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Why long distance relationships online suck...
If you live to far to actually meet within a pretty short time ...you either run the risk of getting tooo involved in the unknown...or you find yourself holding back so much of yourself as a safty mechanism. If you date within your own location and can meet right off, you can decide pretty quick whether you want to open up to more or not. I want someone to fall in love with me...not the IDEA of me.... does this make sense to you? Why? or Why not? |
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yes thats why i'm mad none of you live anywhere near me
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it makes perfect sense not to upset those who have online only relationships but i dont really see how thats possible, eventually you have to actually get together, have something physical (and no not sex) to actually have a real full relationship. so getting involved with someone who you cant really see doenst make alot of sense
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yes I agree...you just don't know a person till you meet face to face
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ahh..................... the internet aura
i think mine is green |
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it makes perfect sense not to upset those who have online only relationships but i dont really see how thats possible, eventually you have to actually get together, have something physical (and no not sex) to actually have a real full relationship. so getting involved with someone who you cant really see doenst make alot of sense |
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yes, it makes sense. and no one lives near me.
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ummmmm, they just do.
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We can all overthink this until the cows come home.
Ultimately...if you find you have developed a connection with someone....you should enjoy it. Unless you don't want to. In that case this is all a non-issue. My step father became my step father within 2 months of meeting my mother online....over 2000 miles away. Anything is possible..... |
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it makes perfect sense not to upset those who have online only relationships but i dont really see how thats possible, eventually you have to actually get together, have something physical (and no not sex) to actually have a real full relationship. so getting involved with someone who you cant really see doenst make alot of sense But,I'm not laughing... |
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Anything within any parameter can work...it just takes two people with the same goals in mind, honesty, and communication. Anything can work given time.
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Then sometimes lightning strikes.
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Edited by
jedigirl
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Thu 05/15/08 07:50 PM
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absolutely.....Ive met alot of guys who have thought I was a good idea…and then.....
however, you must have an idea first before you can make it reality. Although I have never actually met anyone online...so actually i have no clue... think i will go get a pizza...and ponder this whole internet dating thing for awhile....so ya... |
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Edited by
Peccy
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Thu 05/15/08 07:49 PM
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ljcc1964- A voice of reason cracked the moisture laden night air....
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yep. what you said.
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it makes perfect sense not to upset those who have online only relationships but i dont really see how thats possible, eventually you have to actually get together, have something physical (and no not sex) to actually have a real full relationship. so getting involved with someone who you cant really see doenst make alot of sense Peccy, you are really belittling her feelings, and that's f*cked up.... |
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How does the old adage go, "Lest ye not judge a man, before walkin a mile in his shoes."
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Edited by
Peccy
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Thu 05/15/08 07:52 PM
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Yes it is, I'm sorry lilangel |
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That is exactly why I keep everything at a friendship level
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That is exactly why I keep everything at a friendship level You have alot of friends Jim. |
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