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Sat 02/21/26 10:20 AM
thinking.. after I spent 3 hrs doing snow removal I'm soo yawn I might just grab a nap...

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Fri 02/20/26 01:51 PM
WOOT.. *Zee sings* do you believe in magic.. bigsmile

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Fri 02/20/26 01:50 PM
FOUND it.. bigsmile hope it's got a zap in it.. haven't charged it yet today is why..


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Fri 02/20/26 01:50 PM
now where the fug did I put ma magic wand...

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Fri 02/20/26 01:49 PM
g'day peeps'n lurkers drinker

it's FLYDAY.. agin.. phew.. been busy all day so.. just poppin in to say "hey" waving

hope everyone has a great evenin.. bigsmile
laters.. *Zee cranks up the juke box'n heads back to her drawin' board*

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Thu 02/19/26 06:53 AM
mornin peeps'n lurkers drinker


another sunny day in da hood here.. and it's getting WARMER.. *Zee does the ol'snoopy dance* WEEEEEEEEEEEEE.. mind you.. it did dip to -20 overnight but.. I was asleep so didn't feel a thang

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Thu 02/19/26 06:46 AM

It looks odd to me as well as here in Europe you only see English saddles AND normal reins, stirrups and bridle.
But I watched 6 seasons with approx 12 episodes per season of him riding his horse with this saddle and bridle.
Then I looked it up, as I was like WTH???, and turns out traditional Western bridles are like this :)
And believe me, if you'd watch the show (reality)... the man is by far the best rider I've ever seen! A professional cowboy from Alberta.
I think he was born on a horse, haha.


As for the rest, I think I'll indeed add tail & movement to the manes to show motion.
Thanks!


if he's from Alberta then yeah.. he probably WAS born on a horse laugh that's where all our Canadian Cowboys come from.. yeee-Ha LOL

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Thu 02/19/26 06:42 AM





unlike men.. we don't need a lil blue pill to start the engines bigsmile
laugh

Indeed we don't but... we do need good levels of oestrogen in order to be sexual.
As women become post-menopausal the levels drop and are basically zilch.
Also, our testosterone drops which can also have a serious effect on our sexdrive.
You can remedy that by using HRT.

Aside from all that our sexdrive (and oestrogen levels) for a very big part depend on the man:
We need to feel (emotionally) safe, we need to trust the man and know, sense, feel that he's there reliable. This goes for any woman, regardless of age.

That's why casual sex doesn't work for core feminine women --> the safety, trust etc. isn't there. Without that it's very very difficult to surrender and let go.
We have to be extremely vulnerable to open up -figuratively & literally- to allow a man to penetrate us -again also figuratively & literally.


on this, I beg to differ, at least in my case.. my sex drive has increased with age.. perhaps because I've enjoyed it more later in life? Admittedly I have not been active since 2009 so maybe it's all just stockpiled laugh

I have had the experience that it can 'stockpile' hahaha.

As for the rest, there's no one size fits all. It's a very individual thing.
And could also be that you're quite high in testosterone with all the work you do in and around the house as that's kind of like resistance training. And resistance training ups testosterone, which is also related to sexdrive.

For me, I noticed it go up a bit when I'd started HRT. I hadn't really noticed it had gotten less as for me it always tends to be somewhat lower when I'm single. It usually wakes up at full force when I have a partner so for me it's strongly related to my feelings for a man.


I concur.. one size does not fit all.. every person IS different so no matter what research one does, the results don't apply to EVERYone..

you suggest that it's due to all the hands on labor I'm doing.. but I don't believe it is.. cuz I've been working with my hands for years and not felt like this ALL the time.. and I've been single for 17 yrs and not felt like this ALL the time either.. however there's been no male presence.. I have my own theories.. none of which I plan to share openly online tho laugh

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Thu 02/19/26 06:32 AM


to add to GravelRidgeBoy's list of possible reasons..

perhaps he's simply inquiring as to what "passion" feels like at a later stage in a womans life..

seems to me, now that I've re-read it, that he's asking if women older than 54 are AS passionate as a 54 yr old is, and MAYBE he'd be interested in dating even older women IF they are..

to answer that.. they don't call us COUGARS for NUTTIN 

unlike men.. we don't need a lil blue pill to start the engines 


Finally u read it from my perspective rather than just judging me for my choice of words which everyone else is doing.


As Crystal said.. no one judged you.. per se.. but your choice of words did cause initial shock and confusion.. I did have to re-read it a few times to totally get where I finally got.. so perhaps choosing your words more carefully would be a good place to start when joining a conversation with, as Crystal put it, strangers..

now Crystal, I get why you are miffed by his query but seriously.. we are all adults here (as you stated) and even tho he asked with a bit of brashness / tactlessness.. it is a valid question from a younger person to an older woman.. how else would he find the answer..?

on this, we will have to agree to disagree.. sorry my dear, but the internet does embolden people to ask what normally they wouldn't in public.. just sayin...

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Wed 02/18/26 03:20 PM
go to your account "home" and look at the bottom right "square" you'll find peeps there!

welcome to the forums!! drinker

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Wed 02/18/26 03:17 PM
Edited by Zee on Wed 02/18/26 03:18 PM
I guess I'm more used to the English style that without that nose strap.. it looks odd to me.. but you know best having done the research..

mind you.. here's a pic of a western bridle so.. I guess some have it and some don't.. this one seems to be without a bit tho..


I'd go with a tail and some mane to show the movement.. but that's just me..

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Wed 02/18/26 03:12 PM

Threw a bag of frozen wings in my cart once, not realizing they were "hot" wings.

Got a nice surprise when I pulled them out of the oven and took a bite.


I bet NEXT time you'll take a few seconds more to read the label FIRST laugh

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Wed 02/18/26 03:11 PM



and ended up in the bathroom stall next to mine laugh


:laughing: :laughing: most likely and regretted trying it..

I did get some wings when I was on a group ride one time for we stopped to eat on the way back..

Ohhh my gawd I got the hot thinking I have yet been to a restaurant that the wings were too hot.. Well I met my match that day.. At least I did order half of them hot and the other half a bit milder.. That first bite of the hot ones took my breath away.. Talking about breaking a sweat.. Of course got a good laugh out of the group I was with.. For I was sweating and trying to cool down my mouth... :laughing: :laughing:


that'll teach ya fer next time huh laugh
maybe bring one of those mini-hand-held-fans along just in case bigsmile

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Wed 02/18/26 03:08 PM
Edited by Zee on Wed 02/18/26 03:08 PM
it cud also be an English saddle.. there's no saddle horn on those..

but you ARE right.. part of the bridle is missing over the nose and under the chin... plus the silver 'bridle bit' is missing too.. upon closer scrutiny..

had horses myself for awhile.. english mostly, only 1 western.. but typically chaps are used with western saddle horses so ya might wanna add a horn Crystal.. :wink: just sayin.. lol

it is looking amazing tho.. Kudos on yer progress

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Wed 02/18/26 12:22 PM
*sneaks in and steals some of Sir's homemade chilli*


bigsmile

haven't decided yet.. but I did take a t-bone out so.. maybe that with some green beans.. hmmmmm

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Wed 02/18/26 12:20 PM
thinkin it's time to go feed the foxes...

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Wed 02/18/26 12:05 PM




duplicated yet again grumble ohwell


You need to get a good rein on your clicker finger.


I try.. but sometimes.. the site doesn't move as fast as I do lol.. OR.. ma finger does a twitchy dance LOL


I used to go out with a girl that was a good twitchy dancer. But she moved too fast for me.


they call that Twerking today laugh

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Wed 02/18/26 12:05 PM


Speaking of spicy food in Asia. I was having a meal with a girl at a road side stand in Thailand. On the table were three small containers of some kind of spice mix. I asked the girl what they were.
She said, "this one is hot, that one is hotter, and you don't want to touch the third one". I didn't try any of them.




I love spicy foods... but even I might have passed that up laugh

But then knowing me, I might have tried the one that was just hot...think




and ended up in the bathroom stall next to mine laugh

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Wed 02/18/26 12:03 PM



unlike men.. we don't need a lil blue pill to start the engines bigsmile
laugh

Indeed we don't but... we do need good levels of oestrogen in order to be sexual.
As women become post-menopausal the levels drop and are basically zilch.
Also, our testosterone drops which can also have a serious effect on our sexdrive.
You can remedy that by using HRT.

Aside from all that our sexdrive (and oestrogen levels) for a very big part depend on the man:
We need to feel (emotionally) safe, we need to trust the man and know, sense, feel that he's there reliable. This goes for any woman, regardless of age.

That's why casual sex doesn't work for core feminine women --> the safety, trust etc. isn't there. Without that it's very very difficult to surrender and let go.
We have to be extremely vulnerable to open up -figuratively & literally- to allow a man to penetrate us -again also figuratively & literally.


on this, I beg to differ, at least in my case.. my sex drive has increased with age.. perhaps because I've enjoyed it more later in life? Admittedly I have not been active since 2009 so maybe it's all just stockpiled laugh

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Wed 02/18/26 11:45 AM



Speaking of spicy food in Asia. I was having a meal with a girl at a road side stand in Thailand. On the table were three small containers of some kind of spice mix. I asked the girl what they were.
She said, "this one is hot, that one is hotter, and you don't want to touch the third one". I didn't try any of them.


hey Mo waving welcome to the pub! drinker

I bet ya didn't.. wow.. sounds too spicy for my tastes noway


Thanks,

Most of the food I try there though was excellent.


I'd love to travel to Asia one day.. I BET the foods are tasty.. my mouth is watering just thinkin about it.. and probably why I got the urge to nibble on rice cakes laugh