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I can't remember ever having to...but I've never dated that much.
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Yes, I do...I have a rich man in another town that is very interested in me...I am not in him that way...he's just a nice person...not dating material...anyways..once I mentioned I am bad at directions, he said, "Let me buy you a garmin"...All I could think of to say was, "Then , I would never learn how to recognize landmarks" LOL I was at a loss what to say...another time I said I had to go out in garage and see about my riding mower because it wouldn't crank. He said, "let me add you to our lawn care account"
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Edited by
Jim519
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Sun 05/04/08 12:30 PM
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Yes, I do...I have a rich man in another town that is very interested in me...I am not in him that way...he's just a nice person...not dating material...anyways..once I mentioned I am bad at directions, he said, "Let me buy you a garmin"...All I could think of to say was, "Then , I would never learn how to recognize landmarks" LOL I was at a loss what to say...another time I said I had to go out in garage and see about my riding mower because it wouldn't crank. He said, "let me add you to our lawn care account" ![]() ![]() ![]() What a nice guy to wanting to help out in trimming bushes ![]() ![]() |
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Nope, I think honesty is always best!!
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I don't find it hard to do, I would much rather get a note to that effect than have no reply at all. Silence is just rude IMO
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No if you just met the person it should be easy to say yes or no be honest,
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Yes, I do...I have a rich man in another town that is very interested in me...I am not in him that way...he's just a nice person...not dating material...anyways..once I mentioned I am bad at directions, he said, "Let me buy you a garmin"...All I could think of to say was, "Then , I would never learn how to recognize landmarks" LOL I was at a loss what to say...another time I said I had to go out in garage and see about my riding mower because it wouldn't crank. He said, "let me add you to our lawn care account" ![]() ![]() ![]() What a nice guy to wanting to help out in trimming bushes ![]() ![]() Yeah, I just don't want that kind of trimmin'...well, not from him ![]() |
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just say "sorry - not interested?" Not really. However, I find things get a little more difficult when the offending party just won't get the hint. This actually happened to me one time- I told this one lady that I wasn't interested (I just got some weird vibe from her for some reason), and she just wouldn't stop following me. She seemed like a nice person, so I didn't want to start being curt with her. And I didn't want to hurt her feelings, as I sorta gathered she was one of those "fragile ego" types. But I had to put my foot down at one point and tell her to get lost (not literally) at one point. |
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No, you'll know if I'm not interested.
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nope
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just say "sorry - not interested?" I don't usually use those words, but I'll put it out there in a nice way. |
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just say "sorry - not interested?" NOPE, because i'm so used to it ![]() JK ![]() |
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Never have to say it
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I will let you know if anyone is ever interested in me.
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....nope...I'm kindly diplomatic , informative and frank...no shame sayin no here, would rather hear it straight myself too !!! ![]() ![]() |
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