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Jerks are jerks, in life we have them....both women and men. I wanna know why ppl assume that only 1 sex r manipulative? They are not. They both have the ability to manipulate, I have seen both, but I stated an example. |
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Edited by
MikeCarbellano
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Tue 06/30/09 01:29 PM
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You know, I'm not gonna talk about you, but let's say it's me who says this...I noticed too and seen when girls continue to hang out with the same person who treats them like crap, but I also noticed, that when I see and notice that, it's sort of a jealousy thing. I try to figure out why I fail or don't have something, so I look at others and point the finger, that "person is so much worse than me, how does he do it?" - sort of thing. Right. That was my initial question. But I am not jealous. It would be nice to have a girlfriend, but it hasn't happened. |
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MikeCarbellano
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Tue 06/30/09 01:20 PM
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Ah, I get it, you're the nice guy in disguise. You don't want people to think you're complaining about nice guys finishing last but, in essense, that's exactly what you're doing, your protests to the contrary. Other "jerks?" Again, with the generalizing and not knowing anything about the relationship(s). Fact of the matter is, unless you're IN the relationship, you don't know he/she is a jerk. Single since November 2005 and doing "everything" right? Unless being single is a choice (and I have no way of knowing by what you've said here whether that's the case or not), you're not doing everything right. You know why? There is no "everything right." You can only be you. If you do this (and again, I don't know if you do), quit trying to be what "someone" says you should be and and quit doing what "someone" says you should do and just be. It comes across as fake, and phony, and it doesn't take long for people to pick up on the idea that you are not being yourself. 
I was wondering the logic. It is just certain people I guess. When I am myself, I am boring. I am trying to get out and do more. I also have a very monotone voice. I do not want to discuss on here why I do though. When I do try to change my voice, I have been told by people I sound uptight, and like a jerk. I do not mean to sound like that, but it is how I come off to people. The people that know me well like family, already know that. |
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there is obviously something that attracts these women to the kind of men that they are with...whether it is the specific men or just the preference of the woman also, what YOU see as him being a d-bag or d!ck...she may not see that quality couples have fights (some more than others) but that doesn't mean that they do not have a great relationship....different people look for different things in a relationship no offense, but get over it and quit whining....if you want something, go and get it I am asking the logic behind why some people act like this, but apparently, whining is asking a question. |
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there is obviously something that attracts these women to the kind of men that they are with...whether it is the specific men or just the preference of the woman also, what YOU see as him being a d-bag or d!ck...she may not see that quality couples have fights (some more than others) but that doesn't mean that they do not have a great relationship....different people look for different things in a relationship no offense, but get over it and quit whining....if you want something, go and get it |
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...that most girls want guys who treat them like complete crap. It is sickening how many couples I see fight almost on a daily basis. Then when they do break up, they usually get back with the same jerk. I could never give someone that many chances. You can only burn so many bridges before it is too late to go back with them. Who the hell would want confrontation in their life anyway? I do not. I never got the logic behind it. If someone does, please, do tell... 
It is not me. You want to know why I am posting this? The real reason is because I see other jerks in relationships that shouldn't be. I have been single since November 2005, and am doing everthing right, yet people think I am complaining about women. I am not going after any women, yet. I don't like weirdos. Lay off. |
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I think people think I am pointing fingers, which I am not. So I am sorry for the misunderstanding. it is ok we understand...now sit down and play with your crayons... Will do. I have my Spiderman coloring book at my desk at work. |
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I think people think I am pointing fingers, which I am not. So I am sorry for the misunderstanding.
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I am not calling anyone names here, or pointing fingers. It may be just the people I have known. Well, if that's the case, meet better people!  Raise your standards, don't tolerate a bunch of drama, and be good to yourself! 
It is not me, I have observed it. I do have standards, and meeting drama free ones is for sure one of the more important one. When I meet someone, I will make sure they are free of drama. But until then, it can wait. |
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I guess I am wrong. I am not complaining or making this up, it is what I have seen happening. I have seen it on peoples' Myspace pages, through texts, phone calls, etc.
I am not calling anyone names here, or pointing fingers. It may be just the people I have known. |
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...that most girls want guys who treat them like complete crap. It is sickening how many couples I see fight almost on a daily basis. Then when they do break up, they usually get back with the same jerk. I could never give someone that many chances. You can only burn so many bridges before it is too late to go back with them. Who the hell would want confrontation in their life anyway? I do not.
I never got the logic behind it. If someone does, please, do tell... |
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wrong number?.....cellphone chat/text lines.....craigslist Craigslist is filled with creeps and spammers. It is a joke people actually go there. |
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borders or any other book store. scope her out. don't let her catch you. she is eyeing a book. stealthly reach for the same book. then realize you're in the romance section and she now thinks your gay. explain its for your mom and turn red. BINGO. hot guy shopping for mother in the romance section. Alright. I hate reading :( Good idea though. Thanks! |
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you can pick up a cheap date at the local mortuary but they tend to be kinda cold Sarcasm at it's best. :( |
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Hospitals make me squeemish. I even hate getting my blood taken. If I am not getting paid to work, I probably would not bother. I might check out the softball or whatever. I need to get my fat *** into shape anyway. www.extremebootcamp.com If they have one of these in your area this is the way to get into shape! My mom did that. Due to the heavy running on concrete, she cracked both shin bones. I also do not have the money, due to 1 college loan and 2 credit card payments. |
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Hospitals make me squeemish. I even hate getting my blood taken. If I am not getting paid to work, I probably would not bother.
I might check out the softball or whatever. I need to get my fat *** into shape anyway. |
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There are single women everywhere. How you actually meet them though, i have no idea. Saying hello might help. Maybe it is just me, but going up to some random person and saying hi, sounds strange. O_o |
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Edited by
MikeCarbellano
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Mon 06/29/09 04:51 PM
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Never knew the library offered that. Thanks!
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Clubs and bars are usually a bad place to find someone to date unless you're just looking for fun for that night. What are your interests? Try volunteering or taking a class? You'll meet people with the same interests. I see. My interests are camping, fishing, um, going over to friends houses, the computer, though that is more of a solo activity. I like baseball and hiking, though I have not been since middle school. Take a class where? |
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Edited by
MikeCarbellano
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Mon 06/29/09 04:37 PM
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Clubs are where you are most likely to meet single women???? I usually go to clubs on Girls Night Out and then I'm usually the only single one in the group. Most of the men totally ignore me and go after the girls with the wedding rings. I've also determined that I don't want to date guys who pick up women at bars and clubs. So I never date anyone I meet at a bar or club. Co-ed hobbies. Go to watch female friends at their hobbies if they are performance arts or sports. Hang around, you start to meet the other people involved. Soon you have a bigger group of friends. Some might become something more. Some might hook you up with someone you haven't meet yet and it works out great. Don't pick up women at the grocery store. It really creeps us out. Yeah. I see. Maybe I should join softball or something. That is co-ed I know. I have only been to one nightclub in my life. I am new at this, because I have been single for almost 4 years. Sounds unreal but yeah. Thanks for the advice. |
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