both, at the same time?

I saw Ron Jeremy do it, so I know it's possible.

Unfortunately YES but that gets you in trouble

I have a HUGE ...but there is only room for 1

Would not want to let myself go there

i think with ron jeremy it was more than just two at once........dont you think?!!

well I love me and myself SO Yaaaaaaaaaa

yes but there are different types of love.

Yes, i love my son & my daughter!!! ha ha I know what you mean though hard to say

Yes, you can I believe.
I will always love certain men from my past, no not In Love with them, but they will always hold a special place.

I do believe you can only be madly in love, head over heels, whatever you want to call it, with one person of the opposite sex, however!

ok ... heres a good one , i was going out with 3 girls at the same time i was 17 and loved each one for totally different reasons ,went on for over 3 months, i tried to choose but couldnt , two lived in different states and one was local .. on my birthday with in 30 minutes or less they all showed up at my house to suprize me . my mom just keeped letting them in . it was unreal . when the third one came in and heard what was going on ... i grabed my car keys and just left ... my mom told me they where in my room for like an hour talking about me and compairing notes .. Did I learn something .... Oh hell yeah . it hurts 3x's as bad when you loose 3 ppl you love .. never again ...

I'm a schizoprenic narcisist.

yes, my dad and my mom.
why shouldn't i?

i love my son and there is still room for someone else right now........maybe like 12 more of the little guys........i have a big heart

Some people can love two, or more.

I am not polyamorous, but I know many people who are, most quite happily. I am not wired to be able to share the romantic and physical love and affections of my primary partner with another.

It would be emotionally damaging for me at this time. My nature is too possessive, territorial, somewhat jealous, insecure....what have you, to be able to feel safe and/or secure in such an arrangement. I would be constantly worrying about losing my place in the other's heart; and frankly, I just do not like to share, period.

Perhaps it is a failing in me, not feeling secure enough in myself to trust that my position with a primary partner who was poly would be respected and safe. I really do not think so, though. I think it is more that we are either hard-wired to be emotionally/romantically monogamous or polyamorous. And, I truly do not feel a person can change their basic orientation, no matter how important their relationship with someone was.

To be happy and content, to be satisfied and to be able to give my partner and my relationship my all, I need to be with someone who is monogamous, like me. Now, this doesn't mean that I am not open to play, as couples - although even that would require a solid foundation, a trust, and feelings of safety and deep love and commitment in my primary relationship over a long period to achieve.

It just means that I need, not desire, but need, a basically monogamous, honest and respectful partner and relationship to feel most fulfilled.

My current partner has not been monogamous prior to meeting me, although he feels strongly enough for me that he believes he might be able to maintain the type of lifestyle that I need. I want him to be happy and satisfied, fulfilled in life.

However, I need the same. I am entitled to seek the same for my life.

To me, honesty and integrity are more important than keeping someone bound in a situation that they will ultimately be miserable in, simply by the fact that they are not wired that way sexually and/or romantically. I would rather know sooner, rather than later. As we all know, endings can be much harder the deeper we fall and surrender to the love of another.

Everyone has a right to seek freedom and pleasure. I do hope we can find a way to meet each other's needs and still be happy and fulfilled, ourselves.

So, to answer your question - absolutely, "yes"! However, maintaining healthy, happy, poly relationships is much harder than monogamy. With each person you add, it becomes more complicated. And, it can become rife with jealousies, insecurities, and bad feelings due to miscommunication. I cannot stress enough how important openness and honesty, both with yourself and your partner(s) will be if you choose the poly lifestyle.

Whatever you choose, best wishes.

I can love hundreds and do...I can only be in love with one though...it's the only way my heart works.

I'm a one woman man. If I love her, that's it, I don't want anybody else.

you can love many people at one time but i feel you can only be in love with one person

Yes