i knew someone who had a abortion but it was to late to do the normal procedure.

they had to kill the baby first, they inject it with something to stop the babys heartbeat, then they crush the babys skull and rib cage, and then she had to deliver the baby.

i found it hard to look this person in the face and i always will.

even though i was raped, if i had of got pregnant, i couldnt let anyone do this to my unborn baby.

i cant go into circumstances, but there should be another little one in my family.

Adoption is a wonderful thing..I want to adopt someday..If I ever get married.

I'm so sorry Deb, and can obviously relate as I have just explained. Let me join you in your tears.

(hugs)

Incidentally, about the person you knew, you know she probably needs you, can imagine she thinks about what she did a lot. I know I can see how it impacts my mom today.

i wanted to the make the decison for her but i couldnt. i was highly involved in this, i dont want to say who it is, but it was a horrible situation. only thing i didnt find out was, if it was a boy or a girl. this was a formed baby.

both people needed me.

it should be ILLEGAL to do a abortion that late on. who can do the job of killing that baby, and then taking away a fully formed baby. makes me feel ill

Oh Deb....

(hugs tight not letting go)

not letting go either

just read your story. im so sorry

Thank you very much, I appreciate it greatly.

People need to realize the repurcussions of something like this, it doesn't just effect the woman, but other people too, as you and I can both attest to.

yes your totally right.

This QUESTION, will NEVER be answered here on this earth

It will just TURN people against people as to any who don't feel the same as THEM.

Life will always give exceptions as to any persons desire to have one done. And in and through their actions of that, THEY will be the one to have to live their lives knowing their whys and their hearts. On being able to live and forget or live and
be good with all that they decided on...

I trully feel it is THAT WOMENS PLACE TO DECIDE.
But MANY,,,,,MANY,,, ABUSE THAT!!!!!
And THEY will stand in their judgement one day for that!

i also feel the man as a right to choose, its his baby to. its not fair how his rights are taken away because its not his body.

Ok I'll share something with you all............Last year I was diagnosed as having a brain cancer it was in an inoperable section of my brain my only recourse was sterotactic radiosurgery (using a radiation via laser). In the course of all this lovely discovery we found out i was pregnant. I had a choice........I could wait and pretty much guarantee I wouldn't have enough time for treatment to save me therefor leaving 3 children motherless..providing the child survived to full term and survived birth as they planned to to take it at approx 7 months to hopefully give me treatment time. You see i have other complications associated with my health which make it difficult for me to carry to term. Or I have an abortion as treatment pretty much guaranteed my childs in utero death or sever birth defects. Again I have 2 children Living breathing children who are here..........Do i guarantee my survival and my existing children keep mom? or do I gamble and hope i have time? or do i do nothing get treatment and hope god really does take pitty on fools and children? I chose to go wiht my dr's decision and abort. Do i regret it? Yes but not for the reasons you think....I wonder will i go to hell I believe it's murder tehn i look at my children and think it's wortth it. I have it's ultrasound pictures,............i sometimes wake up hearing a child that's not here crying.........and my arms ache as it would have been born by now...........I made my choice.
Judge me if you will but i always said Never. Till I was faced wiht the decision and God made me swallow those words. Till it's you.....you'll never know

as for those that say if you know it may endanger your life take precaoutions,,,,,,,,,my tubes have been tied for three years........

Same goes for other family members, it's their kid just as much as it is hers.

id never judge you, im so sorry im speechless.

WHY did this thread even get started? It is such a voliatile subject. Mods, where are ya when it comes to topics like these?


Hugs to you iceprincess

What gives everyone in this thread the right to judge anyone for thier decisions? You don't have enough information to judge anothers choice nor do you have the right to judge even if you had the required information. There is only one entity who will judge us all at the end of our alloted time. In the mean time all anyone can do is make the best choices they can with the circumstances they have to work with. I don't think there is a soul here who hasn't done something in thier lives that could cause condemnation from others if it came to light. Would you want misinformed people judging you on your choices? We all have a right to our own opinions...we all have the right to voice those opinions...we don't have the right to judge others choices...

I don't think you would...............so many people on here look at only two sides the rape/incest side and the stupid lets take no precaustions and get out easy side.......there are many other scenarious and No-One on here can honestly say what they would do under any given circumstances till your faced with them.When you are you may surprise even yourself.