I can not seem to get over my ex...I have went on plenty of dates but I can not seem to get her off my mind...

Playboy! Good name, you'll get over her when you find a certain girl that has the edge over the old one, or when you see her with someone else
Memories are often hard to erase initially
Good luck

crazy thing is were identical in personalities...I've already seen texts from other guys from her phone and vice verse. I knew it wouldn't work because we're soo alike but we were both actually curious with one another. i duno maybe time, ive never really had problem letting go like this before

I have been there many years ago.
One day you'll have a "cat "moment, to difficult to explain but basically something will happen to you and you'll just click and move forward!

... and you're calling yourself playboy? A playboy doesn't get attached to one woman... he plays with women with no string attach. That's you, right? So I say you must have fallen in love with your ex... get over it. You're a playboy after all.

my two cents

Rosie, I'm giving the poor guy some advice. can't you see he's hurting?
Honestly, some people have no feelings!

kudos to you, mikey

Get active doing other things. Find something useful, helpful, and hopefully productive to do with your time instead of coming on the internet and whining.

You've stated you know she gets messages from other guys.
You've dated as well.
Are you creating more between you and her than what really was?
Sometimes people hold on to what they've idealized even though it doesn't match true reality.
Also, if you're going out just to get over her, you're trying to force something that should come naturally in its own time.
Anyway good luck

thanx for the advice lol I haven't fell for many women...I always had a natural way to communicate with, which gave me more options. but either way I appreciate the input :)

Happy to help. now go and bonk you're neighbour, shut her up
Your other post?

hey Player...you sure your name isn't Elvin Bishop (fooled around and fell in love)?...if you are not a person who believes he can only love ONCE in their life, then get off your heineken, saddleup, and go DEAR hunting...there are millions out there...

why is it I wonder men always tell other men to go get laid
like that is the be all end all of answers
every time a relationship ends
is it some kind of need to proove your manhood
proove you are still attractive to opposite sex
ya ya plenty of women do same sheet
and wonder why they don't bump into mr. right
when he is just mr. right now


listen baby..have no idea the particulars on why ya broke up
frankly ain't none of my bizness
but..obviously you have feelings for her still
that is A-OK pardner
ridiculous...when you think of it

one minute we are supposed to love someone
next minute...what? hate them?

whatever will be will be yes?
so go do you
and she will go do her thing
and if you are meant to be?
you'll come together
if not? you will have already moved on

He's playing, he had another post running about his neighbour, it was taken down!
That comment was a pee take!

Yep, Mikey's right! He was using his neighbor to get over the ex!
And then got annoyed when she wouldn't leave him alone.

oh for crying out loud

well I honestly thought getting with another woman would get my mind off of her...it did for alil bit. But in the end it just made things worse

Rebound relationship and/or affairs pretty much always make matters worse. The result ends up being short term pleasure, long term pain. Not only for you, but for the person you are involved with...even if they are told upfront of the situation. Especially for the woman, because even if she agrees to be your rebound effect, she could have unrealistic hopes of it leading to more....which explains why she's continually trying to get with you.

Like the others said, it takes time. Also taking responsibility for your part in the relationship and dealing with your feelings in a healthier manner. If you're not ready to do that...hanging out with male friends helps take your mind off things just as easily...and no one gets hurt!

when a stay boy wanna be a playboy