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guess my mistake was telling him to prove to me he wasn't just about sex  now he isn't showing anything. prob because of what i said.
 
he still worksout with me but this just shows me he respects my feelings. he isn't being pushy at all, even though there have been certain conversations that have been in the gutter.
its all good! i didn't exactly state that in my origonal post
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I think when we put the ball in his court, it's because we want him to demonstrate HIS level of interest. If we take the ball back...we will never know. Are we scared to know? 
Trying to steer a relationship leads to unsafe driving habits, IMO...buckle up and let it ride. See what happens. 
Just because he has not responded in YOUR time frame, doesn't mean he won't do so in his own.
thanks! i will just ride this one out.... but its still hard to give up control. The more control you give up, the more control you have... YOU CAN BANK ON THAT ONE... |
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you already let him know to call you - he will if he's interested 
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why is it so hard for me to let a man take control of the relationship? i emailed a friend and said if he wanted to hang out, call either my home or my cell. i have the urge to call but feel like i shouldn't bombard him. what's wrong with me? Did you want your friend to visit? If yes, ask him. We men folk often miss those subtle clues, and often a sledge hammer works. 
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why is it so hard for me to let a man take control of the relationship? i emailed a friend and said if he wanted to hang out, call either my home or my cell. i have the urge to call but feel like i shouldn't bombard him. what's wrong with me? Did you want your friend to visit? If yes, ask him. We men folk often miss those subtle clues, and often a sledge hammer works.
so ask him to come over to chill or to meet somewhere? |
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guess my mistake was telling him to prove to me he wasn't just about sex now he isn't showing anything. prob because of what i said.
Maybe he is showing you, by not showing anything. Remember, you have to reject a bunch of 2's before you can get a 10. |
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The more control you give up, the more control you have... YOU CAN BANK ON THAT ONE... You are getting very sleepy... very sleepy...
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guess my mistake was telling him to prove to me he wasn't just about sex now he isn't showing anything. prob because of what i said.
Maybe he is showing you, by not showing anything. Remember, you have to reject a bunch of 2's before you can get a 10. would you care to elaborate... i don't think i am quite getting what you are saying. |
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