well publicanimail how do you know your not just going to jump into
another bad relationship?

are you crazy?
he cheated once he probably never stoped- don't kid yourself
if she is with him what is going to stop them from being intimate?

I don't know rosiem..no one does for sure..the trick is to learn from
the past ones..the one I'm in now I'm pretty damn sure it's the right
one...it's about us..not me and her... we clicked immediately...it
wasn't love at first sight.. it was a slow process that started out as a
chance meeting between 2 strangers , hitting it off right away, becoming
good friends and discovering we were right for each other..I know it's
right because she's not just my Love, she really is my best friend.

Rosiem! You are only 18,you got your life ahead of you.I don't think you
are going to get married at this time. So just go out on dates. Don't
stick with one guy letting yourself think this is it.Look around,There
is plenty of fish out there. Have some fun! :)

Ill say this ,,he is male,,and if he cheats,,its not ment to be
right,,im not trying to say leave him,,but make his ass walk on
eggshells for a while,,make him know that your his woman,,and never take
shit from him,,on wheres he going,,just think the best,,and then deal
with it when hes home,,never start a fight if there is no reason to,,im
not the best person in the world,,and im not the man of the year,,but im
the one that knows how it feels being cheated on many of times,,and if
you feel he is ,,then have a sit down,,and dont fight talk it out
please,,you never know it mite not be that hes cheating on you it mite
be that he has feeling that hes not over ,,trust me ,,i know how that is
,,and im not say hes right ,,but he need to let you know where he stand
with you,,this is just from a male,,me Thomas,,and im not the one to
listen to its your heart and soul that needs your ears,,,

Bottom line he has a ton of responsibility and they are the parents so
let them be and find a really hot stud that can build a life with you
and spend all his money making you happy. he will be free to love you
100% and no ex hanging demanding part of his paycheck or the courts
demanding the money that was to go for rent and he has to pay her. Just
my opinion.

NO, I WOULD NOT TRUST HIM AGAIN WITH HER. IT FEELS TO ME THAT SHE IS
TRYING TO GET BACK WITH HIM. BE CAREFUL

i didnt realize that you are only 18, rosiem! omg drop him...you dont
need no baby mama drama!

Rosiem, You are so young...18, get out girl, if you really think that
you can't live your life without him...trust me, if you did break up, in
a year you will look back and think WHAT IN THE HELL WAS I THINKING?
I have a son that is 18 so I know exactly what you are going through, he
just broke up with his first love about 1 year ago. He still writes
songs about her...she still calls and plays around with his heart. What
would I like to do with her...hmmm you don't even want to know. They
didn't have any drama like you, and its hard to deal with the crap.
So all I can say is, if you could really just stay away for a few
months, not take his calls, make him think you don't care...then maybe
he will realize what he lost. Then maybe you will realize that you
deserve so much better! Get out there girl...there are way to many young
guys out there that would love a chance with a "good" girl. Would you
rather be trapped with this guy and have a child with him? I say run!!

I'm gonna say that baby momma drama is the worst. First off, how old is
this girl that she's still living at home? And why is it she "has" to
move in with him?

Second, I totally agree...DOES SHE KNOW YOU EXIST? HAS SHE MET YOU?
From experience, I can say that if you have not met her
personally...then chances are she doesn't know about you and he's
scamming you both.

My advice, kick the cheater to the curb and let her have him. You're
always better off being lonely than getting the "gift that keeps on
giving" because someone's cheating on you.

Kep your head up girl...and tell him to KICK ROCKS!!!

Darn girlfriend I didn't know you were 18 hell you just truly getting
started You should go out have some fun and date for he's already tied
down for life don't let him tie you down too cause trust me he's not
going to get rid of his baby mommy you're going to be dealing with her
until that child is grown. I truly feel that he is using you too ,so be
careful girlfriend and good luck on whatever you decide:)

do not trust him . he had a kid with her so they have a bond.plus they
will be alone togeather.

well thomas thanks for your advice but ive already tried it.ive sat down
with him and just talked about where she and i stand in his life and he
always tells me the same think like i messed up once and im not going to
do it again, and that him and his ex have already agreed on just being
friends becasue he loves me but i dont know wether he is telling the
truth or its just an answer to get me to shut up or something.

well peachi we have both confronted each other and talked about
things.actually she was the one who told me the truth about both of them
still sleeping together even though she knew that i was still his
girlfriend but that she had been sleeping with him because she still
loves him.

girl, why put up with that! don't care who u r don't just mess with my
man! and if he couldn't be man enough to tell u the truth then he's not
the man for u. give him an altamatuim... it's me or it's her. i know it
might hurt but, i'd let the two cheaters have each other if it were me.
just be proud of urself and not let anyone get u down including him.
there's a line to everything and they both are crossing it!

first of all girl... why would you still be in a relationship with a guy
that has already cheated on you?and second... why would you trust him
saying his ex "needs" to move in?... ok im gonna be frank here hun... i
know its gonna sound cruel, and i know its gonna hurt... but i tell
people what i think, and i tell people what they need to hear when
people feel its in there best interest to put sugar on advice... but i
am gonna say... dump his ass, he is a lying, cheating, loser... good
luck

if he says that she got pregnant by another man while they were living
together, are you gonna believe that too?

well a relatitionship it has to be build in trust and he started with
the wrong foot it sems you really care about him but he don't you should
think about you future where want to be either a victim or a person with
a lot of self confidance and integrity but hell im a person that can not
judge your boy friend but you can trust your heart and you know it
allready talked to you and said ( dont trust him because he had been
cheating on me in the
begining of our relationship with her and i think he might do it
again.) i hope you find the will to do whats right.
god loves you.........

And if she got PG by another guy and now has this guy all strung
along...CAN WE SAY .....DRAMA. Well it makes the world go around but it
really is stupid...Let loose and watch him crawl back...but dont even
take him cause there are plenty of good young men, that if you just put
the word out, they will be knockin cause as you get older YOU GET BETTER
and they will see that in you for making an awesome responsible
deciesion like kicking his butt to the curb FOREVER!!!

At this point you might as well just share him hun.