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Doin'
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I want to use words like damn fuc% but you got me moanin’ and ain’t a word I can think of that can describe what you’re doin’ to me so I’m going just keep on doin’ what I’m . . . while you keep on doin’ what you you’re . . . |
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Simply put heterosexuals have social approval for their choice of partners whereas the gay community is ostrasized Announcing their preference! The hope to gain the same social acceptance automatically given to heterosexuals. Being gay in america is not a positive identity and gays seek to legitimize their preference just as heterosexuals do and receive acceptance without criticism.Yolur inability to grasp the emotional pain associated with being a gay person is interfering with empathy they truly deserve just as any outgroup is negated for being different... First of before I respond to this alnewman, you're an idiot. You're the reason why legitimate conversations can't be held anymore. Not the government. Seriously. Stop blaming and start doing. Now where was I? Ok you were saying gays want to legitimize their relationship or choice or status or whatever still boils down to simply wanting someone to know you're having sex. The first step in legitimizing your lifestyle is simply to live. Pay no attention to those who pay attention to you. But in our society we tend to hold onto the opinions of others for whatever reason. I still think in the end we're talking about who a person is having sex with. And if announcing it is how you legitimize it then again as I said there's a problem somewhere. A serious disconnect. Just saying. |
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Us Now
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like.like.like. thanks thanks thanks!!! |
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I so hate articles like this and I truly despise the comments made by folks who don't see the correlation between stupidity and uninformed opinions. Let's for once discuss our nation's education system. It's not only black children who are affect by how bad our education system is, it's whites, Asians, Hispanics, and so on. When we isolate one race we do so with the hopes of really making a point as opposed to wanting to make things better.
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Someone . . . anyone . . . please help me. I swear I don’t understand this phenomena going on of late. Athletes coming out the closet; stars announcing their “lifestyle”; gay rights and such . . . I just don’t get it. I don’t. What I want to know is why? What’s the purpose of telling the word you’re “gay” or you’re a “lesbian”? You see I’m old. Yes I can admit it though I’m not necessarily that “old”. I’m 47 so that means I’ve lived a bit and hopefully have many more good years ahead of me so when I hear someone announcing their “lifestyle/choice/or whatever it is” I wonder, quietly to myself, “What the fu*k?” Yes I wonder why someone would do that and because I’m confused as to why someone would announce being a homosexual I’m asking for help. Can someone explain to me the why? Seriously because in the scope of things all you’re doing is telling someone you’re having sex with someone of the same sex. That’s it, you’re having sex. As a heterosexual I’ve never felt the need to tell the world I’m having sex with my girlfriend. I’m assuming most couples are having sex so if you’re with your “partner” uh, isn’t it obvious you’re having sex? And I get there are traumatized kids that look up to these adults and think, “Hey if they can announce their sexuality then I must be ok and yada yada yada”. I get that, I really do but still aren’t we still talking about sex? I mean that’s ultimately what announcing your preference is isn’t it? Sex . . . yeah, sex. And if we are that concerned over who Michael Sam or Jason Collins or Doogie Howser or anyone is having sex with then there really is a problem in America or the world over . . . so help, please because I’m assuming I missed the point somewhere and it would be nice to know why.
And one more thing, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with having sex . . . just saying. I like sex. And if announcing to the world that you have a sexual preference is the “in thing” then here’s my formal announcement . . . I, Mig25 can readily admit that I’m having sex with my girlfriend (no not right now, I’m writing this). And it’s good. Now let’s discuss real issues. |
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~ borrowed beauty
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Yeah this is sexy
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Us Now
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Us Now
I bit my bottom lip thinking about our first moment it was like butterflies fluttering nervously within my soul as your breath mimicked the gentle breeze carrying ever so soft kisses that filled the emptiness of the place called darkness and with just a few whispers and shivers there was enough warmth and light for the moment to caress a lifetime with a perfect love Not sure how or why we ended up alone it could have been the conversation or the laughter or how easy you made the moment it could have been a number of things but there we were dancing like the clouds moving seductively through the stars as time slowly tailored the mood to fit how our bodies began to feel and then we made love until the void between the past and tomorrow was filled with us now |
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Unemployment
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this is all interesting and such, but how do tax credits for low paying jobs and vouchers for volunteer work bring down the debt? getting people off unemployment into low paying jobs does nothing for the debt. unemployment insurance is taxed just like the low paying job and neither will owe any income tax. you want employers to reap the benefits of cheap labor while getting tax credits to do it. I can appreciate the idea of volunteerism and it is something we all need to do more of, but as far as using that to better your chances of getting a job or whatever you are implying might happen is hardly enough. Increased revenue through real job creation and cutting wasteful spending is how you reduce the debt. I do appreciate your comments and you make some great points. The idea isn’t to allow businesses to reap the benefits of cheap labor while receiving a tax credit. Obviously there will have to be certain policies put in place to address every issue. The volunteer idea is based on the employer hiring the individual within a three month time frame which is the exact amount of time their benefits would last. Volunteering only gives that employer a chance to train the individual on how to do the job according their standards but they are required to hire them to receive any tax benefits. You are truly right when you say we need real job creation. All that I’m suggesting is, and mind you this is based on the fact that I’ve been doing this for more than twenty five years and I happen to be a small business owner to boot, creating incentives for employers to hire and for folks to not depend on benefits. And keep in mind, the first suggestion is not to volunteer but instead to tie benefits to employment. If a business understands that they can cheaper labor they will take advantage of that. And why not? They will be required to regular wages and keep that person employed for a certain time frame in order to qualify for the tax benefits. And the thinking is that we need to reduce the corporate tax rate anyway so why not do it through employment. |
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I wish you luck you seem to have a well balanced interest in people on both the side of the employers and the employee,, Thank you so much and you know, the simple fact having a well balance interest is basically understanding that we all need and we all want. So how can we, as a nation, fulfill both the need and wants of our citizens? |
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Unemployment
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my mothers career was accounting and we have talked many times about the economy and solutions and many of your ideas are similar I think vocational counseling is/will be an ENORMOUS asset in the work towards decreasing unemployment and economic instability,,, you hit the nail on the head, many people don't know what their 'value' is and they don't know where to go to learn about how to market it,, they don't have those networks that can expose them to the resources inclusion of such networks in an economic solution would work wonders, in my opinion And your opinion would be absolutely correct. There are tons of Supported Employment agencies that provide employment supports for individuals with disabilities. It would be a wonderful thing if somehow these agencies also provided supports for those who are unemployed. Here you have an agency whose sole purpose is to provide employment supports. They have job leads. The staff members at these agencies are trained for years to do this and yet these agencies aren’t even an afterthought. Just because they specifically work with folks who are disabled doesn’t mean their jobs leads are those who are disabled or that they don’t have the expertise to move beyond just working with the disabled. They are also paid by local/state/and federal government agencies. |
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Solutions solve problems not blame. nicely put will you be running for President someday? or,, congressman maybe..lol You know I've actually thought about it. As a small business owner I have a fundamental understanding of both the struggle to survive and the desire to maximize my earnings while lowering my operational cost. |
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Unemployment
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More great ideas . . . what I find to be true as I go about identifying jobs for the people I provide services for is that often times the lack of understanding what your potential is causes the most problems. That goes for employers and employees. If we have these incentives put in place then we can eradicate the stagnant unemployment numbers. And, truth be told, most of these incentives could honestly pay for themselves if done correctly.
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Obama and Clinton both opened the doors to helping people without the people being required to do anything except claim the monies by applying for subsidies without participation ( work study) Reagan cut many programs that offered help but no work and the roles for assistance dropped and people were forced to work and become more self reliant Today a culture of entitlement where people believe someone( GOVT) should provide assistance as so many women are heads of households and men do nothing and pay nothing to help rear their children and the school is then left to be in loco parentis ( substitute parent) this is not tenable and the schools cannot replace two parents attending to their children but instead drop off at free day care. get food stamps, housing subsidies, and medical assistance all at working peoples expense.The degree of poverty for children in houston is at 20% and likley representative of other large metropolitan areas wherein local state and federal programs enable many to live without contributing.. Actually what you are saying is both correct and really misleading. What Reagan did differs from what Clinton did and Obama is doing. You have to understand the dynamics of the situation. There was no war during Reagan’s tenure; skirmishes but no war. With Clinton we were getting over Operation Desert Storm. There was also the economic situation during each presidency. Ii was/is different for a number of reasons. But more than anything neither Reagan, Clinton, or Obama . . . and we can both Bushes for good measure had the same set of circumstances during their administrations. It is not a Democratic or Republican issue but an economic one. And let me add that it is not the president in office but rather the congress holding office during the presidency that matters. And I’m not saying this just to contradict you because that’s senseless. I’m trying to get you to see that so long as you keep believing it’s one party over the other that’s causing the issues the longer we’re going to have the issues. Solutions solve problems not blame. |
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Unemployment
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all great ideas but how would that fit in for the unemployed with children who aren't school aged, they would need child care to 'volunteer', but wouldn't have income from that 'volunteer' job to arrange it,,, Very good question …and I’m sure there are a number of people who would fall into this category. There are a number of options that could be available; one solution could that state and/or local government agencies could create a list of approved organizations/businesses where someone would be able to secure a volunteer position. Many churches have day care centers attached to them and if the government agencies had a voucher program that could be used for childcare then this would eliminate the additional cost. One would not have to volunteer the entire day therefore someone participating in the program would have a chance to make arrangements for childcare. Another solution would be that rather than volunteering the individual participates in the paid version of the program. The idea here is one, lower the unemployment rate, and, two lower the national debt. There are jobs available. There are people who need jobs. If a new unemployment bill is passed then that would be a great thing but there is no reason why it could not be tied to an incentive that would eventually solve a number of problems. |
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By Mychal Massie on February 12, 2014 in Behind The Political Curtain http://mychal-massie.com/premium/factual-history-democrats-do-not-want-blacks-to-know/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=factual-history-democrats-do-not-want-blacks-to-know Here is more history that black people will not hear, and Democrats want to forget or attempt to spin into something that it isn’t. In 1872, the Republican Party Platform stated: “During eleven years of [congressional] supremacy, it [the Republican Party] has…suppressed a gigantic rebellion, emancipated four millions of slaves, directed the equal citizenship of all, and established universal suffrage [voting]. Complete liberty and exact equality in the enjoyment of all civil, political, and public rights should be established and effectually maintained throughout the Union by efficient and appropriate state and federal legislation. Neither the law nor its administration should admit any discrimination in respect of citizens by reason of African Americans, creed, color, or previous condition of servitude.” (wallbuilders.com) That very same year, the Democrat Platform read: “We pledge ourselves to maintain the union of these states, emancipation, and enfranchisement, and to oppose any reopening of the questions settled by the 13th, 14th, and 15th Amendments of the Constitution. We demand the immediate and absolute removal of the rebellion [Civil War] which was finally subdued seven years ago, believing that universal amnesty will result in complete pacification in all sections of the country.” That sounded good, and if you had stopped reading there you could easily have believed it was a magnanimous display of contrition. But, as it has always been with Democrats, the truth lies in their actions, not their words. “This is a false and misleading promise, for Democrats had relentlessly opposed those Amendments — and the civil rights laws based on them. Not only had Democrats stridently opposed the 13th Amendment, but not a single Democrat in Congress voted either for the 14th Amendment (declaring that former slaves were full citizens and therefore entitled to all rights and privileges of any other citizen in the state in which they lived) or the 15th Amendment (granting explicit voting rights to black Americans). In fact, in the civil rights bill of 1871 to punish the Klan violence, not one Democrat in Congress voted for that bill. The same was true with other major civil rights laws. Therefore, voting records prove this platform declaration by Democrats to be patently false.” This part of history is discarded and miscast. In fact, the truth is that the very blacks who claim erudition are ignorant of the fact that there even was a Civil Rights Bill of 1871 that included language to punish the Klan. They regurgitate distortions and lies as verifiable facts when, as I show above, they are any but facts. This is important history. It is history that is not discussed in the 28-day tribute to immiseration and self-imposed victimology, and you can count the public school classrooms it is taught in on probably one hand — with fingers left over. It is a tragic and venal display of abandoning the truth for political gain on the one hand, and disavowing the truth out of a rabid desire to denounce modernity on the other. Many blacks are victims. But they are victims of their own making and choosing. They revel in the mire of despair and antipathy. They are invidious and given to self-segregating. The brainwashing of many blacks has been complete to the point of there being a valid question as to how many save the very young can be reached with the truth. White people are not the enemy of blacks, neither is America. Quite the opposite. Willful and wanton ignorance is the enemy of blacks. And that enemy in the mirror is cannibalizing their minds and beings. The truth is, it’s hard to rescue a drowning man because realizing they are drowning they thrash about and fight the very person(s) who would save them. Such is the analogy pursuant to blacks. But we cannot allow that to deter the message of truth. Those of us who know the truth must share wholistically. We must realize that ours is a daunting task but a necessary one. This year is an important election year. Democrats have successfully implanted a charade (i.e., Obama), posing as a friend to blacks, when in fact, he, as the blacks in Chicago accurately pointed out after the State of the Union speech, has done nothing for anyone but himself and his cronies. As long as the prostitution of skin color for political and personal gain, and ignorance of factual history are the rule, blacks will be susceptible to self-limitation. But we cannot allow that to silence the truth. Let’s hear them espouse that message during black history month. I really hate how people honestly believe that blacks are so ignorant that we can't revisit what happened in the past and form a basic understanding of how it has played a role in our lives. And, let me add, it's up to us to look at the big picture while embracing where we, as a people, are now. Republics have done amazing things for black. So have democrats . . . both during specific time periods. But more importantly stop advancing the separation of races by trying exploit how much Democrats were once idiots. If something occurred in the past affected blacks then it also affected others because we are all, after all, Americans. |
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Unemployment
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Creating jobs will bring down the debt. And as a small business owner who happens to have a contract with the DC government that requires me to create jobs, I can tell you first hand that the best way to create jobs is to pass the unemployment bill then attach it to securing employment. You can accomplish this by allowing employers to hire folks receiving unemployment benefits by matching their benefits for six months (or if their benefits plus the match exceeds the normal rate of pay then match it until meets but not exceeds a typical employee’s pay rate). Then the employers must hire that employee at the normal pay rate. The government should also provide incentives such as lower tax rates when and only when they participate in this type of program. Thus you've created the incentive to go back to work as well as opportunities for employers to hire while paying lower wages. This may even help with the hiring of illegals since it lowers the cost employers are paying employees.
You could also tie the benefits to volunteering . . . example would be a person would only have access to the unemployment benefits if they volunteer with a nonprofit agency. The thought process is that when you are actively participating in a work environment you are being productive. And by volunteering you are possibly learning a new job skill. The government could also provide incentives to the nonprofit organizations who hire these folks after they’ve volunteered for a while. It’s a win/win situation simply because companies usually are hiring from time to time and it’s always best to hire someone who understands what you’re doing and how you’re doing it . . . the continuity of services. |
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Ironically, the welfare system was improved during the Clinton years but Obama has undone most, if not all, of the gains. exactly how did Obama do that? RING-A-DING-A-FREAKIN-LING!!! I got yer back. Let's review a little forgotten or, hidden history. IBD: Obama Brings Back Welfare State Monday, 23 Feb 2009 President Brokeback Obama is bringing ��the discredited welfare state back to life, bigger than ever. Obama, the editorial said, is now going full steam astern, back to the wasteful, corrupt and corrupting �� practices that Democrat Bill Clinton got re-elected helping to end. Quoting Heritage Foundation senior domestic policy analyst Robert Rector, who recently noted that ��for the first time since 1996, the federal government would begin paying states bonuses to increase their welfare caseloads," the editorial paints a bleak picture of what Americans can expect over the next four years. Do you even have an idea let alone a clue as to where you're getting your information from? Can you for once stop reading the opinions of others incredibly bias and think for yourself. If you believe he's brought back the welfare state then explain based on what you've seen and know. Reading is fundamental . . . thinking is common sense! Do both but be critical when reading and forming opinions based on what you've read otherwise you come off looking like an idiot. And for the record I'm not saying you are wrong or right. I'm merely saying you sound a bit like an idiot quoting others. |
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Waiting
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Waiting
The air . . . between us seems to have grown as cold and painful as the moments of time untold We are . . . we seem to be the end to the once beautiful love story now alone in loneliness I ache like a thousand years of darkness yearning for light tired of my heart weeping through too many sleepless nights yet my breaths . . . they have no choice you stole them as you did my voice And so I sit in silence hurting crying waiting for time to heal |
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~ i loved you, first
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i spin a fine gauze of words around you you rip the gauze to shreds when i see blood i see red you see red, always you say you love me yet i loved you, first author's note....a creative piece, only. I really wish I had that kind of creativity!! |
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Immigration Reform
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as a parent, I realize 'change' can take time and the time it can take is relatively much longer than the time that peoples children can go without food or safehaven or clean water these immediate NEEDS will very reasonably take precedent over long term 'change',,, and both things can happen concurrently, people can meet their immediate needs while doing things to contribute to long term change I do believe immigration laws should be enforced, but I am torn about sending people back who didn't come here through their own consent (children) but have gone on to create productive lives,,,, anyone that came here illegally as an adult, should face the consequences of deportation,, those who came here legally but missed paperwork (the forgotten 'illegal' immigrant class) should have the option to correct their document errors Those who come here as children with their parents ought to have a clear path to citizenship. No questions asked but their parents should also pay a very steep price. For those who come here illegally should be sent back. The basic necessities of life are important but so is the fight for those necessities. I argue that if the world heard you speak then there would be international help. No country would sit back watch those fighting for equality without offering assistance. I have a problem with those who fight for immigration reform here but won't fight for basic needs at home. |
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