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Topic: Is it too much to ask....
BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Sat 04/26/08 08:55 AM
Sometimes maybe our pride and suspicions work overtime too . at least I hope mine is !! I hope so too Betty, you deserve the best!

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Sat 04/26/08 08:56 AM
Why do they keep in saying they want you if they don,t? I just don,t get it . They are collectors Don't be one of their trinkets

LadyOfMagic Joined Fri 09/29/06 Posts: 4957	Sat 04/26/08 08:57 AM
Why do they keep in saying they want you if they don,t? I just don,t get it . Oh I do get it..MOST..I'm not saying all..but MOST guys like to play games with your heart..use you when they want to then put you back on the shelf like a porcelain doll until the next time they get bored.

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Sat 04/26/08 08:57 AM
Why do they keep in saying they want you if they don,t? I just don,t get it . They are collectors Don't be one of their trinkets I have many things I collect, but I do not count women among them. Sometimes work and life can get in the way

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Sat 04/26/08 08:59 AM
Well I might be a trinket but at least I,m something Seriously I am really new at this dating thing ..didn,t know it would be this hard. ,

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 04/26/08 09:00 AM
To want to spend a little time each day with the person you like?..at what point do you start to look clingy? WOW..I come up with some weird topics. I would guess when you push to spend more time with the person, but they don't have an interest in spending more time with you. I'm kinda weird, I can spend every minute of everyday with someone, or go for monthes without talking to them, it doesn't matter to me, no matter how close we are.

LadyOfMagic Joined Fri 09/29/06 Posts: 4957	Sat 04/26/08 09:04 AM
To want to spend a little time each day with the person you like?..at what point do you start to look clingy? WOW..I come up with some weird topics. I would guess when you push to spend more time with the person, but they don't have an interest in spending more time with you. I'm kinda weird, I can spend every minute of everyday with someone, or go for monthes without talking to them, it doesn't matter to me, no matter how close we are. Well..it's not like I demand that a guy spend every waking moment with me..I just want SOME of that time..I have things that I like to do that he doesn't have to be there for..but going days weeks and months without seeing or even just talking to the person you're supposed to be with just bothers me to no end!

jonny63 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 5229	Sat 04/26/08 09:09 AM
<<<<<<-------------Swiftly running past!!! Its called compatibility. Coupled with communication. And honesty......

Joni321 Joined Tue 06/05/07 Posts: 650	Sat 04/26/08 09:34 AM
To want to spend a little time each day with the person you like?..at what point do you start to look clingy? WOW..I come up with some weird topics. I would guess when you push to spend more time with the person, but they don't have an interest in spending more time with you. I'm kinda weird, I can spend every minute of everyday with someone, or go for monthes without talking to them, it doesn't matter to me, no matter how close we are. Well..it's not like I demand that a guy spend every waking moment with me..I just want SOME of that time..I have things that I like to do that he doesn't have to be there for..but going days weeks and months without seeing or even just talking to the person you're supposed to be with just bothers me to no end! If it flows then it's good. If it's seem off balanced then u probably aren't on the same page. trying to make something happen is usually a desaster waiting to happen somewhere down the road.............

symbelmyne Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 5356	Sat 04/26/08 09:37 AM
To want to spend a little time each day with the person you like?..at what point do you start to look clingy? WOW..I come up with some weird topics. I guess it depends on how you spend that time togehter? Do you need constant reasurances or do you just like to be with that person? Does that person have the same desire to be with you? I have a great friend whom Im in touch with everyday, either phone, IM or in person..its not clingy, it just naturally happens that way. We both want it...

LadyOfMagic Joined Fri 09/29/06 Posts: 4957	Sat 04/26/08 10:05 AM
I guess I'll stick to my original plan to collect cats and forget about relationships.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 04/26/08 10:07 AM
I guess I'll stick to my original plan to collect cats and forget about relationships. Then you'll just meet someone who's allergic to cats. Isn't that how this usually works?

bobbyblue Joined Thu 03/29/07 Posts: 510	Sat 04/26/08 11:32 AM
People need space whether in a relationship or not.

LadyOfMagic Joined Fri 09/29/06 Posts: 4957	Sat 04/26/08 11:52 AM
I guess I'll stick to my original plan to collect cats and forget about relationships. Then you'll just meet someone who's allergic to cats. Isn't that how this usually works? If I get the cats I won't be lookin for a guy anymore.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Sat 04/26/08 01:19 PM
Anyway if you really think about cats aren,t much different than men . they come around when they want , and leave when they want to.

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Sat 04/26/08 01:21 PM
spiderman was clingy and everybody loved him.!!!!

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sat 04/26/08 02:01 PM
Cat lady

floh Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 1706	Sat 04/26/08 04:23 PM Edited by floh on Sat 04/26/08 04:30 PM
It isn't to much to ask....but nobody likes me uhm...hello..?

62easygoing Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 4641	Sat 04/26/08 04:41 PM
yes, you are asking quite a LOT.

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Mon 04/28/08 06:44 AM
Anyway if you really think about cats aren,t much different than men . they come around when they want , and leave when they want to. They are affectionate when they are hungry & you have to clean up after them...