The biggest problem with these dating sites is that everyone is so far away, ie. not local.

Monogamy is a social construct to protect the wife and children. In the real world, people can enjoy, and even love more than one person. No one really "owns" anyone.
There would be a lot less "cheating" if all relationships and marriages were open. I think the British have it right. They accept the idea of misstresses and extra-marital partners.
It's insecurity and impractical social rules that cause problems. If my lover told me that she wanted to sleep with someone else, I wouldnt have a broken heart over it. It's the forced secrecy that causes problems. My solution: Dont get married. Dont let anyone rope you into monogamy. Dont get real possessive of people. You cant "own" anyone. Slavery is abolished.

Hi Welder. You sound like a nice guy. First: your photo: Ever hear of something called cropping? You should look into it. Next, your description: You were off to a good start there. Keep writing. What else can you share about yourself? And then you should write some about the kind of woman you would like to meet. Best wishes.

Hi Ishhanna. Nice profile. Marital status: No answer. Can't figure out if you are single or married? Maybe you're not as smart as you think. Best wishes. Hugs.

Hi Danny. Hair color: No answer. Body type: No answer. Marital status: No answer. Smokes: No answer. Has kids? No answer.
If you arent bothered by getting no answers from women, I wouldmt worry about it if I were you.

Hi Lola. You are my kind of young lady! Not too difficult to know what makes your boat float. Regarding your hair color, No answer. What, not sure what color your hair will be tomorrow? I understand. Your status: No answer. Cant figure out if you are single or married? Hmmmm....Best wishes.

Hi goodolrich. Didnt have any time to write about yourself? You must be a government secret agent, and that info is top secret. If you dont have the time to write about yourself, and who you would like to meet, dont expect the ladies to have any time for you. Because they dont, and they wont. You must be famous, and people already know you. That must be it! Best wishes.

Hi innuendoworks. You seem like a nice guy. First, the name you chose: innuendoworks. I dont even know what innuendo means. If I dont know what the word innuendo means, you can bet your last pence that a lot of ladies arent sure what innuendo means either. Why are you using 50 cent words here? You must of went to college! Your job here is to make communicating here as easy as possible, not making ladies scramble for thier dictionary. Pick a better name.
Next, delete that first photo. If you cant smile here, you dont want such a close-up picture.
Lastly, regarding the body of your description, I know you meant what you said and said what you meant. But you should write more about yourself in your description. I know that you are shy. You dont have to be shy here. Women want to know about you, and what makes your motor run. Best wishes.

Hi Jallibone. Your current profile content score (1-10): 3
Do you want to hear the good news first or last? ;-)
The good news: You made a good start on your profile. Nice photo. Good looking bloke.
The bad news: How much time did you spend writing your profile? Like about 30 seconds? Guess you are a really busy guy, huh? Probably much too busy to spend much time writing your profile, or spending much time with a lady either.
Too bad you dont have any time for writing a real profile or spending some time with a lady. I think many women would love to get to know you, if you only had some time to open up to them. Then again, I just had a funny thought: maybe you dont have any free time because you have too many girls! Haha! Best wishes, hope you find some time to work on your profile sometime.

Hi Charity. Nice lady, nice profile. The only thing you might want to change would be your heading. Serendipity? I dont even know what serendipity means. You couldnt come up with a better heading than that? Best wishes, hugs

Hi Random. I know you are mad at me, I wasnt trying to be mean to you. I apologize. I was trying to give you some constructive feedback. Anyways, I thank you for reviewing my profile. I would have to agree with you of your astute observation about me never getting married. I have had a hard time about being committed to a marital institution for 30 years of hard labor. I'm going to be a divorce lawyer in my next life, lol. Thank you for letting me know that my long hair does not work for me. I like it because it helps me screen out all the conservative ladies looking for a clean-cut working slave. Which as you mention, are most of them, I guess. Hugs

Hi Honestly. Here are my impressions after looking at your profile:
You are not smiling in your main photo. In fact, you look rather glum. Not good!
Also you state, Why bother touching up your photos when he will see you when you meet in person anyways. I thought you were supposed to be such a caring woman. Saying that is almost as bad as saying Why bother to even post a photo, since he will see me when we meet.
Also, your profile is way, way, way too wordy. Try just picking the top 5 activities that you and your lover could enjoy, using one word for each interest/activity.
Finally, your text is way too wordy also. I would forget writing from the heart if I were you. In fact, I would scrap the entire text. Start over. Just mention that you are sweet, loving, and loyal. Describe concisely, rather than putting everything in a context. For example, forget stuff like "when we are sitting together, and i gaze lovingly at you..." .Just say that you are attentive.
What are your interests during intimacy? Describe this. Again, just use descriptive adjectives here, dont write a romance novel. And finally, dont spend so much time and space writing about yourself. Write about your future lover. (Again, no romance novels here please.) Simply describe, in as few words as possible, exactly who and what you are looking for. Try going beyond the basics. OK, he needs to be sweet and loving, etc. Just mention this in passing. Get to the real stuff. Are you looking for a man who has an Alpha personality? Do you have any particular interests during intimacy? This is the kind of stuff that guys need to know right away. In other words, other than you being a sweetheart, what mutual desires and kinks (if you have any) do you have? Your text is not only way, way too wordy (and self-focused), but it is way too general. You leave me wondering, OK, you are a sweetheart, but what are your physical enjoyments? Practice writing concisely, and to the point. Watch your word count. Guys arent interested in reading a book here. You are a sweet, loving woman. You need to overcome your modesty here and just let folks know exactly in single words what you are really like. Do you like men who are rough in bed, or do you prefer gentle lovers in bed? Stuff like this. Dont think that you will share all of this stuff with him when you meet in person. It doesnt work that way honey. Use courage, and let people know exactly what you are like, even if you feel that you are revealing too much personal info. Otherwise, the folks that need to know wouldnt even know that you have this interest. So why would they respond to your personal? Just because you are such a sweetheart? I dont think so. Hugs

Hi Kim. Crop your photos before posting them. Otherwise they give the impression that you took very little time or care when creating your profile. Also, I would not mention about being needy in your heading. Your headline should be direct and to the point. Perhaps something like:
Love to be passionate with my lady! Obviously you are a very loving woman. Dont be afraid to express your wonderful quality! How far (in distance) are you willing to go to see a woman? You might want to mention that. Dont complain about the lack of partners in your area. Dont complain about anything here.
I dont know much about girl love, but did you mention if you prefer being the butch? Perhaps your hairstyle indicates this, I dont know. You have excellent potential. Be more positive in your text. Also you mention that you enjoy both men and women, and then you go on to explain that you are really looking for a woman. You might briefly mention that you are bi, instead of writing it all out that you like both men and women, and then go on to explain the availability of men and women in your area. Forget all that. Be concise. And write to your prospective female lover right off the bat. Ie., Hi, I am looking for a woman between the ages of x and y to love and go crazy on. Something like that. Right off the bat. Dont make them read a whole paragraph just to find out who you are looking for.
I hope this helps. Hugs

Hi Stevo. You cant smile? You cant crop a photo? You cant describe exactly who and what you are looking for? Profile rating: 2

I know you are too cool of a dude to smile for the camera. I still give your profile a generous -5.

Hi Valcronis. Learn to crop your photos before posting. Do you have to mention that you are having marital problems? Really, how many women are going to want to get involved with that? Try listing only five interests, in one word only, that a woman could enjoy sharing with you. Describe exactly who and what you are looking for.
Just a random guy? C'mon, you can do better than that for a heading! Profile Rating: 2

Hi Zatilia. Too little. Much too little. Amd try picking a name that people can pronounce and spell. Or is that some kind of built in intelligence test? Best wishes, hugs

Hi Randomideas. Perfect! Describes you to a T! If you think a lot of guys lack communication skills, you should see all the lovely, demure one-liners I have gotten over the years. If you arent getting any replies, it is probably that not many folks are looking for grumpy looking women who cant smile. Oh well....To quote Popeye, "I ams who I ams." Hope you had fun posting here.

Your profile gets a negative one. And this high because you took the time to post a photo. You asked!

Trying to be kind here....your profile is a total waste of time and megabits. Your name: Angry? What do you think might be wrong with your name? Your interests: "Ask me later"? Your photos: cant smile? Good luck! I am surprised that I even took the time to rate this profile. Good luck!