How would you know? I don't recall you being that close...



I've kicked a guy I didn't know in the shins for grabbing my arse before, then he had the audacity to complain about me turning violent. Knobhead.

I may have to test the one-liners to see if it incites their rage just as effectively, I'm thinking it wouldn't. Men in bars that make those kind of advances usually get a little confused when people actually say something. Neanderthals.

I've met a few guys I'd love to sing that song to (altering the gender, of course)!

I don't know what came over me! haha.

... you just felt a little kinky?

Those inbuilt cameras really freak me out. I have to repeatedly remind myself that it's not connected to anything (that I know of), but I still worry. I've always kept it covered or the lens obscured just in case though.

We beat this drum repeatedly, but communication is essential for any relationship to work. Unfortunately, the difficult talks have to be had or nothing will be resolved.

That's one of my favourite childhood movies! That and 'Labyrinth'.

For a relationship to work, you have to feel loved and feel attracted to each other. If he's not prepared to work at making the changes necessary to ensure your relationship remains healthy, then I have to be honest: it doesn't look good. How can you feel loved if you don't feel he genuinely wants to be with you? There's nothing wrong with vanilla sex if that's what works for you both, but when he's sending out the message that it's a chore... well, I can't say I'd want to be with him after that either.

If you want the relationship to work, and you actually love each other, I'd recommend something like relationship counselling. But referring to your partner as a platonic friend seems to be indicative of where you're at and where you may be heading.

Whatever you decide, I do hope it works out for the best for you both and that you are happy. x

@Crystal: I do wonder that sometimes which is why I'm open to the possibility, but I've just not met anyone I'm even remotely interested in it that regard. I just don't see the point if they don't intrigue me in that sense. Maybe when I have more time to socialise off the internet something will change, but probably not for some time. Oh well, it's what vibrators are for. Right?

As much as I would love to tell you we can talk you through, that's unfortunately not true. You have to ride it out, find things to throw your energy into, and come to see there is far more to life than wallowing in self-pity. It's hard, and it'll hurt, but you'll be better off in the long run.

Hope you're feeling much happier soon! xx

Same here. I fear jumping into bed with someone random would only prove disappointing anyway, so why put myself through it? I'll stick it out until I find someone worth my attention

Attention from boobs? What man looks at a woman's face anyway??

I do hope you're right. One of the girls at work just came up to me today and offered to swap shifts with me on NY's eve so I finish at 9pm instead of around 11/midnight in case I wanted to make arrangements to go out. Sweet.

Admit it: You just love the attention.

Ride said something about sorting it. I haven't checked the other guy's profile though.

Are you referring to "pay days" - they don't seem to provide much relief...

I want the day off to catch up on study and plan other things... SIGH. But no, little miss reliable is off to work.

I think it's simply that we've grown up in an age where we're more familiar communicating via email or online that actually talking is really uncomfortable. I'm of the same way. I really struggle face-to-face sometimes too. In my head I know exactly what I want to say and I sound smart and funny, but it rarely comes out that way when I'm nervous... So, in answer to your question, it's probably lacking confidence in talking on the phone (as I do) and worried he'll ruin it by saying something stupid (just as I do).

All you really need to know: he was screwing someone else whilst supposedly committed loyal to our lovely teebee. The particulars of how she found it isn't really important, is it? Given that she was asking what we would do if we found out our partner was cheating. Unless you're wondering how you'd get away with cheating...

Believe me, I named myself well! haha.

Exactly! If it ain't right, why bother?