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Topic: Why long distance relationships generally suck...
lilangel2's photo
Thu 05/15/08 07:40 PM
Why long distance relationships online suck...

If you live to far to actually meet within a pretty short time ...you either run the risk of getting tooo involved in the unknown...or you find yourself holding back so much of yourself as a safty mechanism. If you date within your own location and can meet right off, you can decide pretty quick whether you want to open up to more or not. I want someone to fall in love with me...not the IDEA of me....


does this make sense to you?

Why? or Why not?

hauveralan's photo
Thu 05/15/08 07:43 PM
yes thats why i'm mad none of you live anywhere near me

wikkedlilgrrl's photo
Thu 05/15/08 07:43 PM
it makes perfect sense not to upset those who have online only relationships but i dont really see how thats possible, eventually you have to actually get together, have something physical (and no not sex) to actually have a real full relationship. so getting involved with someone who you cant really see doenst make alot of sense

Etrain's photo
Thu 05/15/08 07:44 PM
yes I agree...you just don't know a person till you meet face to face

no photo
Thu 05/15/08 07:44 PM
ahh..................... the internet aura




i think mine is green

Peccy's photo
Thu 05/15/08 07:44 PM

it makes perfect sense not to upset those who have online only relationships but i dont really see how thats possible, eventually you have to actually get together, have something physical (and no not sex) to actually have a real full relationship. so getting involved with someone who you cant really see doenst make alot of sense
lol......here we go again

no photo
Thu 05/15/08 07:44 PM
yes, it makes sense. and no one lives near me. sad

ffdickie's photo
Thu 05/15/08 07:45 PM
ummmmm, they just do. huh

ljcc1964's photo
Thu 05/15/08 07:46 PM
We can all overthink this until the cows come home.

Ultimately...if you find you have developed a connection with someone....you should enjoy it. Unless you don't want to. In that case this is all a non-issue.

My step father became my step father within 2 months of meeting my mother online....over 2000 miles away.

Anything is possible.....

lilangel2's photo
Thu 05/15/08 07:46 PM


it makes perfect sense not to upset those who have online only relationships but i dont really see how thats possible, eventually you have to actually get together, have something physical (and no not sex) to actually have a real full relationship. so getting involved with someone who you cant really see doenst make alot of sense
lol......here we go again


But,I'm not laughing...

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 05/15/08 07:46 PM
Anything within any parameter can work...it just takes two people with the same goals in mind, honesty, and communication. Anything can work given time.drinker flowerforyou

TheCaptain's photo
Thu 05/15/08 07:46 PM
Then sometimes lightning strikes.

jedigirl's photo
Thu 05/15/08 07:47 PM
Edited by jedigirl on Thu 05/15/08 07:50 PM
absolutely.....Ive met alot of guys who have thought I was a good idea…and then.....
however, you must have an idea first before you can make it reality. Although I have never actually met anyone online...so actually i have no clue...

think i will go get a pizza...and ponder this whole internet dating thing for awhile....so ya...huh

Peccy's photo
Thu 05/15/08 07:48 PM
Edited by Peccy on Thu 05/15/08 07:49 PM
ljcc1964- A voice of reason cracked the moisture laden night air....

Lily0923's photo
Thu 05/15/08 07:49 PM
drinker yep. what you said.

Lily0923's photo
Thu 05/15/08 07:51 PM


it makes perfect sense not to upset those who have online only relationships but i dont really see how thats possible, eventually you have to actually get together, have something physical (and no not sex) to actually have a real full relationship. so getting involved with someone who you cant really see doenst make alot of sense
lol......here we go again


Peccy, you are really belittling her feelings, and that's f*cked up....

Peccy's photo
Thu 05/15/08 07:51 PM
How does the old adage go, "Lest ye not judge a man, before walkin a mile in his shoes."

Peccy's photo
Thu 05/15/08 07:52 PM
Edited by Peccy on Thu 05/15/08 07:52 PM

Yes it is, I'm sorry lilangel

Jim519's photo
Thu 05/15/08 07:54 PM
That is exactly why I keep everything at a friendship level

Lily0923's photo
Thu 05/15/08 08:00 PM

That is exactly why I keep everything at a friendship level


You have alot of friends Jim.

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