing my teeth and laugh at what I see. I look forward to the day and don't look back except for the lessons I have learned that have changed me for the positive.

musichic Joined Wed 04/11/07 Posts: 8937	Fri 06/20/08 06:48 AM
sounds like a great outlook

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Fri 06/20/08 01:22 PM
Bet Musichic can create some GOOD memories.

musichic Joined Wed 04/11/07 Posts: 8937	Fri 06/20/08 01:43 PM
I sure can

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Fri 06/20/08 01:44 PM
I see/hear lots of promises. We will just have to see.

musichic Joined Wed 04/11/07 Posts: 8937	Fri 06/20/08 01:46 PM
I see/hear lots of promises. We will just have to see. not just empty promises. you'll see

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Fri 06/20/08 01:51 PM
INTERESTING

musichic Joined Wed 04/11/07 Posts: 8937	Fri 06/20/08 01:52 PM


yashafox_F4X1 Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 2079	Fri 06/20/08 02:20 PM
I got ADD: Affection Deficit Disorder! Hey. What if you type colon smile colon. Would it make one of those little symbols?

yashafox_F4X1 Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 2079	Fri 06/20/08 02:23 PM
Yeah. It did. Whadya know!

musichic Joined Wed 04/11/07 Posts: 8937	Fri 06/20/08 02:32 PM
sorry to hear you have ADD

LouLou2 Joined Sun 04/13/08 Posts: 1685	Fri 06/20/08 02:49 PM
OMG...nearly brought tears to my eyes...it has been years and years since I've had that sort of intimate, special touch. Yes, I miss it terribly and, no, it is not immature to feel that way! Touch & tenderness are basic...something we all need no matter our age. It's a big world...I can't quit believing that I will find it out there somewhere with someone who is just right for me. Wishing that for all of us..

sam53 Joined Wed 03/12/08 Posts: 2073	Fri 06/20/08 03:55 PM
I think that intimacy, like love has different levels. I have experienced intimate moments with ladies & value those times greatly. But, the intimate moments with THAT special person, can never be achieved again. So, close,tender, intimate moments will happen again. You have to accept each for it's own level. Those memories you MIGHT want to duplicate, prob. will never happen. You are still young at heart go for it and it will happen again . Life is just a passing game and it should always be enjoyed . .

carolanne58 Joined Wed 07/18/07 Posts: 1727	Fri 06/20/08 07:42 PM
I think that intimacy, like love has different levels. I have experienced intimate moments with ladies & value those times greatly. But, the intimate moments with THAT special person, can never be achieved again. So, close,tender, intimate moments will happen again. You have to accept each for it's own level. Those memories you MIGHT want to duplicate, prob. will never happen. Sage maybe I am reading this wrong, feel free to correct me but I get the feeling that you are convinced that you will never love anyone as much as you loved your wife? Myself I hope I meet someone who loves me and I love as much as my late husband.Don't you think your wife would want you to be happy? Is it disrespectful to fall in love again? I have grieved and moved on .Don't think that I am feeling sorry for myself because I'm not. I read in someones profile where they won't date widows because they couldn't make up their minds as to weither they wanted to date.I don't fit into that catigory.And no I don't expect my dates to be like the one I lost

musichic Joined Wed 04/11/07 Posts: 8937	Fri 06/20/08 08:16 PM
I think that intimacy, like love has different levels. I have experienced intimate moments with ladies & value those times greatly. But, the intimate moments with THAT special person, can never be achieved again. So, close,tender, intimate moments will happen again. You have to accept each for it's own level. Those memories you MIGHT want to duplicate, prob. will never happen. Sage maybe I am reading this wrong, feel free to correct me but I get the feeling that you are convinced that you will never love anyone as much as you loved your wife? Myself I hope I meet someone who loves me and I love as much as my late husband.Don't you think your wife would want you to be happy? Is it disrespectful to fall in love again? I have grieved and moved on .Don't think that I am feeling sorry for myself because I'm not. I read in someones profile where they won't date widows because they couldn't make up their minds as to weither they wanted to date.I don't fit into that catigory.And no I don't expect my dates to be like the one I lost Good for you Carolanne!

carolanne58 Joined Wed 07/18/07 Posts: 1727	Fri 06/20/08 08:27 PM Edited by carolanne58 on Fri 06/20/08 08:28 PM
Hello there how are you tonight?Maybe I say to much and am scaring guys off.But what the heck.I am tired of waiting for guys to decide whether I am pretty enough,to far away or to high maintance.By the way what does that mean,Because I take longer to get ready then you does that make me high maintance?

musichic Joined Wed 04/11/07 Posts: 8937	Fri 06/20/08 08:34 PM
i think that's just an excuse guys use when then dont' know what else to say Well, really, i guess they mean that someone who is high maintenance needs a lot of nuturing and attention.

greer51 Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 2419	Fri 06/20/08 08:44 PM
Carol and Musichic WELL SAID!!!