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is that something u ask to do..or something that just kinda happens? Its like asking someone to kiss them..I mean if u have to ask..is that Chemistry even there? I agree. That stuff should just flow.  Read the body language - it's usually there. I wear my feelings on my sleeve so guys have no problem reading me .. welcome or stay back.
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I don't mind holding hands on the first date, or even kissing, you can tell it's ok just by looking in their eyes, if the glow isn't there then I wouldn't do it.. agree.. besides..if you change your mind...u can always pull away to scratch a itch... 
and the kiss...turn to the cheek...or say hey look at that and distract....
been there done that.... but holding someones hand...usually know if u want to or not... no biggy... 
 
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is that something u ask to do..or something that just kinda happens? Its like asking someone to kiss them..I mean if u have to ask..is that Chemistry even there? i agree but also feel a slight wisper....wanna kiss you as lips touch can be sensual also.... |
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Jeez, I didn't hold my mans hands til our 4th get together. Our first, well hand holding wasn't on my mind.
Quit acting so innocent people. 
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I don't mind holding hands on the first date, or even kissing, you can tell it's ok just by looking in their eyes, if the glow isn't there then I wouldn't do it.. 
Well I look at it this way, let's say there is someone on this site that you have been talking to for a long time, then you're not really strangers, even though you haven't in person, then you finally start talking on the phone, eventually see eachother on web cam, and after all of that you already know there is a definite attraction there, then you finally meet for the first time.. by then a person should know it's alright to hold hands, and even kiss, because everything has been building up to that point... jmo... |
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Jeez, I didn't hold my mans hands til our 4th get together. Our first, well hand holding wasn't on my mind.
Quit acting so innocent people.
You were thinking about global warming huh? I know that gets me every time too.... 
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Jeez, I didn't hold my mans hands til our 4th get together. Our first, well hand holding wasn't on my mind.
Quit acting so innocent people.
You were thinking about global warming huh? I know that gets me every time too....
Oh yes, the price of oil, stock markets, global warming.
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Oh yes, the price of oil, stock markets, global warming.
Makes it hard to f**k, when you think about stuff like that.... You shouldn't worry about it, there's nothing you can do...
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Jeez, I didn't hold my mans hands til our 4th get together. Our first, well hand holding wasn't on my mind.
Quit acting so innocent people.
Kitten slaps offered hand away and throws him down right therer.
And sometimes that's how it happens too.
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for cryin out loud, just hold the girls hand
 
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I don't mind holding hands on the first date, or even kissing, you can tell it's ok just by looking in their eyes, if the glow isn't there then I wouldn't do it..
Well I look at it this way, let's say there is someone on this site that you have been talking to for a long time, then you're not really strangers, even though you haven't in person, then you finally start talking on the phone, eventually see eachother on web cam, and after all of that you already know there is a definite attraction there, then you finally meet for the first time.. by then a person should know it's alright to hold hands, and even kiss, because everything has been building up to that point... jmo...
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If you ask me to hold my hand or ask to kiss me I'm gonna say no. It's a feeling that's either there or isn't and will happen naturally without there being a need for asking.
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Edited by
2Btrue2One
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Tue 04/22/08 05:32 AM
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I don't mind holding hands on the first date, or even kissing, you can tell it's ok just by looking in their eyes, if the glow isn't there then I wouldn't do it.. agree.. besides..if you change your mind...u can always pull away to scratch a itch...
and the kiss...turn to the cheek...or say hey look at that and distract....
been there done that.... but holding someones hand...usually know if u want to or not... no biggy...
This is true, although there was a girl I met once that did try to force herself on me, and she knew I wasn't interested in her romantically, only as a friend, what surprised me was her doing that knowing I only liked her as a friend.. now that was an experience... |
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well if you come see me, expect to get a hug and a kiss at the airport and me to hold your hand or..shhhh, put my arm around you
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I think this is hysterical .. for goodness sakes, is this an adult site?
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I only hold hands when I'm crossing the street.
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Anyway if there's not enough chemistry to 'go with the flow' of the easy natural stuff then WTH would I want to be goin on a first meet with them. I only meet a guy I totally 'feel it' with.
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Anyway if there's not enough chemistry to 'go with the flow' of the easy natural stuff then WTH would I want to be goin on a first meet with them. I only meet a guy I totally 'feel it' with.
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You people are crackin' me up
Feels good to laugh this friggin' early
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I believe a person should ask the person they want to hold hands with for the first time. I think its a show of healthy respect for a persons boundaries. Maybe I'm wrong...what do you think? no offense but asking IMO is kinda highschoolish.i dunno,i'd just be embarrassed to ask "do you wanna hold hands?".it doesn't sound right coming from grown people |
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