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Topic: Question????
Silkbutterfli Joined Mon 07/30/07 Posts: 1008	Sat 04/19/08 08:07 PM
So, is it ok to think about and maybe date someone 13-14 years younger than you? He is only 5 years older than my oldest daughter. My middle daughter thinks I am robbing the cradle. What do you think?

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Sat 04/19/08 08:09 PM
I think you go with "what" you feel is right for YOU.. It's not for anyone else to judge you or tell you what you should do.. It's your life.. You get one to live.. Live it to the best of your abilities... As long as you're not hurting anyone else you have nothing to be concerned about...

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Sat 04/19/08 08:09 PM
So, is it ok to think about and maybe date someone 13-14 years younger than you? He is only 5 years older than my oldest daughter. My middle daughter thinks I am robbing the cradle. What do you think? If it's legal, do it.

neo30 Joined Sat 01/26/08 Posts: 203	Sat 04/19/08 08:09 PM
Rob it!!!

Thomas27 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 4860	Sat 04/19/08 08:09 PM
Why not?

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Sat 04/19/08 08:10 PM
Teach us youngens a few tricks...God knows we could use the help...

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Sat 04/19/08 08:10 PM
well i wouldnt go out withsome that is 5yrs older than my daughter or even my oldest nephew age as i would be feeling like i would be dating my own child???? just a strange thought

Silkbutterfli Joined Mon 07/30/07 Posts: 1008	Sat 04/19/08 08:10 PM
Thank you very much

Smokee Joined Thu 03/06/08 Posts: 584	Sat 04/19/08 08:10 PM
So, is it ok to think about and maybe date someone 13-14 years younger than you? He is only 5 years older than my oldest daughter. My middle daughter thinks I am robbing the cradle. What do you think? It seems to be ok for men to do it so why not the women?

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 04/19/08 08:10 PM
So, is it ok to think about and maybe date someone 13-14 years younger than you? He is only 5 years older than my oldest daughter. My middle daughter thinks I am robbing the cradle. What do you think? I think if you are both comfortable with it, go for it. As long as they're over 18, I don't think Chris Hanson is going to be popping out anywhere.

Silkbutterfli Joined Mon 07/30/07 Posts: 1008	Sat 04/19/08 08:11 PM
I am just thinking about it. He's a cutie

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Sat 04/19/08 08:11 PM
I suppose it depends upon how important it is to you that your children approve.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sat 04/19/08 08:11 PM
hmmm I think 20 yrs is tooo much but that's just me!

crazysillygirl Joined Mon 01/29/07 Posts: 4869	Sat 04/19/08 08:13 PM
it really doesnt to much matter what we think....what do you think?????

justme32 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 1515	Sat 04/19/08 08:14 PM
You do whatever makes you happy. It's your life, live it like you want to. I live with a man and I am just 2 years older than his oldest child. Be happy.

kirk443 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 5723	Sat 04/19/08 08:14 PM
Just do what your heart "feels"

Silkbutterfli Joined Mon 07/30/07 Posts: 1008	Sat 04/19/08 08:16 PM
There are some people that believe an older woman shouldn't be dating a man that much younger. I have always liked younger men (hence my ex is 7 years younger). This was just a little younger than I normally get interested in. Was just curious what the general population thought. He lives in another state and picked me on the mutual match thing. Made me feel good, !!!! Does a lot for one's ego, when you haven't dated in over a year. Thanks for all the input everyone!!!

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 04/19/08 08:17 PM
If I were dating, I'd date who I liked, and not his age.

nu2topcat Joined Mon 07/02/07 Posts: 1317	Sat 04/19/08 08:21 PM
just a date or little fling is fine, but long term does not normally work out real well.

Silkbutterfli Joined Mon 07/30/07 Posts: 1008	Sat 04/19/08 08:24 PM
just a date or little fling is fine, but long term does not normally work out real well. That is true, my ex is a good example of that, lol.