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Topic: Disclosing the past
willy_cents Joined Sat 07/14/07 Posts: 4471	Fri 04/04/08 08:59 PM
If they ask specifically, I will talk about my past. But, most of the time, I don't volunteer too much about myself because what I used to be and what I am today are two different ppl in most ways due to the lessons I have learned from my ****-ups.

HMontana Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 5037	Fri 04/04/08 09:00 PM
I'm completely ok with letting him know about the bodies in the yard...after all, he may be mowing one day and trip on a femur. I HATE when that happens! I know...it only took ONE time for me to learn, bless his lil heart. Scared the bejeezes right outta him. Then, well, you already know...watch out for HIS femur.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/04/08 09:01 PM
If they ask specifically, I will talk about my past. But, most of the time, I don't volunteer too much about myself because what I used to be and what I am today are two different ppl in most ways due to the lessons I have learned from my ****-ups. I agree.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/04/08 09:01 PM
I'm completely ok with letting him know about the bodies in the yard...after all, he may be mowing one day and trip on a femur. I HATE when that happens! I know...it only took ONE time for me to learn, bless his lil heart. Scared the bejeezes right outta him. Then, well, you already know...watch out for HIS femur. Oh tell me about it. That's why I got a house with three acres. that should hold me for a while.

sleeplessingermany Joined Thu 03/13/08 Posts: 1490	Fri 04/04/08 09:02 PM
a casual date won't learn too much of my past. a serious suitor will learn a little more.... i will save almost everything for the person i want to spend the rest of my life with.

andrew101888 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 2143	Fri 04/04/08 09:02 PM
Landmaster.

HMontana Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 5037	Fri 04/04/08 09:03 PM
Oh tell me about it. That's why I got a house with three acres. that should hold me for a while. That does it. I'm moving in, Hiker. I'm outta room here. And I got a good acre in my back yard.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/04/08 09:05 PM
Well, we have my three acres and about 50 acres of undeveloped flood plain behind me. As long as the creek doesn't flood, we should be fine.

andrew101888 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 2143	Fri 04/04/08 09:06 PM
Falcon Punch

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/04/08 09:07 PM
Falcon Punch Andrew is speaking in tongues.

andrew101888 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 2143	Fri 04/04/08 09:08 PM
Falcon Punch Andrew is speaking in tongues. No, look it up on youtube quite hilarious.

HMontana Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 5037	Fri 04/04/08 09:08 PM
Falcon Punch Andrew is speaking in tongues. Let's invite him over!

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/04/08 09:09 PM
Falcon Punch Andrew is speaking in tongues. No, look it up on youtube quite hilarious. I can't do youtube - dial-up.

andrew101888 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 2143	Fri 04/04/08 09:09 PM Edited by andrew101888 on Fri 04/04/08 09:10 PM
Falcon Punch Andrew is speaking in tongues. No, look it up on youtube quite hilarious. I can't do youtube - dial-up. how do you live?? dial-up? yuck. it's just a move in a game that everyone loves.. it's just funny

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/04/08 09:10 PM
I do believe I have hijacked my own thread. I didn't think it could be done.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/04/08 09:10 PM
Falcon Punch Andrew is speaking in tongues. No, look it up on youtube quite hilarious. I can't do youtube - dial-up. how do you live?? dial-up? yuck. it's just a move in a game that everyone loves.. it's just funny no choice - no cable or DSL out here in the boonies; and satellite internet is expensive and unreliable.

andrew101888 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 2143	Fri 04/04/08 09:11 PM
Falcon Punch Andrew is speaking in tongues. No, look it up on youtube quite hilarious. I can't do youtube - dial-up. how do you live?? dial-up? yuck. it's just a move in a game that everyone loves.. it's just funny no choice - no cable or DSL out here in the boonies; and satellite internet is expensive and unreliable. true satellite sucks.

welder_one Joined Tue 12/25/07 Posts: 248	Fri 04/04/08 09:19 PM
back onto the topic a little. i have learned from my past and some in the present that some secrets are best left unsaid. i was married for 5 years and let out a secret and the key word being "was" married...lol there is more to it than that, but she didnt want to deal with it well...i was a sniper in the army. i reclassed in the last 2 years that i was in, and chose to become a weldor. (not much room for a sniper in the civillian world) she thought that i was a weldor the whole time that i was in. now my secret is out.

HMontana Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 5037	Fri 04/04/08 09:21 PM
I do believe I have hijacked my own thread. I didn't think it could be done. lmfao!!!! Hiker, only you, my dear! I'm so proud! Like 8th grade graduation!

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/04/08 09:21 PM
back onto the topic a little. i have learned from my past and some in the present that some secrets are best left unsaid. i was married for 5 years and let out a secret and the key word being "was" married...lol there is more to it than that, but she didnt want to deal with it well...i was a sniper in the army. i reclassed in the last 2 years that i was in, and chose to become a weldor. (not much room for a sniper in the civillian world) she thought that i was a weldor the whole time that i was in. now my secret is out. a disclosure like that hurt your marriage? That is very sad.