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Is incompatibility real?
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Oh yea...
I been married for six years. We never cheated on each other, never hit each other during fights, I got along with her parents(she didn't like mine, but that is only part of the problem) and we had sex almost all the time. BUT... the time we weren't having sex, we were arguing... eventually we had come to the realization that its not going to change and its not going to work out in the long run. Things she wanted out of the relationship weren't what I wanted... so we decided to go our separate ways. |
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Single after 8 years
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The fog takes a while to lift. And, not having sex won't kill you. Really......... lol Sherry You know... its not about sex. Its about being in relationship for me. But then ONE cannot be without the OTHER, so it works out quite well.. |
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Single after 8 years
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I had been with one woman for 8 years... I was happy for most of it... When I look back now, I can see that it was a mistake so there is no going back to it, but I feel in this weird state of limbo now. Had a couple of dates already... but kind of like not sure what I want to do with my life now? How long will this weird feeling last? The flirty side of me says: Lets see if I can help ease your pain, cutie  
The serious side says: Its going to take as long as it takes. Everyday will get easier, but some days will still seem like it was yesterday for a little while. You'll get there when you get there and don't rush yourself. bring the flirty side back! |
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Single after 8 years
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I had been with one woman for 8 years... I was happy for most of it... When I look back now, I can see that it was a mistake so there is no going back to it, but I feel in this weird state of limbo now. Had a couple of dates already... but kind of like not sure what I want to do with my life now? How long will this weird feeling last? It will last as long as it needs to. In the mean time, you could find fun things to do, hobbies, or even set some goals. Going out to dinner alone is just fine, going bowling alone etc. You just have to put one foot in front of the other and you will get your single legs back. oh. I have things to do.that is not a problem... I started going to the gym almost every day. got into photography more then before.. plus work is keeping me busy. But I won't do things alone. that would be depressing...(for me) |
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Single after 8 years
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Ok. Here is another symptom of this limbo state I described earlier:
I have been with one woman for 8 years and had no plans on being with anyone else. I am sure its funny to some people, but I was just happy with what I had... so all other women around me were just friends. now that I am back on the open market again, I am having hard time getting out of the friend zone into having sex with another person zone... |
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Anybody Speaks Russian?
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I took four years of Russian in high school, and the instructor always pronounced "babushka" with the accent on the first syllable. And it does mean grandmother -- and dyedushka was grandfather. How and why the accent was shifted to the second syllable, I have no idea. It is strange indeed as most English words have accent on the first syllable anyway... so who knows how that happen... |
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INTRODUCING
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the i gotta pee thread.. im first!! 
can we pee together? |
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with a brick... haha
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Topic:
Single after 8 years
Edited by
Deadline
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Mon 01/05/09 12:20 AM
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I didn't intend to say you should use someone to get over your ex I just don't think that lost feeling goes away until you are involved in something meaningful again Ahhh sorry love I misunderstood... 
Deadline is that why you chose your name? Why does it matter if you're alone for a year? If it means meeting a quality person? It doesn't mean no dating and hanging out... But to put it on a deadline says "uh oh" to me... no no... deadline is user name i picked on other sites for ages now.. maybe coz I like to work all the way till the deadline putting as much effort into something as time allows it. and as far the other thing.. well, I just don't like to be alone. I am a relationship person. |
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Anybody Speaks Russian?
Edited by
Deadline
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Mon 01/05/09 12:14 AM
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Funny, you do look a bit Russian on your main picture, but on others you do look Persian. lol... its funny that you say that... coz I was with a Persian girl for 8 years.. been involved in the culture very much. maybe I picked up a few things... |
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Single after 8 years
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give it time, keep busy and don't jump into anything serious until you're over the last one... It's been almost 2 yrs for me and I'm still not sure I can commit to a relationship... Well.. I cannot see myself alone for the next year and then I don't want to break anybodies heart either... its just strange zone! |
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Those who have gotten dates
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Changed my profile to say "Looking for Friendship", changed my main pic to one where you really can't see what I look like, and did my best to chase the man off. I realize my particular approach may not work for everyone though. 
yea... I don't know if its the best way. I started to get people emails as soon as posted my pictures... |
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Single after 8 years
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I can feel where you are coming from too...9 year marriage now it's the "its not you it's me" and the "I love you but not in love with you" story now I feel this limbo that you are talking about...and I'm the kind that don't get any luck with any women.. well I guess the best we all can do is hang in there and try for the best yea dude.. i am kinda go from "oh great, I am single and decent looking, I can do anything" to "I don't have anybody to share holidays with". its like my confidence in myself is based on people reaction to me.. I was never this way before. its a weird state that I want behind me. |
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Single after 8 years
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I don't believe that any of us make mistakes. We only make choices whos to say weather it was a good choice or a bad choice because the reality of it is if we went back in time to choose differently that choice might have turned out worse or better but there is no way to go back and find out so the wierd feeling starts to ware off when you start choosing a new course of action. Peace. Bad choice = mistake. you just playing with words here... |
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Single after 8 years
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I had been with one woman for 8 years... I was happy for most of it... When I look back now, I can see that it was a mistake so there is no going back to it, but I feel in this weird state of limbo now. Had a couple of dates already... but kind of like not sure what I want to do with my life now? How long will this weird feeling last?
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so... What are you ?
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i view myself as UNIQUE..i follow no groups,dont belong to a clique, nor gang dont have piercings,or wear bling bling, no gold teefs/grills dont use words like wack or trifling,dont have friends with benefits and i'm not gay...last of a dying breed.. 
r u religious? |
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coz its a human nature to fight for what you believe in...
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Anybody Speaks Russian?
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i have my iranian grandmother's russian eyes.. but not her russian tongue. sorry. how is Iranian related to Russian? |
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is that attractive? or is it that typical saying, "this is america, learn some damn english!" I think ability to speak another language is always a plus. always! |
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Anybody Speaks Russian?
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десерт угодить choto ya somnivaus... bolshe pohoshe na perevod s angliskovo na ruski... nuka otvet mne! |
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