Topic: Is it too much to ask....
Joni321's photo
Sat 04/26/08 08:13 AM



I want to wake up every day with the person I love. I want to go to sleep holding the person I love everynight. I want to spend as much time in betwen those two things everyday that I can. This is not to say that people do not need their own space, but a couple are supposed to be best friends, and how can you grow together without sharing experiences?


She was just asking about the person u like.....love is a whole different subject............laugh flowerforyou

Well..like and/or love then..since I gotta be all specific and stuff..lol


Don't have to be specific.........I just don't always love who I like...........or always like who I love.........happy

BettyB's photo
Sat 04/26/08 08:14 AM


This has been going on for 2 mos, now . now we have gone from seeing each other twice a week to once every 2 weeks.


I think you know what this means.

malibu23wi's photo
Sat 04/26/08 08:15 AM

I want to wake up every day with the person I love. I want to go to sleep holding the person I love everynight. I want to spend as much time in betwen those two things everyday that I can. This is not to say that people do not need their own space, but a couple are supposed to be best friends, and how can you grow together without sharing experiences?


I am exactly the same way! If I love someone, they are who i want to be with...as much as possible...could be doing nothing other than cuddling on the couch watching tv...or shopping or anything...as long as we get time together, doesn't matter what we are doing!! So i just need to find someone who is like that and likes being with me as much bigsmile

BettyB's photo
Sat 04/26/08 08:16 AM
If someone is tired the relationship why can,t they just be honest, instead of lying about it ? What am I just a backup?

Single_Rob's photo
Sat 04/26/08 08:17 AM



This has been going on for 2 mos, now . now we have gone from seeing each other twice a week to once every 2 weeks.


I think you know what this means.

Booty call? laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

BettyB's photo
Sat 04/26/08 08:19 AM
That would really stink!!

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sat 04/26/08 08:19 AM


I want to wake up every day with the person I love. I want to go to sleep holding the person I love everynight. I want to spend as much time in betwen those two things everyday that I can. This is not to say that people do not need their own space, but a couple are supposed to be best friends, and how can you grow together without sharing experiences?


I am exactly the same way! If I love someone, they are who i want to be with...as much as possible...could be doing nothing other than cuddling on the couch watching tv...or shopping or anything...as long as we get time together, doesn't matter what we are doing!! So i just need to find someone who is like that and likes being with me as much bigsmile

I've tried to find guys like that..I don't think they exist..at least not for me..I absolutely hate going days without seeing the one I'm supposed to be with..I don't call that a relationship..that's a "I'm gonna talk to you when the people that I like better aren't around" type of thing.I don't have to have your WHOLE day..but I do want SOME of it!

malibu23wi's photo
Sat 04/26/08 08:21 AM



I want to wake up every day with the person I love. I want to go to sleep holding the person I love everynight. I want to spend as much time in betwen those two things everyday that I can. This is not to say that people do not need their own space, but a couple are supposed to be best friends, and how can you grow together without sharing experiences?


I am exactly the same way! If I love someone, they are who i want to be with...as much as possible...could be doing nothing other than cuddling on the couch watching tv...or shopping or anything...as long as we get time together, doesn't matter what we are doing!! So i just need to find someone who is like that and likes being with me as much bigsmile

I've tried to find guys like that..I don't think they exist..at least not for me..I absolutely hate going days without seeing the one I'm supposed to be with..I don't call that a relationship..that's a "I'm gonna talk to you when the people that I like better aren't around" type of thing.I don't have to have your WHOLE day..but I do want SOME of it!


yeah i hear you...its hard to feel close to someone if they are never around...just leaves u feeling neglected and u end up looking for attention elsewhere...at least that's how it seems to go...

No1sLove's photo
Sat 04/26/08 08:23 AM

You are probably right .. deep down I know you are !
I think you'll have no doubts if you really can't trust him. Until then, just enjoy him. Don't stress yourself out of your own happiness. flowerforyou

BettyB's photo
Sat 04/26/08 08:25 AM


You are probably right .. deep down I know you are !
I think you'll have no doubts if you really can't trust him. Until then, just enjoy him. Don't stress yourself out of your own happiness. flowerforyou

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sat 04/26/08 08:25 AM




I want to wake up every day with the person I love. I want to go to sleep holding the person I love everynight. I want to spend as much time in betwen those two things everyday that I can. This is not to say that people do not need their own space, but a couple are supposed to be best friends, and how can you grow together without sharing experiences?


I am exactly the same way! If I love someone, they are who i want to be with...as much as possible...could be doing nothing other than cuddling on the couch watching tv...or shopping or anything...as long as we get time together, doesn't matter what we are doing!! So i just need to find someone who is like that and likes being with me as much bigsmile

I've tried to find guys like that..I don't think they exist..at least not for me..I absolutely hate going days without seeing the one I'm supposed to be with..I don't call that a relationship..that's a "I'm gonna talk to you when the people that I like better aren't around" type of thing.I don't have to have your WHOLE day..but I do want SOME of it!


yeah i hear you...its hard to feel close to someone if they are never around...just leaves u feeling neglected and u end up looking for attention elsewhere...at least that's how it seems to go...

Yup..that's how it goes..I don't like a guy to say we're a couple or I'm his woman then he always finds reason after reason to not talk to me..or hell..flat out ignores me..If I'm gonna be by myself any way..I'm gonna call myself single..not taken!laugh

lilangel2's photo
Sat 04/26/08 08:26 AM

That would really stink!!


Depends on whether he's good in bed or not LOL bigsmile
Just kidding...if he doesn't give enough time to the relationship...simply don't have sex with him...and leave yourself open for someone that might fill your needs better. Men love to tie a woman down to just them...when they want them! Don't fall for this. Your needs are important too.

BettyB's photo
Sat 04/26/08 08:27 AM
Thank you for saying that ..I really do enjoy the time we have together. I would hate to give it up but I don,t want to be made a fool if either.

lilangel2's photo
Sat 04/26/08 08:27 AM





I want to wake up every day with the person I love. I want to go to sleep holding the person I love everynight. I want to spend as much time in betwen those two things everyday that I can. This is not to say that people do not need their own space, but a couple are supposed to be best friends, and how can you grow together without sharing experiences?


I am exactly the same way! If I love someone, they are who i want to be with...as much as possible...could be doing nothing other than cuddling on the couch watching tv...or shopping or anything...as long as we get time together, doesn't matter what we are doing!! So i just need to find someone who is like that and likes being with me as much bigsmile

I've tried to find guys like that..I don't think they exist..at least not for me..I absolutely hate going days without seeing the one I'm supposed to be with..I don't call that a relationship..that's a "I'm gonna talk to you when the people that I like better aren't around" type of thing.I don't have to have your WHOLE day..but I do want SOME of it!


yeah i hear you...its hard to feel close to someone if they are never around...just leaves u feeling neglected and u end up looking for attention elsewhere...at least that's how it seems to go...

Yup..that's how it goes..I don't like a guy to say we're a couple or I'm his woman then he always finds reason after reason to not talk to me..or hell..flat out ignores me..If I'm gonna be by myself any way..I'm gonna call myself single..not taken!laugh


BINGO!!!

No1sLove's photo
Sat 04/26/08 08:38 AM

Thank you for saying that ..I really do enjoy the time we have together. I would hate to give it up but I don,t want to be made a fool if either.
No one does, but I think sometimes our pride proves the most foolish of all. I know mine has before. laugh

BettyB's photo
Sat 04/26/08 08:44 AM
Sometimes maybe our pride and suspicions work overtime too . at least I hope mine is !!

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sat 04/26/08 08:50 AM
I remember this one guy that I met on another site..when we started talking about meeting F2F..He would tell me that it was a bad time..and that I could deal with because he had health issues like I do..but come to find out..it was a bad time only because he had been on Ebay blowing his check on Star Wars toys!..and another time that we were supposed to meet he said that it had to be right then and there and would not tell me why..but the day he wanted to come out I had a doc appointment so I told him that I couldn't do it then..so he ended up getting mad at me because he had gotten the tickets at a discount price and couldn't get his money back on them..He honestly thought that his Star Wars toys were more important than my doc appointment!..Can you say....JERK!laugh

lilangel2's photo
Sat 04/26/08 08:50 AM

Sometimes maybe our pride and suspicions work overtime too . at least I hope mine is !!


NOPE...Follow your intutions...You were given them for a reason...men will try to confuse you into not trusting your own common sense.

No1sLove's photo
Sat 04/26/08 08:51 AM

Sometimes maybe our pride and suspicions work overtime too . at least I hope mine is !!
I hope so too Betty, you deserve the best! flowerforyou

BettyB's photo
Sat 04/26/08 08:54 AM
Why do they keep in saying they want you if they don,t? I just don,t get it .