Topic: Do you over analyze
bastet126's photo
Sat 04/19/08 12:37 PM

NOOOOOOOOOOOO....

It is an endless and usually pointless exercise. The meaning of words your partner says will usually become apparent with time anyway.

However, I do try and understand what they WANT. I'm fairly certain that's a helluva lot more important...


flowerforyou drinker

Dragoness's photo
Sat 04/19/08 12:43 PM
Guilty of over analyzing here. When I try not to and just go with the flow, I always end up in trouble so analyzing it will be lol

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Sat 04/19/08 12:48 PM
noway ME???

lol,I disect everything in life, though I MAY NOT voice my thoughts. And THAT includes everything I come into contact with, people a chair, a blender, stove,,,lol At SOME point, I set and discected it in my mind. And if ITS NEW to my mind.
I will disect it......Does THAT sound about right???,lol,lol
If given a childs school trip coming up,,,I THINK the WORST,
FIRST, then back down to the least that could go wrong.
Its always been my thought process???? lol:wink: bigsmile

ShadowLands's photo
Sat 04/19/08 06:13 PM

NO, I mean well sometimes, but not usually, unless it is an odd situation, but no normally I don't. I don't know this one time I did, but I think it was just him, and not really me, but I'd say no, NO I don't over analyze, well I know it seems like I do, but I end up just telling myself to stop and then I do, but then later I come back to it. So NO NO I don't.....that's my answer and I'm sticking to it....
And now for the Cliff's Notes version: that would be a "definite maybe".

NeedaLife's photo
Sat 04/19/08 06:18 PM
I didn't until I married a loser guy that got in trouble with the law all the time. Now I'm always looking for the meaning behind the words or the angle behind the deed.

Totage's photo
Sat 04/19/08 06:20 PM

things your partner might say?



Yeah, but I'm usually right.


Somewhat/sometimes

yashafox_F4X1's photo
Sat 04/19/08 07:00 PM
I know what she's gonna say before she says it. It's awful quiet around here.

jenleah32's photo
Sat 04/19/08 07:05 PM
Edited by jenleah32 on Sat 04/19/08 07:07 PM
noway OH YES I OVERANALYZE EVERYTHING EXCEPT FOR MY PARTNER...I REALLY HAVE ISSUES...LIKE ON SPONGEBOB HOW IS IT POSSABLE FOR THERE TO BE FIRE UNDER THE SEA OR ON HORROR MOVIES...WHY DOESN;T THE B!TCH KNOW THAT THE BAD MAN IS HIDING BEHIND THE DOOR WITH A CHAINSAW OR A KNIFE AND WHY IS IT THAT THE BLACK PERSON ALWAYS DIES IN THE BEGINNING OF A WHITE MANS FILM BUT NEVER IN THIER OWN?? THIS JUST MAKES NO SENSE TO ME...HEY PECCY IS THE WORLD REALLY ROUND??ohwell

Native_Grl39's photo
Sat 04/19/08 07:08 PM
I used to and used to be very wrong...Now I go with gut and first instinct without over-anyalyzing and I'm usually right...flowerforyou

yashafox_F4X1's photo
Sat 04/19/08 07:08 PM
Yeah. And why does Superman stand there when they fire bullets at him but when the pistol's empty and the bad guy throws it at him, THEN he ducks?

freakyflow's photo
Sat 04/19/08 11:55 PM



Umm Overanalyze? Yes I do..all the time..drives me and him nuts..it's my Criminal Justice (cop) background...and taking a few semesters of Psychology did not help it either..;)



LOL thats ok i had a gal that was into the smut mags and glamor mags ...10 tell tail signs your man is cheating on you!

I set up a birthday party for her ..she thought i was getting with her friends ..she did bust me when she followed me to the mall and busted in the cake store to find me and her mom buying a cake for her lol

Thast's really sweet. I bet she felt bad.

no her mom did have her hand in my ass at the time! kidding lol

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Sat 04/19/08 11:59 PM
I analyze everything......Im a natural born analyzer!!noway Ive even analyzed my analyzing with my best friend who also analyzes everything......noway

I think I need to NOT think so much!!!laugh laugh

iRon's photo
Sun 04/20/08 12:02 AM
Edited by iRon on Sun 04/20/08 12:04 AM
This may sound weired but I over analyze things far more than I should from people I don't know or don't like.....


Sometimes I wounder about myselfnoway noway noway .


For instance if someone does not like me I over analyze that to death. I mean how could someone not like me???? How could that be???? What did I do??? So forth and so on. And the truth is I really don't care why anyone would not like or do I?????

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Sun 04/20/08 12:14 AM
first of all, we have to be honest and say if we have a partner or not,
if we would we would not be here, but either having sex with him/her or sleeping naked really close to him/her

FearandLoathing's photo
Sun 04/20/08 12:15 AM
Is it bad that I don't analyze what anyone says period? Cause typically I don't.

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Sun 04/20/08 12:20 AM

first of all, we have to be honest and say if we have a partner or not,
if we would we would not be here, but either having sex with him/her or sleeping naked really close to him/her
Doesnt matter if we have a partner or not.....I still analyze everything.......my brain never stops ticking!!!! I wish it would sometimes!!!sad

wiley's photo
Sun 04/20/08 12:21 AM
I analyze everything to death. Yes... it's a gift and a curse.

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Sun 04/20/08 01:22 AM
Well my ex thought it was a female thing......drove him crazy.....but now I see alot of males do the same thing here?

According to my ex hubby......if a man says......Im tired.....it really does mean he is tired!!!noway laugh noway

Excussssssssssse me!!! But I must analyze that statement!!!laugh laugh laugh

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 04/20/08 06:40 AM
Ohhh Hell not going into it all Guilty as Charged!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

CATBW56's photo
Sun 04/20/08 06:42 AM

Ohhh Hell not going into it all Guilty as Charged!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


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Same here but not as bad as I used to be. Hell it used even drive me crazy sometimeslaugh laugh laugh