I am a career Firefighter / Paramedic in an East coast beach City......... Can you say "Tough duty" White sand, surfing.. mmmmmmmm I am an easy going guy, very down to earth. The old saying "the best things in life are free" is the best!. The most important thing you can give someone in todays hustle and bustle is "Time" Take the "Time" and give it! I am a caregiver by profession & nature, I have a lot of caring to give. It is a give and take in a relationship, can't take people that can only "take" wow, does that confuse you or what?? I love to cook, I have been doing it for many years and I have to say, I'm pretty good at it. Ask me for some recipes and I will swap. My idea of a perfect night would be a nice home cooked dinner, prepared by "both" Dim lights, deep conversation in front of a roaring farm stone fireplace, a movie at home and continued intimacy through the night. Much time spent on intimacy is a good thing. It is important for me to know that she is satisfied before I can be completely satisfied. Take that however you want to take it, any questions, please ask. It is important to make sure you have nights alone as well as with full family events, whether you have the time or not. Remember the "Time" comment??. The little things in life mean everything to me. I am not a materialistic person. I love the simple life. Time with children and family is the most important thing a man could ask for. Many men take that for granted and forget what family means, and what I tend to say about that is .....They're not really men. If you can't stand the heat, keep the sausage out of the love oven. I live my life with humor as a way to express myself. I use it in my career a lot. Like they say, laughter is the best medicine. So, be prepared to laugh with me, I have spare ribs in the fridge. :) I love being spontaneous, I love adventure. Anything to do with the outdoors turns me on! I love hunting, fishing, camping, shooting, hiking etc etc etc Alaska, Germany, take me away! I hate games, been there, been played. I need to share my "Time" with someone who has an open mind about life, a sense of humor and a sense of being spontaneously adventurous.