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a female who is a grease monkey is a real turn off for me.... >Whew< Now where the heck is my socket set? You cannot address me in that fashion. It is rude and insulting. you know nothing about me. Please leave. You are ruining this discussion. |
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a female who is a grease monkey is a real turn off for me.... ![]() |
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Edited by
iceprincess
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Wed 04/09/08 09:01 PM
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a female who is a grease monkey is a real turn off for me.... >Whew< Now where the heck is my socket set? You cannot address me in that fashion. It is rude and insulting. factual would require facts........do you care to share these said facts or are we required to take your wrod for it...........if that be the case i can think of a few "factual" comments in regards to your precious "manhood" |
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Yes!
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I am 100% woman, can satisfy any man with all my womanness and I still can run a drill, why would that be a problem??
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a female who is a grease monkey is a real turn off for me.... >Whew< Now where the heck is my socket set? You cannot address me in that fashion. It is rude and insulting. you know nothing about me. Please leave. You are ruining this discussion. DO NOT EVER ADDRESS ME IN THAT WAY AGAIN. I DID NOTHING TO YOU. |
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Why is it ok for ME to be attacked and insulted?
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a female who is a grease monkey is a real turn off for me.... >Whew< Now where the heck is my socket set? You cannot address me in that fashion. It is rude and insulting. you know nothing about me. Please leave. You are ruining this discussion. DO NOT EVER ADDRESS ME IN THAT WAY AGAIN. I DID NOTHING TO YOU. Hiker be the bigger"man" and ignore.........he obviously has issues tracing back to his mother not loving him enough........mayby she weaned him to young........god only knows just bear in mind,,,,,,,,he who denies most vehemently is themselves guilty so i'm sure he plays the "female" role in his relationship....... |
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boy this took a unexpected turn.sorry hiker for this man's obvious ignorance.
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It's just that every time I say anything that someone doesn't agree with, my threads get deleted , I get warned, etc. Why is it ok for him to talk to me this way?
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I think you kick ass hiker chick....don't let one negative, close minded, guy that obviously still lives in 1950 ruin your night. He's not worth it!
I feel bad for starting this now, was hoping for some intelligent answers from men and THIS is what we get...MY BAD! Thank you to the good men who have answered and props to the ladies....our boat is getting really full and is close to sinking though. YIKES!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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a female who is a grease monkey is a real turn off for me.... >Whew< Now where the heck is my socket set? You cannot address me in that fashion. It is rude and insulting. you know nothing about me. Please leave. You are ruining this discussion. DO NOT EVER ADDRESS ME IN THAT WAY AGAIN. I DID NOTHING TO YOU. Hiker be the bigger"man" and ignore.........he obviously has issues tracing back to his mother not loving him enough........mayby she weaned him to young........god only knows just bear in mind,,,,,,,,he who denies most vehemently is themselves guilty so i'm sure he plays the "female" role in his relationship....... thank you ..and I was mean to you once and now I am sorry! |
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i do not find it insulting,i find it factual....
that is very ignorant and telling of your personality. i for one am glad you shared with us, now we all know just how big of a man you are. threatened by equality, go you ![]() |
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I think you kick ass hiker chick....don't let one negative, close minded, guy that obviously still lives in 1950 ruin your night. He's not worth it! I feel bad for starting this now, was hoping for some intelligent answers from men and THIS is what we get...MY BAD! Thank you to the good men who have answered and props to the ladies....our boat is getting really full and is close to sinking though. YIKES!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() But I'm not even gay!!! ![]() ![]() And I loved your topic..finally,something interesting! |
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It just seems to me that what attracts men to us is what drives them crazy later. Men tell me they are attracted to my looks (how I dress, hair, make-up..etc), my independence, my hobbies and interests that are separate from theirs, my loyalty to friends, my sarcasm and my wicked sense of humor. But within two months this is all the stuff that seems to annnoy them the most. I get why are dressed like that, got a hot date? What's with the perfume? They don't think I'm capable of say hooking up a dvd player, carrying a heavy box or God forbid...checking my own oil. They complain that I drop everything when friends need me even if it just happened one time. Then they complain that I never do what "THEY" wanna do even though I went fishing and attended that NASCAR race just for them. This isn't just my experience though. I use "they" because my friends seem to be having the same problems. So, do men have a hard time with a woman that can just do things herself and has her own life or does he need to feel "needed" and is unhappy unless our world revolves around theirs? Maybe my friends and I are just meeting the wrong kind of men who are needy and controlling with no self esteem. Any thoughts? In my opinion...its called insecurity...this starts with the bond that is developed between the guy when he was a child and the mother...some guys never completely let go of the "having someone to take care of them"..or that mother and son bond in general...some want to show their independance by finding a woman like their mother and moving out into the world......to somewhat take her place.....a woman who is nurturing and giving...other men are self righteous and act like they dont need anyone....hence the men who we see as being cold, egotistical, self centered....and want to be the one in control...but yet they are still very much involved with their mother or completely not at all..Were all just different...and men and women in general have strengths and weaknesses alike... |
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Read his profile and you might see why he is a hater of women! Don't worry about him Hiker...just ignore men like that!
Flowers for all the independent women out there that don't NEED a man but WANT a man in their life!! ![]() |
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I think you kick ass hiker chick....don't let one negative, close minded, guy that obviously still lives in 1950 ruin your night. He's not worth it! I feel bad for starting this now, was hoping for some intelligent answers from men and THIS is what we get...MY BAD! Thank you to the good men who have answered and props to the ladies....our boat is getting really full and is close to sinking though. YIKES!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() its a great topic and now we will weed out the crabgrass.lol |
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a female who is a grease monkey is a real turn off for me.... >Whew< Now where the heck is my socket set? You cannot address me in that fashion. It is rude and insulting. you know nothing about me. Please leave. You are ruining this discussion. DO NOT EVER ADDRESS ME IN THAT WAY AGAIN. I DID NOTHING TO YOU. Hiker be the bigger"man" and ignore.........he obviously has issues tracing back to his mother not loving him enough........mayby she weaned him to young........god only knows just bear in mind,,,,,,,,he who denies most vehemently is themselves guilty so i'm sure he plays the "female" role in his relationship....... thank you ..and I was mean to you once and now I am sorry! don't be i never took it personally.......in fact i don't remember it....... Life isn't always fair.....take what he say's and run with it......since he feels he is dealing in facts they must be based on his own personal experience........therefore as i said he probably plays the female role in his "relationship....... |
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Read his profile and you might see why he is a hater of women! Don't worry about him Hiker...just ignore men like that! Flowers for all the independent women out there that don't NEED a man but WANT a man in their life!! ![]() Thanks. You are right. |
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I think you kick ass hiker chick....don't let one negative, close minded, guy that obviously still lives in 1950 ruin your night. He's not worth it! I feel bad for starting this now, was hoping for some intelligent answers from men and THIS is what we get...MY BAD! Thank you to the good men who have answered and props to the ladies....our boat is getting really full and is close to sinking though. YIKES!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() It's not your fault that SOME people Are just ... what's the word i'm looking for? Oh yeah ... ****tards ![]() |
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