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Topic: Serious Question for Men =)
BetterDazes Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 710	Sun 04/27/08 04:46 PM
Let me ask ya something. I have had gastric by pass surgery. Do you feel that is a turn off? Please give your honest opinion. Thanks, and don't ya dare ask how much I weigh (yet) =)

Cambolaya65 Joined Mon 09/03/07 Posts: 5587	Sun 04/27/08 04:47 PM
nope,but if ya go out to dinner do ya eat like a bird now??

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Sun 04/27/08 04:48 PM
what would that effect??? scars?? loose skin???

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Sun 04/27/08 04:48 PM
Why would having had surgery turn people off?

BetterDazes Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 710	Sun 04/27/08 04:48 PM
nope,but if ya go out to dinner do ya eat like a bird now?? yup pretty much lol. Bonus, I am a cheap date =)

jonny63 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 5229	Sun 04/27/08 04:49 PM
Nope not at all. Why would it be? You do what you have to do as long as its safe.

BetterDazes Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 710	Sun 04/27/08 04:49 PM
what would that effect??? scars?? loose skin??? Well I do have a pretty big scar right now, but it will fade, and eventually, when I am done losing my weight I will have a tummy tuck to take care of the "extra" skin. Does that answer your question?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 04/27/08 04:50 PM
Why would having had surgery turn people off? thats what Im wondering

livelife68 Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 3696	Sun 04/27/08 04:50 PM
I can't see how it would bother me.

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Sun 04/27/08 04:50 PM
My ex-husband had this surgery, and he has a new serious relationship. And, he dated A LOT before this lady. So, I don't think it's too big a deal to most people. It isn't much fun as far a dinner out goes, though. He just can't eat much!!

BetterDazes Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 710	Sun 04/27/08 04:50 PM
Why would having had surgery turn people off? Well some people have a problem with people who are large or even use to be large. Make sense?

boneyjoe Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 6196	Sun 04/27/08 04:51 PM
goood luck,,,,most of th people i know thats has had th sugery,,,,,,don't have nutten but problems,,,,,,it's really sad

Dave2722 Joined Mon 08/07/06 Posts: 644	Sun 04/27/08 04:51 PM
Well... if you did it for health reasons... what does it matter what some man thinks... you are doing it so you can be around longer for your new man.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Sun 04/27/08 04:51 PM
what would that effect??? scars?? loose skin??? Well I do have a pretty big scar right now, but it will fade, and eventually, when I am done losing my weight I will have a tummy tuck to take care of the "extra" skin. Does that answer your question? People have scars from gallbladder surgery, appendix, masectomies, heart, and more. Surgery scars are a fact of life.

Coolguy81 Joined Thu 04/10/08 Posts: 57	Sun 04/27/08 04:52 PM
Let me ask ya something. I have had gastric by pass surgery. Do you feel that is a turn off? Please give your honest opinion. Thanks, and don't ya dare ask how much I weigh (yet) =) Honestly, yeah, I feel its a huge turn off. Resorting to scientific means to lose weight speaks volumes of an individuals persona. If one cannot muster to will power to stop shoving twinkies down ones throat to save their own life, then how on earth can you expect them to muster the will power for a relationship or anything else it entails.

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Sun 04/27/08 04:52 PM
Let me ask ya something. I have had gastric by pass surgery. Do you feel that is a turn off? Please give your honest opinion. Thanks, and don't ya dare ask how much I weigh (yet) =) No. I have a friend that did it. She was always a nice person, and a pretty woman. She still needs support, because she still see herself overweight. Now she has to understand that people stare now, because she is getting hotter every month. Good luck, and good health

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Sun 04/27/08 04:52 PM
what would that effect??? scars?? loose skin??? Well I do have a pretty big scar right now, but it will fade, and eventually, when I am done losing my weight I will have a tummy tuck to take care of the "extra" skin. Does that answer your question? well, I've never actually known anyone that got that...heard of it though....doesn't it hurt???

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Sun 04/27/08 04:52 PM
Why would having had surgery turn people off? Well some people have a problem with people who are large or even use to be large. Make sense? well people have problems dealing with others that have other health issue as well, and they just dont know how to deal with it..

BetterDazes Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 710	Sun 04/27/08 04:53 PM
Well... if you did it for health reasons... what does it matter what some man thinks... you are doing it so you can be around longer for your new man. Well I did if for me, my health and my kids. And what new man, is there someone or something I don't know about?

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sun 04/27/08 04:53 PM
Let me ask ya something. I have had gastric by pass surgery. Do you feel that is a turn off? Please give your honest opinion. Thanks, and don't ya dare ask how much I weigh (yet) =) No, as long as you did it for YOU. Good luck, I hope it goes well for you.