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Wed 11/12/08 02:41 AM
Thats one way to go aswell.

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Wed 11/12/08 02:38 AM



Even if we go on that theory..., isn't anything great going to take some risk to get it. You can risk the relationship with the friend that might lead to something great, or let them go and lose the potential. Leave them to the sea of douche bags.


you know. Its a very difficult decission to take if you love the friend. But of course it could be worth a try, if you're certain the friendship and/or relationship will last.



Sometimes the step is required. If the friends have too significant of feelings for each other, it can also be bad to ignore them. Quite often times unexpressed feelings and feelings not acted upon can cause more tension, awkwardness and other unpleasantness.


Quite true aswell. But like I said. I'm too chicken to act on a feeling that most likely will pass sooner or later.

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Wed 11/12/08 02:34 AM

If you where to get married wouldn't you want your future wife to be your best friend?


Yes, of course I'd like that. But to take such risk, I'm too chicken to lose my best friend over a feeling that will pass sooner or later.

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Wed 11/12/08 02:32 AM

Even if we go on that theory..., isn't anything great going to take some risk to get it. You can risk the relationship with the friend that might lead to something great, or let them go and lose the potential. Leave them to the sea of douche bags.


you know. Its a very difficult decission to take if you love the friend. But of course it could be worth a try, if you're certain the friendship and/or relationship will last.

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Wed 11/12/08 02:30 AM
i myself am looking for something meaningful and like everything it will be hard to find that someone...

yeah, a meaningful relationship is never easy to find. And once you find it, you will be more happy than ever before.

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Wed 11/12/08 02:28 AM
I think the day you try it and it fails you will see you will miss this girl as your best friend, cus the friendship will never be the same. It might not break, but it will NEVER be the same again. The day you decide to have sex with your best friend, thats the day everything will change. Or as said before. It will last forever. My point just is that; The friendship will never be the same if it fails on the romantic part.

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Wed 11/12/08 02:23 AM

If the friends are mature (and didn't screw each other over), the friendship can occasionally survive the break up.

I'm definitely looking for something serious and meaningful. But I'm an odd duck, so I think finding a great match for me is going to be a tricky thing.


Thats true too, but the friendship will never be the same though.
And I'm kinda the same, need something meaningful, but still casual so I don't lose myself in the relationship and forget about about my own things I've got going on.

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Wed 11/12/08 02:15 AM

Relation ships that begin with lust, have the hardest time surviving.

If a relation ship is built from the ground up,
starting out as friends and going to lovers you already know the person.

Best friends make the best loversdrinker


Thats true, but the act of best friends to commence a relationship is dangerous, what if the relationship doesn't work out, then you just wrecked a perfect friendship. Thats just messed up man!.

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Wed 11/12/08 02:09 AM
Sooner or later I will post a pic. Gotta get familar to this place before I choose to add myself.. :D

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Wed 11/12/08 02:06 AM
Remember remember the fifth of November, the gunpowder treason and plot, I know of no reason why the gunpowder treason, should, ever, be... Forgot!

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Wed 11/12/08 02:02 AM
All depends on what true love really is. Many people take love and lust as one and the same. But sure, finding someone who would love my flaws and see them as charming. And I the same with her. That would be alrite.

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Wed 11/12/08 01:50 AM
Edited by PDA on Wed 11/12/08 01:52 AM
Eminem is tight. He's a lyrical genius and every rapper in the business agree on that statement. Just watch Up In Smoke Tour and see the talent of a new 'king' yes Elvis WAS the king, now he's more of dead legend. Eminem took his place as the king of a white singer breaking thru the black mans music.

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Wed 11/12/08 01:46 AM
Edited by PDA on Wed 11/12/08 02:12 AM
You blamed me for your weakness
And now you blame me for your strength..?!
For 6 months you pushed and begged me
After 8 months I answered your plea and told you my story
~
For two hours the words was on me
For two hours you were speechless
And I knew you were oblivious to my world
Perhaps now you understand the foolishness of your curiosity
~
I could see you were in awe as the tears ran silently from the corner of your eyes
I only did what you asked
And you left a man apart behind cuz you couldn't grasp a past as mine
For such insensitivity I shall shatter your iced heart
~
Words will never suffice the pain you inflicted upon me
The day you were no-longer present or reachable
But I'll say it the only way I know how to
I shall share the darkest path of my soul with you:
~
I gave you a place in my heart and you wired it with Semtex
I told my deepest secrets and biggest regrets
My swamped days with liquid and illusionary chemicals
Was that the reasons which had you flee?
~
Was it my days living in a suitcase?
My uncontrolled anger and now subdued pains?
Perhaps it was the rulings of judges
And my way to cope with a sentence?
~
I don't hate you, I loathe you
I feel sorry for your narrow mind
That you can't see beyond coffee and Unicorns
And that you think my past would cause issues in the current present
~
They say there are plenty of fish in the sea
But they don’t warn about Stingrays like you
So calm and at ease with a floating love
Blinded by your beauty whilst forgetting your poison
~
You put question-marks on my scars
Even though you knew the truth would hurt
You still had to have what you never really wanted
And I paid the price for your ignorance of bliss.

(This is my own piece published October 2008)

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Wed 11/12/08 01:21 AM
Mmm.. That is a good question. I actually don't know.

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Wed 11/12/08 01:15 AM
Mmm.. Well, I can always throw my pants, but I think my workmates might look weird at me. And my boss might lower my salery. :D

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Wed 11/12/08 01:10 AM
This seems like a very... interesting? conversation. :D

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Wed 11/12/08 12:38 AM
Thank you cats.

And my 'rooster'?

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Wed 11/12/08 12:22 AM
True, its more of a call-out to get in touch with people. :D

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Wed 11/12/08 12:21 AM
Anyone in here from Vaasa?

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Wed 11/12/08 12:18 AM
Haha. Well. Didn't need to know that, but thats cool man.

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