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Fri 08/18/17 05:33 PM
Edited by TMommy on Fri 08/18/17 05:34 PM
I wish you the best in that endeavor
cause when you try to bait someone into a response
but they are smart enough
not to play?

you're really left playing with just yourself bigsmile

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Fri 08/18/17 05:21 PM
Edited by TMommy on Fri 08/18/17 05:22 PM
uh huh keep telling yourself that punkin
I am years ahead of you
and we both know it
maybe someday you can play in the big girl's club
bigsmile

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Fri 08/18/17 05:07 PM
hahahaaa...I ain't jealous darling
just find your cutting remarks and humor at expense of others

a bit tideous and predictiblehuh
but hey keep on being yousmokin

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Fri 08/18/17 04:47 PM
flowers for Lu
for one of the kindest and sweetest
posters on this site
Happy Friday my friend

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Fri 08/18/17 06:17 AM
weird ..I was just writing about that on another site...


" how do you know when you have over stayed your welcome"
when a forum no longer peeks your interest
there is no interesting commentary, no wit, no debate, no easy and fun back and forth banter.
when you feel yourself getting aggravated by the lack of half-way intelligent responses..when no one seems to 'get' or even understand your brand of humor
when you keep hoping that when you tune in it will somehow be like it once was..like it used to be
is it time then to move on?



course ya might have just meant you got a dentist appt in a few minutes huh

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Fri 08/18/17 05:42 AM
good go NO!
in fact, it aggravates me having to deal with him
anytime we do the kiddo exchangenoway

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Thu 08/17/17 09:56 AM
haha pretty sure I looked like this



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Thu 08/17/17 09:34 AM
thinking it is gonna be one of those days..
felt motivated this morning to bake muffins
got out ingredients and found my recipe
tossed into the oven some blueberry bran muffins
to enjoy with my morning coffee..
then just as I pulled them out of oven
the corner of tray got caught on oven rack
I flipped the whole thing upside down
muffins went flying in pieces all over my oven door
and all over my floor..
so I scrapped out a couple muffin bottoms with a fork
for breakfast..and set to work cleaning up the mess
yep..could be one of those days grumble

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Thu 08/17/17 06:39 AM
hell yes baby do what ya gotta do
howl at moon if ya need to
sucks she just whatever..ghosted
try not to take it too personal
she probably had a whole purse full
of issues you knew nothing about drinker smooched

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Thu 08/17/17 06:27 AM

This is just a rant to myself.

"How could you be so stupid to allow yourself those feelings, you were feeling by the third date?"

I believe I have now gotten "ghosted", "breadcrumbed", or the newest trend that's going on in dating now a days, "love bombed", then "ghosted".

I'm a complete idiot to think "any" woman would really want to be with me. frustrated


so I have been peeking in here now and again and ya know what I noticed? an upbeat Scoobs, a happier and more enthusiastic kind of Scoobs that was laughing more and seemed to have a more positive outlook on life

I don't think it was because you thought you were in love

I think..its because you were actually out there trying again

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Wed 08/16/17 02:40 PM
oh for crying out loud

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Wed 08/16/17 02:27 PM
why is it I wonder men always tell other men to go get laid
like that is the be all end all of answers
every time a relationship ends
is it some kind of need to proove your manhood
proove you are still attractive to opposite sex
ya ya plenty of women do same sheet
and wonder why they don't bump into mr. right
when he is just mr. right now


listen baby..have no idea the particulars on why ya broke up
frankly ain't none of my bizness
but..obviously you have feelings for her still
that is A-OK pardner
ridiculous...when you think of it

one minute we are supposed to love someone
next minute...what? hate them?

whatever will be will be yes?
so go do you
and she will go do her thing
and if you are meant to be?
you'll come together
if not? you will have already moved on

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Wed 08/16/17 01:42 PM
Edited by TMommy on Wed 08/16/17 01:43 PM
Lu did ya figure out how to do it?
quote one of the gifs in here and look at it
in front of it is img in brackets
and behind it is /img in brackets

go find a gif ya like on the internet

right click on it and copy image address
bring it back here

post it in between the images like this

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Wed 08/16/17 11:46 AM
perfect what? push-up bra? might I suggest going up a size?surprised

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Wed 08/16/17 11:44 AM

I understand what you are saying TMommy
But...

the tone and timbre of his voice
his laughter
does he just ramble on and on about himself
or does he ask you questions about your life, your dreams, likes etc
does he pause to listen to you or interrupt
everytime you speak
is he enthusiastic, animated, does he show interest in you?
is he paying attention?
cannot wait to SEE you again?
hates having to say good bye

All those things are important but are better when experiencing them face to face. Plus, face to face you can see things that can't be transmitted by mic and speaker.
You can see why he paused or became distracted.

I have met women for a date that I had no phone conversation with.
Virginia Beach in the 1980's, nobody was carrying a phone around with them yet I was able to date. We 'interacted' with each other.

I go to the beach now, granted, its not the 80s and its not Virginia Beach but its the beach. Nearly everyone is on their phones or with someone that is on their phone. For me, its rude to interrupt someone on a phone, reading a book, watching a movie or engaged in conversation. If they are not actively talking to someone it seems they are playing a game or doing something else with their phones.

How is it better to be on top of the world if you are lost to your immediate surroundings?
though I agree this 'hooked on my cellphone'has become an epidemic and many have forgotten the art of conversation..

you first have to get her there right? this face to face contact..

women are social creatures..they like to be courted

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Wed 08/16/17 11:24 AM
he beat Hilary bigsmile

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Wed 08/16/17 11:04 AM
for some it may be no big deal
can use messenger or maybe skype

for me? it is a big deal
there are some things you just cannot hear
unless you speak to someone
the tone and timbre of his voice
his laughter
does he just ramble on and on about himself
or does he ask you questions about your life, your dreams, likes etc
does he pause to listen to you or interupt
everytime you speak
is he enthusiastic, animated, does his voice show interest in you?
is he paying attention?
cannot wait to call you again?
hates having to say good bye

these are a thing a woman looks for in a man

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Wed 08/16/17 10:55 AM
say what ya want but he took what was considered by many to be African American rhythm and blues, southern gospel and rock and roll to the mainstream market and reached across the globe with it. There is no denying the effect he had opening the market and on all the music that was produced by bands that came after him

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Wed 08/16/17 05:31 AM
gender stereotypes alive and kicking

there are actually classes trans take while transitioning
that teaches them how to act and speak more like the gender they are becoming




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Wed 08/16/17 05:04 AM



I may lack the intellect and be just a bit too slothful to post anything of any real significance here.


Perhaps I should have qualified the OP. I meant, generally speaking, the attempts to find a romantic partner not just general pointless forum chit chat. I believe you have made significant contributions to the forums over the years.

No, really! laugh



Oh, well then let me just say, hey, hi, high, jombo, HMU, find me on whatsap, any sezy ladies call me at xxx xxx xxxx if ya want have gud tim, check out my profile (never mind the picture, I am really a well known Bollywood star in disguisee), lets trade some fyn fotos,
signed Richard Picks.
hey haii hi hello wasssupp how you doin???? bigsmile