Nice guys hmm?
Lets be honest here, there is a fine line between being nice and being a push over. Self proclaimed "Nice guys" tend to let anyone and everyone walk all over them. Who the hell would want to be with someone that rolls on command? You accept people crapping on you and never stand up and fight back.

As far as a nice guy lacking confidence, not always true. What i do find however is noone wants to be with a weak person. Mentally weak people tend to give nothing back in a relationship and drain all the energy out of the other person. I consider myself a nice guy yet would still knock the crap out of someone that crosses the line.

So for all those nice guys out there.. be nice, not weak. There is a difference.

First, you squinted at it , then you frowned at it , then you experienced a smile of enlightenment , then you frowned again just a little bit , and, finally, you made the "Ah HA!" face . Then you drew your hand face.



Sorry. Couldn't help myself.

Here I thought maybe you had added to your profile...

I like it, just wish there was more

I'm curious to know what people think a "Nice Guy" is. In my experience, it often means something comparable to a doormat. Don't get me wrong, I want someone who treats me with respect, but I want someone who will question me if he disagrees with me. It's boring to never be challenged.

Which is why I would think as self preservation, they would foregoe answering this thread at all, if they were afraid to say the truth. Eventually if someone lies it will be found out.

I've never used narcotics or cheated on anyone ever, belive it or not, it is possible to survive and live and not wither away into dust without infidelity and getting high/drunk/****faced etc.
I believe in the "golden rule" and I've been cheated on before, I could never ever in a million years make another person feel the way that feels, it's a horrible feeling and no matter what circumstance or whatever, I feel there is honestly no excuse for it and I would never wish it on another person or partake in anything that resembles it. If you're in a relationship and something else comes along you should end it and go with the something else, not continue the existing relationship and pursue other ones, it's pretty simple really, but somehow lots of people really like to make a huge mess of it.

Did it occur to you that perhaps that the people who have cheated will just choose not to respond to this thread at all? And that the people who are actually responding are telling the truth?
You are assuming just because the numbers are not what you feel they should be, that everyone is a liar... this really isn't a scientific poll to be able to base your theory upon of everyone not telling the truth. So you are unfairly categorizing everyone who responds as a probable liar...

And to stay on topic... No, I am not a cheater

lol Ive heard of 420...jus surprise that someone...well anyone for that matter hadnt heard of it

I don't do drugs.

lmao never heard of 420...intesting


but gotta say I love mary jane!!

mingle.. is a lot of peoples drug of choice... im just sayin'

Oh yeahhhh 420... I second that

i did.
well, weed ... but who hasn't done weed?


as for the cheating?
i was cheated on twice .. out of three relationships. have i ever cheated? no. (honestly) but i wouldnt put it past me to cheat .. it's in my dna.

i`m guessing 99.99% of the people who respond to this thread will say they are not cheaters. especially the ones on here looking for a relationship...lol

No, but I have broken up with someone to be with someone else!