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It's kinda funny that some can't even handle a simple discussion about independent women. Independence doesn't make a woman a dyke at all. |
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a female who is a grease monkey is a real turn off for me.... >Whew< Now where the heck is my socket set? You cannot address me in that fashion. It is rude and insulting. you know nothing about me. Please leave. You are ruining this discussion. Hey peckerhead. Do me a favor. Look at her friend list and look at yours. What does that tell you?? I'm guessing you do not have any friends in the real world either since it is obvious you have no social skills or manners. Look at my friend list. I will tell every one of them plus all the others I know on here (and between you and me that is most of the members) that you are to be shunned. You sicken me. go away. And do us all a favor and don't come back. Ever. |
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There are some really amazing men on this site and I am privileged to call some of them my friends. I would really love to hear what they have to say about your topic.
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It just seems to me that what attracts men to us is what drives them crazy later. Men tell me they are attracted to my looks (how I dress, hair, make-up..etc), my independence, my hobbies and interests that are separate from theirs, my loyalty to friends, my sarcasm and my wicked sense of humor. But within two months this is all the stuff that seems to annnoy them the most. I get why are dressed like that, got a hot date? What's with the perfume? They don't think I'm capable of say hooking up a dvd player, carrying a heavy box or God forbid...checking my own oil. They complain that I drop everything when friends need me even if it just happened one time. Then they complain that I never do what "THEY" wanna do even though I went fishing and attended that NASCAR race just for them. This isn't just my experience though. I use "they" because my friends seem to be having the same problems. So, do men have a hard time with a woman that can just do things herself and has her own life or does he need to feel "needed" and is unhappy unless our world revolves around theirs? Maybe my friends and I are just meeting the wrong kind of men who are needy and controlling with no self esteem. Any thoughts? In my opinion...its called insecurity...this starts with the bond that is developed between the guy when he was a child and the mother...some guys never completely let go of the "having someone to take care of them"..or that mother and son bond in general...some want to show their independance by finding a woman like their mother and moving out into the world......to somewhat take her place.....a woman who is nurturing and giving...other men are self righteous and act like they dont need anyone....hence the men who we see as being cold, egotistical, self centered....and want to be the one in control...but yet they are still very much involved with their mother or completely not at all..Were all just different...and men and women in general have strengths and weaknesses alike... |
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It's kinda funny that some can't even handle a simple discussion about independent women. Independence doesn't make a woman a dyke at all. are you sure...........i could have swore when i read the manual and signed the acceptance agreemant that was mentioned in there.........LMAO |
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It's just that every time I say anything that someone doesn't agree with, my threads get deleted , I get warned, etc. Why is it ok for him to talk to me this way? It's not okay 
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There's one of them now.
Waterloo, thanks. I would talk you up to the ladies, but I kinda want you for myself. |
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It just seems to me that what attracts men to us is what drives them crazy later. Men tell me they are attracted to my looks (how I dress, hair, make-up..etc), my independence, my hobbies and interests that are separate from theirs, my loyalty to friends, my sarcasm and my wicked sense of humor. But within two months this is all the stuff that seems to annnoy them the most. I get why are dressed like that, got a hot date? What's with the perfume? They don't think I'm capable of say hooking up a dvd player, carrying a heavy box or God forbid...checking my own oil. They complain that I drop everything when friends need me even if it just happened one time. Then they complain that I never do what "THEY" wanna do even though I went fishing and attended that NASCAR race just for them. This isn't just my experience though. I use "they" because my friends seem to be having the same problems. So, do men have a hard time with a woman that can just do things herself and has her own life or does he need to feel "needed" and is unhappy unless our world revolves around theirs? Maybe my friends and I are just meeting the wrong kind of men who are needy and controlling with no self esteem. Any thoughts? In my opinion...its called insecurity...this starts with the bond that is developed between the guy when he was a child and the mother...some guys never completely let go of the "having someone to take care of them"..or that mother and son bond in general...some want to show their independance by finding a woman like their mother and moving out into the world......to somewhat take her place.....a woman who is nurturing and giving...other men are self righteous and act like they dont need anyone....hence the men who we see as being cold, egotistical, self centered....and want to be the one in control...but yet they are still very much involved with their mother or completely not at all..Were all just different...and men and women in general have strengths and weaknesses alike... and how is it that you know so much about me? |
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It just seems to me that what attracts men to us is what drives them crazy later. Men tell me they are attracted to my looks (how I dress, hair, make-up..etc), my independence, my hobbies and interests that are separate from theirs, my loyalty to friends, my sarcasm and my wicked sense of humor. But within two months this is all the stuff that seems to annnoy them the most. I get why are dressed like that, got a hot date? What's with the perfume? They don't think I'm capable of say hooking up a dvd player, carrying a heavy box or God forbid...checking my own oil. They complain that I drop everything when friends need me even if it just happened one time. Then they complain that I never do what "THEY" wanna do even though I went fishing and attended that NASCAR race just for them. This isn't just my experience though. I use "they" because my friends seem to be having the same problems. So, do men have a hard time with a woman that can just do things herself and has her own life or does he need to feel "needed" and is unhappy unless our world revolves around theirs? Maybe my friends and I are just meeting the wrong kind of men who are needy and controlling with no self esteem. Any thoughts? In my opinion...its called insecurity...this starts with the bond that is developed between the guy when he was a child and the mother...some guys never completely let go of the "having someone to take care of them"..or that mother and son bond in general...some want to show their independance by finding a woman like their mother and moving out into the world......to somewhat take her place.....a woman who is nurturing and giving...other men are self righteous and act like they dont need anyone....hence the men who we see as being cold, egotistical, self centered....and want to be the one in control...but yet they are still very much involved with their mother or completely not at all..Were all just different...and men and women in general have strengths and weaknesses alike... i think you've shown yourself very well in just a few posts |
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It just seems to me that what attracts men to us is what drives them crazy later. Men tell me they are attracted to my looks (how I dress, hair, make-up..etc), my independence, my hobbies and interests that are separate from theirs, my loyalty to friends, my sarcasm and my wicked sense of humor. But within two months this is all the stuff that seems to annnoy them the most. I get why are dressed like that, got a hot date? What's with the perfume? They don't think I'm capable of say hooking up a dvd player, carrying a heavy box or God forbid...checking my own oil. They complain that I drop everything when friends need me even if it just happened one time. Then they complain that I never do what "THEY" wanna do even though I went fishing and attended that NASCAR race just for them. This isn't just my experience though. I use "they" because my friends seem to be having the same problems. So, do men have a hard time with a woman that can just do things herself and has her own life or does he need to feel "needed" and is unhappy unless our world revolves around theirs? Maybe my friends and I are just meeting the wrong kind of men who are needy and controlling with no self esteem. Any thoughts? In my opinion...its called insecurity...this starts with the bond that is developed between the guy when he was a child and the mother...some guys never completely let go of the "having someone to take care of them"..or that mother and son bond in general...some want to show their independance by finding a woman like their mother and moving out into the world......to somewhat take her place.....a woman who is nurturing and giving...other men are self righteous and act like they dont need anyone....hence the men who we see as being cold, egotistical, self centered....and want to be the one in control...but yet they are still very much involved with their mother or completely not at all..Were all just different...and men and women in general have strengths and weaknesses alike... nope we were educated about you from the verbal image you gave us in here...........i'm sure you guessed what i picked up......and yes i believe my opinion to be "factual".....according to you i don't have to have actual proof..........LOL isn't hypocrisy fun darling........ |
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It's kinda funny that some can't even handle a simple discussion about independent women. Independence doesn't make a woman a dyke at all. are you sure...........i could have swore when i read the manual and signed the acceptance agreemant that was mentioned in there.........LMAO 
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Maybe I should get him to insult my grammar..that should get some attention.
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She is worth 1000 of you. Oh did I mention before that you're butt ugly? You think you're going to get a date on this site?
Maybe from one of her goats.
But they probably wouldn't want anything to do with you either.
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Maybe I should get him to insult my grammar..that should get some attention.
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It just seems to me that what attracts men to us is what drives them crazy later. Men tell me they are attracted to my looks (how I dress, hair, make-up..etc), my independence, my hobbies and interests that are separate from theirs, my loyalty to friends, my sarcasm and my wicked sense of humor. But within two months this is all the stuff that seems to annnoy them the most. I get why are dressed like that, got a hot date? What's with the perfume? They don't think I'm capable of say hooking up a dvd player, carrying a heavy box or God forbid...checking my own oil. They complain that I drop everything when friends need me even if it just happened one time. Then they complain that I never do what "THEY" wanna do even though I went fishing and attended that NASCAR race just for them. This isn't just my experience though. I use "they" because my friends seem to be having the same problems. So, do men have a hard time with a woman that can just do things herself and has her own life or does he need to feel "needed" and is unhappy unless our world revolves around theirs? Maybe my friends and I are just meeting the wrong kind of men who are needy and controlling with no self esteem. Any thoughts? In my opinion...its called insecurity...this starts with the bond that is developed between the guy when he was a child and the mother...some guys never completely let go of the "having someone to take care of them"..or that mother and son bond in general...some want to show their independance by finding a woman like their mother and moving out into the world......to somewhat take her place.....a woman who is nurturing and giving...other men are self righteous and act like they dont need anyone....hence the men who we see as being cold, egotistical, self centered....and want to be the one in control...but yet they are still very much involved with their mother or completely not at all..Were all just different...and men and women in general have strengths and weaknesses alike... Ummmmm my comment wasnt for you...it was for Justachickin MA...she posted this thread...not you....and no I didnt look at your profile...I could care less if you're a male schauvanistic pig...really......your opinion of a hot girl in victorias secrets underwear in coveralls is the least of my concerns...but I will say that we got the job done when need be....but you can go call your momma.....and cry about it...  Im not here to give you my sympathy..sorry
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my gosh this place sucks no dam woman in here wants talk
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Maybe I should get him to insult my grammar..that should get some attention. and ruin our fun............LOL let him continue to make an ass of himself.......(note i did not call him an ass.......YET..) God i feel bitc*y tonight....... 
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Maybe I should get him to insult my grammar..that should get some attention. I think he likes you, but his mind is too primitive to convey his interest in you, so he attacks you, hoping you will like him. It's like in kindergarten when the boy pulls on the girls pigtails. |
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Why can't we get this guy out of here? I have reported him like six times. I guess it's ok because it's me.
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my gosh this place sucks no dam woman in here wants talk because when we do we get called horrible names. |
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