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Topic: why is it...?
May777 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 1238	Sun 06/15/08 01:40 PM
I think when we put the ball in his court, it's because we want him to demonstrate HIS level of interest. If we take the ball back...we will never know. Are we scared to know? Trying to steer a relationship leads to unsafe driving habits, IMO...buckle up and let it ride. See what happens. Just because he has not responded in YOUR time frame, doesn't mean he won't do so in his own. awesome advice,...Tx

dirtyblonde007 Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 932	Sun 06/15/08 01:41 PM
guess my mistake was telling him to prove to me he wasn't just about sex now he isn't showing anything. prob because of what i said.

awolf1010 Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 7251	Sun 06/15/08 01:41 PM
I think when we put the ball in his court, it's because we want him to demonstrate HIS level of interest. If we take the ball back...we will never know. Are we scared to know? Trying to steer a relationship leads to unsafe driving habits, IMO...buckle up and let it ride. See what happens. Just because he has not responded in YOUR time frame, doesn't mean he won't do so in his own. I agree......

YourLove1 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5275	Sun 06/15/08 01:42 PM
guess my mistake was telling him to prove to me he wasn't just about sex now he isn't showing anything. prob because of what i said. show him your boobs

brian325 Joined Fri 10/05/07 Posts: 4132	Sun 06/15/08 01:43 PM
forget him & be my baby

dirtyblonde007 Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 932	Sun 06/15/08 01:43 PM
guess my mistake was telling him to prove to me he wasn't just about sex now he isn't showing anything. prob because of what i said. show him your boobs but that would be taking control

dirtyblonde007 Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 932	Sun 06/15/08 01:44 PM
forget him & be my baby sorry but can't forget him. i've had feelings for him for 4 years.

YourLove1 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5275	Sun 06/15/08 01:45 PM
guess my mistake was telling him to prove to me he wasn't just about sex now he isn't showing anything. prob because of what i said. show him your boobs but that would be taking control ya , but it works you mite even get to see his weiner in return

brian325 Joined Fri 10/05/07 Posts: 4132	Sun 06/15/08 01:45 PM
forget him & be my baby sorry but can't forget him. i've had feelings for him for 4 years. so how a gonna meet & find someone else with those feelings still there?

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sun 06/15/08 01:45 PM
I think when we put the ball in his court, it's because we want him to demonstrate HIS level of interest. If we take the ball back...we will never know. Are we scared to know? Trying to steer a relationship leads to unsafe driving habits, IMO...buckle up and let it ride. See what happens. Just because he has not responded in YOUR time frame, doesn't mean he won't do so in his own. I agree...... Yes, I guess you do!

YourLove1 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5275	Sun 06/15/08 01:45 PM
forget him & be my baby sorry but can't forget him. i've had feelings for him for 4 years. hang in there girl , he's your weiner

yantraimages Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 1078	Sun 06/15/08 01:46 PM
Simple, we men just like to be held. You women have sex on the brain 24/7! I know what you mean Peccy, I just want to have that deep emotional and intellectual connection, and they're always talking sex. Sex, sex, sex, that's all they think about! I feel like they're just shoppin' for coconuts and I'm the tree. I feel so used!

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Sun 06/15/08 01:47 PM
Simple, we men just like to be held. You women have sex on the brain 24/7! And there is a problem with that because.....????

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sun 06/15/08 01:50 PM
guess my mistake was telling him to prove to me he wasn't just about sex now he isn't showing anything. prob because of what i said. While apples and oranges make a delicious fruit cocktail, they can't live on the same tree, sweetie! More productive to find another apple than continue to pursue an orange, now that you know he is one.

dirtyblonde007 Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 932	Sun 06/15/08 01:59 PM
forget him & be my baby sorry but can't forget him. i've had feelings for him for 4 years. so how a gonna meet & find someone else with those feelings still there? if you notice i am only here for friends

brian325 Joined Fri 10/05/07 Posts: 4132	Sun 06/15/08 01:59 PM
if you notice i am only here for friends I ignored that part on purpose

dirtyblonde007 Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 932	Sun 06/15/08 02:02 PM
guess my mistake was telling him to prove to me he wasn't just about sex now he isn't showing anything. prob because of what i said. While apples and oranges make a delicious fruit cocktail, they can't live on the same tree, sweetie! More productive to find another apple than continue to pursue an orange, now that you know he is one. he still worksout with me but this just shows me he respects my feelings. he isn't being pushy at all, even though there have been certain conversations that have been in the gutter.

dirtyblonde007 Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 932	Sun 06/15/08 02:02 PM
Simple, we men just like to be held. You women have sex on the brain 24/7! I know what you mean Peccy, I just want to have that deep emotional and intellectual connection, and they're always talking sex. Sex, sex, sex, that's all they think about! I feel like they're just shoppin' for coconuts and I'm the tree. I feel so used!

dirtyblonde007 Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 932	Sun 06/15/08 02:03 PM
if you notice i am only here for friends I ignored that part on purpose sorry, but i was honest

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sun 06/15/08 02:04 PM
guess my mistake was telling him to prove to me he wasn't just about sex now he isn't showing anything. prob because of what i said. While apples and oranges make a delicious fruit cocktail, they can't live on the same tree, sweetie! More productive to find another apple than continue to pursue an orange, now that you know he is one. he still worksout with me but this just shows me he respects my feelings. he isn't being pushy at all, even though there have been certain conversations that have been in the gutter. Oh...I see! I misunderstood that hon!