why is it so hard for me to let a man take control of the relationship? i emailed a friend and said if he wanted to hang out, call either my home or my cell. i have the urge to call but feel like i shouldn't bombard him. what's wrong with me?

You....look alittle crazy to me

afraid of playing with his coconuts ?

you already let him know to call you - he will if he's interested

def not afraid.....

thanks!

I don't think neither party should take control of the relationship, I think however one or the other should take the first step before the other makes plans and hooks up with some body else, then wondering why they didn't move any sooner or faster and or why didn't he or she get your signs you've been sending to either way.

Bottom line if you want something you have to go for it. If you want some one to call you there not gonna call you unless you ask them to, or unless you call them and ask them to call you right back whichever the case maybe.

Simple, we men just like to be held. You women have sex on the brain 24/7!

dangit, I told ya to just come on over

sometimes reverse psychology actually works!

Wouldnt that be nice!!!!

fyi: he already knows how i feel very clearly.

I think when we put the ball in his court, it's because we want him to demonstrate HIS level of interest. If we take the ball back...we will never know. Are we scared to know?

Trying to steer a relationship leads to unsafe driving habits, IMO...buckle up and let it ride. See what happens.

Just because he has not responded in YOUR time frame, doesn't mean he won't do so in his own.

thanks! i will just ride this one out.... but its still hard to give up control.

In short dirty............chill

he mite be busy petting his weiner