Community > Posts By > 74Drew

 
74Drew's photo
Thu 06/24/10 11:43 PM
i stopped speaking of the hurt when i realized that everyone has their own problems to deal with and they don't need to hear about mine.

i still think about the last girl daily. and when i visit one of my friends, i'm tormented by memories of her triggered by random landmarks.

you can tell how deeply your love for someone is by how badly it hurts when they're gone from your life.

i don't think you need to be at peace, but you need to be at a place where you're able to overwrite the old memories with new ones.


. . .

74Drew's photo
Thu 06/24/10 11:34 PM


my fiance married someone else while i was away in basic training.


. . .


That happened to me, too, Drew. I kept writing her letters. She was like my whole world and I was really infatuated with her. I guess her mom really liked them because she never got them. She married my best friend while I was still writing the letters. I always wondered why she never wrote back. We seemed so close before I went to Basic. My best friend was the first one to tell me about what happened. I guess that was why we were best friends because we could communicate. I had no hard feelings towards him; Atleast he was honest. You're a better man than me, Gunga Din.:smile:

i have to admit that while it sucked at the time, she did me the greatest favor a guy could ask for. she didn't drag me down into her messed up world. i found out a couple years later that she'd been sleeping with other guys the whole time i was dating her. she was never really my girl, she just let me believe that she was.
good riddance to her.


. . .

74Drew's photo
Thu 06/24/10 08:43 PM
bump.

thanks to all of the people who are replying. i was hoping more people would get involved in this. i really would like to know more peoples' thoughts.



. . .

74Drew's photo
Thu 06/24/10 08:33 PM
Edited by 74Drew on Thu 06/24/10 08:39 PM


now IMO there is a physically perfect woman. definitely worthy of some slobber.
lol


damn filters! i had a better one picked out but the name had a "bad" word in it.

. . .

74Drew's photo
Thu 06/24/10 06:43 PM

Just for clarification this is the "what makes you drool thread", not the "this is what I expect any guy I date to look like thread".... I've never dated a drool worthy guy except for that one fireman when I was 20.... but he was dumber than a box of rocks!

i've dated drool worthy girls, but they were either cheating on me or using me to help pass the time. none of them were really worthy of me, and i compromised my stardards in each case just to be with someone attractive.
now i'm looking for someone attractive and worthy of me. and the search goes on and on and on.......


. . .

74Drew's photo
Thu 06/24/10 03:02 PM


I tend to gravitate toward women with some kind of edge, be it a girly girl edge, or a tomboy edge... just not total plain jane wall flower type.... the "princess" type seem to be attractive to me as well... strong personality, a point of view - passion for life and for things other than themselves...

I have found I am attracted to some women, who initially I though I would not be attracted too, but after getting to know them... I agree with earlier posts, it's mostly a vibe thing...

I am not attracted to overly thin women, it's a turn off for me. I am very attracted to intellectual types, although they do not have to be formal about their education, just smart. Independent, strong, oh my!.... love

Of course, bouncy never hurts!!

$.02 drinker


Just curious, what's the attraction to the princess type?

hopefully she's got a large inheritance.


. . .

74Drew's photo
Thu 06/24/10 02:49 PM


There's always tequila? drinker

ah yes, alter your appearance by imparing her visual receptors.



. . .

74Drew's photo
Thu 06/24/10 02:34 PM



Travis Fimmel - he is IT!



how are normal guys supposed to compete with that?


. . .


There is a reason this guy is posing in the picture and not a mingle2 member. Those of us here are 'normal'...well in the way that your using the term anyway. That's why were here and he's not. Were all a bunch of average Joe's and average Joan's.

If I got offended, being called 'normal' would offend me...I strive to not be 'normal'.

:tongue:

all i'm saying is if this is what it takes to get a woman started through visual means, i'm never going to get that engine to turn over.


. . .

74Drew's photo
Thu 06/24/10 02:27 PM
Edited by 74Drew on Thu 06/24/10 02:27 PM

They are called Ferrari's

i said normal.

the closer you get to the center of the country the larger the midsection of the men, on average.



. . .

74Drew's photo
Thu 06/24/10 02:20 PM

Travis Fimmel - he is IT!



how are normal guys supposed to compete with that?


. . .

74Drew's photo
Thu 06/24/10 02:03 PM
i'm curious at to whether those who do filter their searches do so for compatability reasons, or because they feel those of a different belief may have drastically different morals.


. . .

74Drew's photo
Thu 06/24/10 11:19 AM


I've found that the guys who think they have to impress us also feel we need to work hard to impress them. That gets old very quickly.

that's not necessarily true. i don't expect to be impressed, but i do expect to not be toyed with.

and maybe some of us think we have to impress because we've seen how finicky some women can be.

myka said she likes a guy who's confident and has a sense of self. however, she also says that she like tall, dark, handsome, and tattooed. if a guy doesn't fit the bill physically, and he wants to get her attention, then he's likely going to try something to impress her.


. . .

74Drew's photo
Thu 06/24/10 11:07 AM
supermodels


. . .

74Drew's photo
Thu 06/24/10 06:53 AM
Edited by 74Drew on Thu 06/24/10 07:01 AM

I would not have a problem with it as long as they respected my views and beliefs. I am someone who believes your religious preferences are very personal. I don't preach to everyone or try to convert anyone and I would expect the same from whoever I am dating.

but do you, when initially looking for someone, give people with different beliefs the same opportunity, or do you disqualify them immediately?

i started this thread because on some sites you can customize your searches with various filters, one of them being religion. and i've noticed that many people only consider others from the same or similar beliefs. i'm curious as to how important is it to find someone who shares the same beliefs?


. . .

74Drew's photo
Thu 06/24/10 06:41 AM
bump

i was hoping for more responses. c'mon people, don't leave me hanging.



. . .

74Drew's photo
Thu 06/24/10 06:39 AM
how's that teaching thing going?
i thought about teaching english as a foreign language, just not sure how to get started and if the pay would be good enough.


. . .

74Drew's photo
Thu 06/24/10 04:29 AM

Drew, ya probably would know a sign if ya got smacked by it....laugh


you may be right
i do tend to be rather oblivious though



. . .

74Drew's photo
Thu 06/24/10 04:12 AM
i can't help you
i wouldn't see a sign if someone smacked me with it. it could just be that someone at the radio station is feeling a bit randy.


. . .

74Drew's photo
Thu 06/24/10 04:04 AM





If you could GO ANYWHERE in the WORLD...............where would you GO? spock :thumbsup: shades

whatever place has the most attractive, single, desperate women.


. . .
OOOOKKKKKK.............slaphead

i have to do something to up my odds.


. . .
Ok DREW, we just don't know what it is that you want? whoa Then if you had it what would you do with it? spock

well
i would love him and pet him and squeeze him and hug him and i would call him george

i mean, who knows what i'd do with if i found what i want? it's been so long, i've forgotten what to do.


. . .

74Drew's photo
Thu 06/24/10 12:23 AM



If you could GO ANYWHERE in the WORLD...............where would you GO? spock :thumbsup: shades

whatever place has the most attractive, single, desperate women.


. . .
OOOOKKKKKK.............slaphead

i have to do something to up my odds.


. . .