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Topic: How much do you think
No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Fri 05/23/08 08:57 PM Edited by No1sLove on Fri 05/23/08 08:57 PM
the relationship your parents had when you were growing up have influenced the way you are in your relationships today? If at all.

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Fri 05/23/08 08:58 PM
the relationship your parents had when you were growing up has influenced the way you are in your relationships today? If at all. im dysfunctional like the rest of m.!!!

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 05/23/08 08:59 PM
the relationship your parents had when you were growing up have influenced the way you are in your relationships today? If at all. I think it's affected me alot. I feel it MAY be one of the reasons I don't like to get too close to anyone. Then again, I may be using that as an excuse, because I'm afraid of change.

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Fri 05/23/08 09:00 PM
the relationship your parents had when you were growing up have influenced the way you are in your relationships today? If at all. extremely clever question when I think anout it it disturbs me

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Fri 05/23/08 09:01 PM
the relationship your parents had when you were growing up have influenced the way you are in your relationships today? If at all. I think it's affected me alot. I feel it MAY be one of the reasons I don't like to get too close to anyone. Then again, I may be using that as an excuse, because I'm afraid of change. Very open minded of you.

bgeorge Joined Fri 09/14/07 Posts: 7850	Fri 05/23/08 09:01 PM Edited by bgeorge on Fri 05/23/08 09:02 PM
the relationship your parents had when you were growing up has influenced the way you are in your relationships today? If at all. im dysfunctional like the rest of m.!!! lol...my family puts the "fun" in dysfunctional i know it's very cliche...but it's true

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Fri 05/23/08 09:01 PM
the relationship your parents had when you were growing up have influenced the way you are in your relationships today? If at all. extremely clever question when I think anout it it disturbs me I'm sorry...I don't want to disturb ppl.

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Fri 05/23/08 09:02 PM
the relationship your parents had when you were growing up has influenced the way you are in your relationships today? If at all. im dysfunctional like the rest of m.!!! lol...my family puts the "fun" in dysfunctional i know it's very cliche...but it's true

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Fri 05/23/08 09:02 PM Edited by Peccy on Fri 05/23/08 09:05 PM
well my parents are still married and I'm divorced, so i guess not enough

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Fri 05/23/08 09:06 PM
a HUGE amount. How could it not.

TheLonelyWalker Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 11870	Fri 05/23/08 09:06 PM
good question. some say that we are what we experience. when we are young we are like sponges which means we grab much more information than as adults. therefore, it follows that what we experience with our parents would affect how we behave in our own relationships. However, if we grow up and we are thinking individuals and we realize that some of the mistakes that our parent may have committed. we may be able not to repeat them. Again if we are thinking individuals, if we are slaves of vicious cycles well we are messed up.

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Fri 05/23/08 09:08 PM
i just wanna meet a freak like me, that wants to hook up with a freaky family like mine.!!!!!

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Fri 05/23/08 09:12 PM
the relationship your parents had when you were growing up have influenced the way you are in your relationships today? If at all. extremely clever question when I think anout it it disturbs me I'm sorry...I don't want to disturb ppl. it is a clever question on many levels 1 its effect on me as a child 2 Its effects on me as an adult 3 As a result of those effects how is my failures stand up against the future of my twin boys this is the bothersome bit not that you were the cause I hope it is clear

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Fri 05/23/08 09:12 PM
good question. some say that we are what we experience. when we are young we are like sponges which means we grab much more information than as adults. therefore, it follows that what we experience with our parents would affect how we behave in our own relationships. However, if we grow up and we are thinking individuals and we realize that some of the mistakes that our parent may have committed. we may be able not to repeat them. Again if we are thinking individuals, if we are slaves of vicious cycles well we are messed up. Good point ((( Walker )))

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Fri 05/23/08 09:18 PM
the relationship your parents had when you were growing up have influenced the way you are in your relationships today? If at all. Pretty significantly. My parents had a rather turbulent marriage, with tons of arguing and even worse. My father was caught committing adultery a number of times, which led to their getting divorced. And THEN there were the less-than-admirable experiences I've had with the post-divorce girlfriends my dad's had over the years. One of them in particular was a rather difficult experience. As a result, I've had a somewhat guarded, sometimes-distant relationship with ladies. I probably haven't dated as much as I probably should have, and the relationships I DID have usually didn't turn out very well. It probably also explains why I'm still single to this day. So yeah- I'd say the relationships my parents had affected me greatly. It's just too bad those relationships weren't particularly pleasurable.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Fri 05/23/08 10:41 PM
I think they did a LOT! They were married 52 years

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Fri 05/23/08 10:59 PM
the relationship your parents had when you were growing up have influenced the way you are in your relationships today? If at all. Served as a good example of something I wanted absolutely no part of....

Rzrback Joined Wed 04/11/07 Posts: 368	Fri 05/23/08 11:00 PM
Ha, no wonder I have been divorced twice. I blame it all on my parents.

Toddo73 Joined Thu 09/13/07 Posts: 677	Fri 05/23/08 11:00 PM
the relationship your parents had when you were growing up have influenced the way you are in your relationships today? If at all. Tremendously.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Fri 05/23/08 11:02 PM
the relationship your parents had when you were growing up have influenced the way you are in your relationships today? If at all. extremely clever question when I think anout it it disturbs me I'm sorry...I don't want to disturb ppl. it is a clever question on many levels 1 its effect on me as a child 2 Its effects on me as an adult 3 As a result of those effects how is my failures stand up against the future of my twin boys this is the bothersome bit not that you were the cause I hope it is clear We can always set better examples for our children.