I think that you should move another younger man in with you and see how
he feels about that!!! Then maybe he would understand how "you" feel
about his situation!!

i do truly love him and ive tried to let him go but when it comes to the
point when im going to tell him its like im not strong enough. i feel if
i let him go im really going to regret it because i dont know if they
still are sleeping together or not.and if he's not then i just lost the
man that i love for not trusting him.

Uhh....NO. He cheated on you already and you're still with him? You
are setting yourself up to get hurt girl! I understand that "cheating"
might happen in a relationship and if the person is truly sorry there is
room for forgiveness.

Why don't you put him to the test? Tell him, to give her some $$ to
help get her a place (the baby is first priority). Also, tell him you
are not happy with the idea of her moving in.

If he allows her to move in, then I would move on if I were you. He
obviously doesn't care about your feelings and isn't worth your valuable
time. Find a nice hottie on this site. LOL!

THANKS FOR THE ADVISE! I REALLY DO NEED TO PUT HIM TO THE TEST AND SEE
IF HE IS WILLING TO HELP HER GET HER OWN PLACE SO WE CAN FINALY HAVE
SOME TIME FOR OURSELVES.

Take it from me. Stay far away from that boy. I found out, once a
cheater always a cheater. I know its hard. You wanna beleive him, but
temptation will always arise with someone of that standard. Break away,
before things get too serious with him. It's harder to leave if you
stay longer with him.

Yes I think that you should get away from him but I hope that everyone
here is wrong but I don't think so. Goodluck.

i know that i shouldnt be with him and that maybe im waisting my time
with someone like that because he is probably going to cheat on me again
but its just to hard to let go of someone you love so much and someone
your used to spending all your time with. does anyone know they easiest
way to let someone go and forget about the person without regret?

Run. Let him figure out what he wants and give yourself time to do the
same.
Giacomo

Okay then you test him and stay away from him don't call even call him
if he don't come to you or don't call you then he's not into you as much
as you thought he were. Then again if don't make effect in getting ex's
somewhere else to stay then bump him for you deserve a whole lot better.
Please don't let this guy play you for I feel that's what he's doing.

THANK YOU SEXY LADY ON WHEELS!IVE BEEN THINKING ABOUT NOT TALKING TO HIM
FOR A WHILE AND IF HE DOESNT CALL ME OR LOOK FOR ME THEN HE ISNT WORTH
IT.I DONT WANT TO BE PLAYED FOR A FOOL ANYMORE!!

If you feel like your being played like a fool? then stop it right now.
Why wait, move on.

The easiest way to get over someone is not talk to them at all. If you
see that he is the one calling you...don't answer his calls, make him
wonder for awhile!
What you need to do is get some friends...females..and start going out
and having some fun. Do not sit at home and be all depressed over 1 man!
There are so many single men out there that would give anything to have
a woman...I promise you this, if you cheated once, he will cheat again!
Why not start over and give some other sexy man a chance??

I feeling exactly unsure he is not the only fish in the sea you need a
man who'll treat you right let him have his ex's but be sure that's what
you want to do. But point never be any man's fool for you can do bad all
by yourself and a lot better with someone else new and into you.

i know there are other guys out there to choose from but im afraid that
the same thing is going to happen,i guess i feel that way because my
boyfriends usually cheat on me, and i dont know what im doing wrong for
them to do that.DO YOU THINK THERE IS A REASON FOR GUYS ALWAYS CHEATING
ON ME?

I wish I knew the answer to that question rosiem for it usually happens
to me also, but hopefully our luck will change and we can find Mr.
Right:)

Rosiem...you have to have confidence in yourself and show any man that
you don't need them...you WANT them. If every single boyfriend has
cheated on you, then you need to look at yourself and make sure that you
like yourself...do you? If you don't like yourself girl..it will show!
Make that man feel lucky that he has you, don't you feel lucky to have
him! You can feel that way, but just don't show it..don't be a clingy
girlfriend because most men take it as being very insecure and they
usually do end up cheating on you.
So get rid of the one you got moving in the ex...and give yourself some
time to find out what you really want. You know sometimes I think that
we just jump out of one relationship and right into another one---when
really all we need is time to heal from the first relationship we just
ended. Keep that chin up..and dig deep inside of yourself and find out
what you truly want.

thank you unsure for your advice.ive been getting really good advice and
everyone tells me that i should leave him,and i think i should too but
he has just been so sweet the past few days and i dont know why.it just
makes it a whole lot harder for me to say bye to him

look, it seems this whole issue is trust. If there is no trust from the
beginning of any relationship, it cannot be gained or regained during
the relationship. No matter how hard you try, the human mind will never
forget when the trust was broken. Best advice, its going to be difficult
to keep this relationship. If I were you. When you were first cheated
on, you should of left the relationship. Cheating and lack of trust are
childish ways to act in a relationship. you deserve better!

oh gosh, rosiem..i know how you are feeling..its so hard isnt it..i
never thought that i would be one of those women that gets stuck in an
unhealthy relationship..when ya love em its hard to let go..i told my
man (we have a 9mo baby together) that i'm going to start dating too,
(well, cheating really, i found out from his cell phone and his
email)..well early this morning he told me that if i start dating theres
absolutely no chance of us ever getting back together..sigh..now i'm
scared to let go..what if im never ga-ga, school girl crazy in love like
this ever, ever again?! sigh..didnt mean to hijack your thread, just
wanted to say that i know what you are feeling and that its all easier
said than done..

oh, and unsure, that would be wonderful if one could give themselves
time to heal, find out what they want, and who they are, before getting
involved in another relationship. it seems a very healthy way to do
things. but, unfortunately, sometimes alot of us have to climb from one
boat to the next..ya know..

First of all...lose him, the whole thing smells funny to me, I hope we
are all wrong, but I don't think so..2nd, to quote Mae West again.."The
best way to get over somoene is to get under someone."