1. Snowball fights with my children.

2. Paddling a canoe on a very still lake during the fall season.

3. The smell of a homecooked (or even burning) meal wafting through our home that my loved one is making for the two of us.

1. Playing soccer with my two boys.

2. Listening to my daughter's honest prayers at bedtime.

3. "Reading" Playboy!

1. The wind gently blowing in a woman's long hair.

2. The shadow of woman's naked body in the dark.

3. Freshly baked brownies - warm, right out of the oven.

Well, you and Heather started it!

3 more things:

1. My integrity.

2. My honor.

3. My passions.

Alright, I'll list 3 *mushy* things too

1. The natural scent of a beautiful woman.

2. The feel of my lover's warm breath upon my chest while she sleeps in my arms.

3. The soft and convincing moans my lover makes when I'm making love to her.

I held no expectations when I joined.

I still don't.

If we are listing serious things, my top 3 are:

1. My two sons

2. My daughter

3. My ex-wife (she happens to remain my best friend and is an amazing mother to our children).

BITE YOUR TONGUE, WOMAN!

Okay, maybe I could, but only IF (and that's a very strong IF) all my tupperware was clean and available for storing leftovers.

Another 3:

1. My fireplace in my den.

2. My collection of antique books (I know, I'm a nerd).

3. All the beautiful paintings my daughter has done that I have proudly plastered on our fridge.

Darned if I know! My son is wearing my watch right now.

Another three:

1. My electric toothbrush - love that thing!

2. Reynolds aluminum foil.

3. All the great pics I have of my children.

Yeppers!

Another three:

1. My watch.

2. Constant supply of Beggin' Strips for my dog.

3. My socks.

1. My gi-normous stock of Tupperware.

2. My GPS.

3. My feather pillows.

Really now? Funny! Seeing how I go commando!

In keeping with the real question based on the title: Intellect, Turn Off or Intimadating?

I will say intellect is a HUGE turn-on.

Always has been, always will be. Forever, Amen!

No, I'm not one of those men who says they want a strong woman and then whimpers in the corner when she has beat me down intellectually.

I honestly like being challenged, on all levels. If you don't challenge me enough on deeper levels...off with your head.

Bring it on, ladies! I dare you.

Never said I had a problem with the naturally Finding Nemo lips on a woman.

It's those certain "women" who find the need to POUCH them out or PUFF them UP for a "picture's sake" to draw attention to their orifice called...the MOUTH.

Yeah, like I'm really going to want to kiss YOU (blind statement, no real woman intended). I might as well take a number with the 12,465,278 OTHER men who think you posted that pic just for them only!

I'm still waiting on the boob shots, gals.

Me? I'm either really moody or an undiagnosed bipolar as my profile says.

I have really rauncy breath right now, but my feet smell like roses.

Yeah, I don't get the concept of those "puker-up lips" pics either. I think they are just plain stupid, but oh well.

I'll still look at their profile anyways, and if there's boob shots to boot? MO BETTER!

Will I contact them though? Very unlikely.

Real, raw, complex yet simple, and expresses your innermost human vulnerability.

So, take that stupid dog collar off your neck and stop choking yourself, will you?

Really? Speak ONLY for yourself there, okay? And, no, I'm not into comparing bedpost notches.

Okay, this is either weird or really GAY. I'm finding myself oddly attracted that Fear/Loathing GUY above based on his comment.

Seriously, that's a difficult question to answer for anyone, really? When you ask "at this point in my life", I take that literally...the right here and now. That's likely to change at the break of dawn, much the same for *most* women.

So, yeah...show me your boobs.

Ever felt like just screaming, "I TOLD YOU SO?"

Well, this is one of those times for me.

I absolutely love it when I am RIGHT!

(if curious, check out my other posts folks!)