hi. i am sabine, i have joined this site to find new friends. the basis of any romantic relationship is friendship, at least for me; so let’s try to be friends first and if something more develops from that point on…..well, i guess we can call ourselves lucky…;) i am looking for someone to laugh with! are you funny, easy-going and relaxed? adventurous, curious and slightly crazy? are you a child at heart? can you also be serious when the situation calls for it? would you stand by me no matter what? i asked my friends how they would describe me and this is what they came up with (of course i am inclined to believe them ;) "sabine has a great sense of humor, she is very easy-going, open-minded, dependable, loyal, patient and very (too) helpful. she likes to take care of others: humans and animals alike. she can be very chaotic (don’t ever let her cook a complicated meal -you might not survive-or let her travel by herself:-you will probably never see her again). from time to time she can also be really stubborn (grrr). of course we could tell you a lot more, but hey: but this why you are here -or so we hope- so you can find out for yourself"...... …....you are you still reading this? hey cool! :)) then contact me if you think we can be friends, sleepless in germany , sabine my favorite poem by erich fried: Es ist Unsinn sagt die Vernunft Es ist was es ist sagt die Liebe Es ist Unglück sagt die Berechnung Es ist nichts als Schmerz sagt die Angst Es ist aussichtslos sagt die Einsicht Es ist was es ist sagt die Liebe Es ist lächerlich sagt der Stolz Es ist leichtsinnig sagt die Vorsicht Es ist unmöglich sagt die Erfahrung Es ist was es ist sagt die Liebe (Quelle: Erich Fried "Es ist was es ist. Liebesgedichte, Angstgedichte, Zorngedichte", Berlin 1996.) What it is It is nonsense says reason It is what it is says love It is misfortune says calculation It is nothing but pain says fear It is hopeless says insight It is what it is says love It is ridiculous says pride It is careless says caution It is impossible says experience It is what it is says love Translation by M. Kaldenbach