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Sun 06/29/14 12:10 AM
Love is an uncontrollable and unpredictable emotion you feel for a living being and comes in multitudes of types/styles and various stages/ strength.

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Sun 06/29/14 12:04 AM
Do you ever feel like the black sheep? (Odd person). I read these trends asking about preferences and how to "catch the ONE) And I see both men and women's responces and think "That's not me, are my peers really that different from me?"

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Sat 06/28/14 10:36 AM
Honestly 8out of10 girls want a man like their daddy(not the men who say they're a dad but the genuine DADDY) the rest are looking for the exact opposite.

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Sat 06/28/14 09:06 AM

I know how that is.. here its so warm its so hard the kids will drive you nuts but ya gotta luv that? just think when they are in school you don't have to worry so much?

My hardest one is not old enough for school and my other will not be able to help keep her brother entertained when school starts.... however yes I do love the little devil pitchfork and would not trade em for the world.biggrin

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Sat 06/28/14 08:56 AM
yawn asleep

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Sat 06/28/14 08:45 AM
There ate allot of things I would LIKE to do but since I can't I like to sleep in as late as possible then try not to let my kids drive me insane.smokin

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Sat 06/28/14 08:39 AM

9 out of 10 surgeons say that vegan women actually DO love meat....errrr....I mean FWB's.

rofl

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Sat 06/28/14 08:38 AM

This is situation hilarious.

One person who says her religion is "Christian - Other" favors FWB.
Another person who says her religion is "Atheist" is opposed to FWB on moral grounds.

It is like a person claiming to be a vegan is eating a steak, while another person claiming to be an anti-vegan is eating a salad.

rofl



May I point out 2 things. 1: a true Christian knows only god can judge and if he/she judges another human they are sinning.
2: it says Christian-OTHER emphasis on the OTHER part.... here's what I was taught. Christian is not a specific religion it is simply a person who believes in an almighty god and Jesus.

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Sat 06/28/14 08:06 AM

Our society is built on self entitled people who lack moral judgment....this is what fwb is really about .. .

Spoken like a person who has no real argument and simply wants to be mightier than thou. News flash you aren't and if you actually paid attention most of us Are saying fwb is not our thing but instead of condemning we are defending their choice and their right. No one said you have to practice fwb no one even said you have to agree but you do need to show respect. As a once famous bunny said "If you can't say nuttin nice don't say Nuttin at all"

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Sat 06/28/14 12:12 AM
@ rebelgeek
Cheers that was wonderful speechdrinker

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Sat 06/28/14 12:08 AM

If you are truly looking for a girlfriend try this it might help and it might not.


ULE 1: Women communicate in two modes: way things are, and the way they WISH things were. Whenever in doubt, assume it’s the latter choice.

RULE 2: Women desire attention the same way that guys desire sex. Give attention sparingly. This is your currency.

RULE 3: Do not become so invested in any one girl that you cannot simply walk away.

RULE 4: Confidence attracts women even more than good looks. This is why you see fat, ugly, or dumpy guys with hot chicks.

RULE 5: Desperation repels women. You will attract more women when you don’t care if you’re attracting women.

RULE 6: After getting a girl’s phone number, wait at least two days to call her to avoid appearing desperate.

RULE 7: Use the phone only to set up dates. Not to talk about weather, current events, how her day went, etc. Save that conversation for the date.

RULE 8: If you call a girl and get an answering machine, don’t leave a message. Just try again another time. Girls, as a general rule, do not return phone calls.

RULE 9: First dates should be short and creative. NO "dinner and a movie". Things involving some activity are best: pool, bowling, roller blading, mini-golf, dancing, etc. Keep it FUN.

RULE 10: Do not give gifts early in the relationship. Doing so makes it appear as though you are attempting to purchase affection.

RULE 11: Girls will test guys to see how much they can skate by with. Do not be tempted to give in. Speak your opinions, stand by your convictions, and don’t put up with excessive amounts of BS.

RULE 12: A person can only take advantage of you as much as you let them.

RULE 13: There is no such thing as a "soulmate" or "the one". It doesn’t exist. There are millions of girls out there, though, and many of them have the traits you are looking for.

RULE 14: Don’t put any woman up on a pedestal. You risk not being able to reach her. Women are people too... or so I’m told.

RULE 15: If a woman disrespects you or your time, particularly early in the relationship, don’t hesitate to get rid of her. NEXT!

RULE 16: No relationship is a committed one until both people agree that it is. Until then, anything is fair game for both parties involved.

RULE 17: Never be the one that says, "I love you" first.

RULE 18: The challenge is part of the fun. Don’t short-change the girl. Let her pursue you. The harder something is to obtain, the more valuable it is perceived to be.

RULE 19: If a girl cheats on you, she is gone. No exceptions.

RULE 20: Never date a girl who has more problems than you do.

RULE 21: Do not date girls from work. Work is stressful enough.

RULE 22: Dating is a "numbers game". Accept the fact that you’re going to get rejected more times than not. Suck it up and get back out there.

RULE 23: Getting advice about women from a woman is like asking Osama bin Laden to tell you the locations of all his terrorist camps.

RULE 24: Where women are concerned, pay more attention to what they do than what they say.

RULE 25: Realize that women are tricky, lying, manipulative, devious, scheming, sneaky, cunning, calculating, shrewd, and Machiavellian creatures. Love them anyway.

RULE 26: Bros before hoes. Any girl that can be stolen from your best friend isn’t worth stealing from your best friend.

RULE 27: Stay away from your ex. Chances are that you won’t be able to get back with her. Chances are also good that if you DO succeed in getting back with your ex, you’ll wish that you hadn’t.

RULE 28: Don’t reveal too much about yourself too soon. Remain a mystery.

RULE 29: Girls are not the only thing in life. Have other things in your life that excite you.

RULE 30: If you aren’t sure about when to bend or break a rule, go with your instinct. If it’s wrong, that’s a good lesson for next time... and there’s always a next time.

What Bs over half of your rules are a good way to mess it up. Obviously you have been with shallow and/or stupid girls. We are not all like that.

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Fri 06/27/14 11:47 PM

Here is the issue if you are fwb do you hold any allegiance to anyone other than your body parts...I believe not so you can acquire more fwbs which you can because you have no loyalty to anyone which leads to stds.....I'm not buying that it's a form of choice it's actually a form of lazy people trying to get other people in their team....

You are beginning to sound like a broken record and a judgmental one at that. Everyone has their own reasons and ideas even if you don't understand/agree it is their choice not yours. I am sure there is something you do that 1 or more people think are horrible but you would be mad if they called you names. Please treat others how you want to be treated on my thread.

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Fri 06/27/14 11:36 PM
To heck with smart or dumb I just want one with good common sense.

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Fri 06/27/14 11:33 PM
Perhaps you are trying to hard or comming on to strong. I took a glance at your profile and it makes you look arrogant and a bit creepy. Try consentrating on making connections through common interests and less trying to reel in gold diggers.

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Fri 06/27/14 11:20 PM
Open mail or instant message from a 100% stranger and they have the gull to use terms of endearment without even giving proper introductions. Seriously does ANYONE like that kind of first messages?

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Fri 06/27/14 11:07 PM
Personally I think fwb would be a better alternate to one night stands. As it is your friend odds are you would know if they have std plus friends wouldn't pass around how easy you are. It helps both of you to have someone who cares about you and can talk hang out or more with no pressure either way. If they break these guidelines it is not friends with benefits but a pretender using another person. In any case it is a gamble. Things might work out and friendship survives or the friendship dies (or becomes strained) or feeling blossom and the fwb becomes fantastic partner for life. Statistics say the most successful relationships are the ones that were friends first.

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Thu 06/26/14 06:00 PM
Its definitely not for every one.

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Wed 06/25/14 01:59 PM
I often fantasize of being a child again....... or of runny far away.

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Mon 06/23/14 10:23 PM


We see so many posts about love as if there are rules and guidelines everyone must follow. My view is there is no right or wrong answer.


Whether or not there is a right or wrong answer depends on what standard that you use to determine right from wrong.

point taken

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Mon 06/23/14 10:16 PM
Edited by MaJayJay29 on Mon 06/23/14 10:18 PM

Why do women do this? Often when I walk down the hall at work and pass a female co-worker, I will then get a poke/push in the shoulder. When I turn around they are walking away. The other day I was finishing my paperwork so I could punch out and a woman comes into the office, goes on a verbal jag of how she is leaving now; then looks at me asks why I am not talking to her, sticks her finger in my ear and wiggles it about, then leaves. WTF was that. The worse part is as I started learning to walk again, my balance is still not great; yesterday a woman walks by and gives him a forearm to the chest- I fall backward thru an unlocked door and she grabs my shirt to keep me from falling.

WTF? They all know I have only been walking since November and I am still mastering it. Is it that they see me as handicapped and easy to pick on? I am assuming I am their release for their intense tripod anger.

watch hitch he explains it perfectly happy
on serious note women do it because of many reasons but bullying is not usually it. and they probably wont stop unless you confront them.