I just think its cultural, personally the family is not promoted so much and certainly not as a 'unit' as much as it once was in the west,, people are more detached from each other personally and more 'tuned in' to each other through electronics its just easier in such a culture to have distractions and false 'greener fields' I think cultures with less of the 'technological invasion' stick with more traditional cultures and stronger enforcement of the family and community as a unit,,, just my opinion though Just want to correct one thing though and that is"technological invasion" It is as much here as it is in the west when it comes to cities .And even in small villages cell phones cable tv are common and now even the laptop some state gov are distributing them for free. |
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I just think its cultural, personally the family is not promoted so much and certainly not as a 'unit' as much as it once was in the west,, people are more detached from each other personally and more 'tuned in' to each other through electronics its just easier in such a culture to have distractions and false 'greener fields' I think cultures with less of the 'technological invasion' stick with more traditional cultures and stronger enforcement of the family and community as a unit,,, just my opinion though UR opinion is spot on u r one smart lady |
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Hi in this forum most of the time i see western women are divorced and that to at pretty young age {nothing wrong if they want too} but i want to know why is this so common ?In my country India DIVORCE are rare when i see my parents both in love mutual admiration and respect i often wonder that it's not so hard to be married . Is it really very common in west to get divorced or it just some individuals . coz in our country once married u r expected to be pillar to each other till the end come. Alright, you start from the premise that a lot of marriages in the west don't work. Then you say that your parents love each other. Then you say that in your country it's an until death do us part thing. There's a flaw in your argument somewhere. I could attack the second or third premise by saying that your parents really don't love each other, or that they shouldn't be burned at the stake if they get at a divorce. Hope this helps. You have not understood my point see by referring to my parents i meant was that both of them are in love even after so many years they are not together just for the sake of being together or duty bound but they they are out of love same is the case with majority of couples i see around . It is not that we do not have divorce here they do happen but not so much as in west.{I am not saying that one has to stay in marriage even if there is no love or respect at all }I only meant that it seem too common in west and i wonder why? |
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Hi in this forum most of the time i see western women are divorced and that to at pretty young age {nothing wrong if they want too} but i want to know why is this so common ?In my country India DIVORCE are rare when i see my parents both in love mutual admiration and respect i often wonder that it's not so hard to be married .
Is it really very common in west to get divorced or it just some individuals . coz in our country once married u r expected to be pillar to each other till the end come. |
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No need to be sorry it's fun to be silly sometimes
and thanks for the compliment |
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alok99
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Tue 01/28/14 12:22 PM
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It does not happen to them but they can very much feel the heat .That's why i have to shower after sex to cool me down but still my face is hot for many hours.Does this happen to anyone else
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I literally get too hot when i am turn on and this last many hours after sex.
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Topic:
Real love or sex
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Hi everyone so i want to ask you what would you prefer
1 Real love with someone which ends till you die and you really care for ur partner and has risen above all the materialistic things+ sex but with that same person for rest of ur life. vs 2 Hard core sex without any attachment with different new people everyday. Note :It's not about love vs sex but it's about "sex with love" or just plain "sex" |
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diff btwn love & sex
Edited by
alok99
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Topic:
diff btwn love & sex
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true love stays on forever with the same person sex becomes boring after some time with the same person true love last forever even in absence of sex sex does not last much in absence of love true love can be achieved only when you have overcome your lust true hardcore sex can be achieved only when lust overcomes you true love is rare while sex is everywhere ....... true love has the power to change you sex never changes anyone true love is selfless sex is selfish true bullshchit... Sorry, i should be thinking silently! But you arn't serious, are you? Sex has changed me into a raging bull many a times. Who said it didn't change you? And my man, if one live by that standard, they are gonna end up in that lunatics emporium well i have been into love and i had my share of lustful sex also having experience all dis this is the conclusion i hav reached .I think you are yet to experience true love dats why this seems ******** to you.and yes changing into raging bull while having sex is not change i am talking about.This is just a hormonal upsurge you and everyone else experience while having sex but its temporary i am talking about the ever lasting change in your thinking,attitude and personality ....hope you are "lucky" enough to experience love "true love" your thinking would certainly change after dat. i do love a girl. For the past 6 years im loving her. But never told or asked about what she feels! I am just happy that she is there n we talk. But i don't really need to occupy her! On the otherhand, i never deny any call for rain dance. Why mix the two? Its ok as long as i am not committed! What do you say about it? "occupy her" well i am no expert on love but can say dat by describing a relationship with someone as occupying her you have got it all wrong brother.i dont even understand what you meant by "occupy " and well i was talking about love where you express your feeling to one another freely and not hide them so dude if you really love someone go tell her other wise it would be just an attraction or infatuation by not telling her about your feelings you are hiding a very strong emotion from her and in true love there is no hiding.and mind it i am talking about true love which goes way beyond physical attraction not the "love" which we can see every where which is not anything more then relationship of convenience |
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Topic:
racism still exist
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racism still exist
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dude!!!m proud 2 b an indian.....but i never think dat others hate india or any indian!!!n thou some cheaps cnt build a nation.... i guess you have never been to abroad once you spent some time out you would realise the harsh reality.even i have personally faced it though not interested in posting it here but i have posted what i felt...... |
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racism still exist
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why you all hate india so much?????it has its share of flaws but then which country does not?it's a peace loving country with majorly good warm and loving people. it has bad it has good like every other country den why this hate????????????????? This is really ridiculous question bro. Why you bother so much about that? Do you have any inferiority complex for being an indian? I wonder,how can you generalize such things by saying "why you ALL".?? What do you mean by 'you all'????? Haven't you even thought for a while that if really ALL / EVERYBODY in the universe is hating us,then its our real worth? well agreed using the word " all " was my mistake but what i meant was about the racism we have to face when we go abroad jst coz we are Indians.many of my friends and relative those who have gone abroad have experienced it in some way or other.sitting in india you can say all this but once step out you would know what i meant.but again i am not saying ""all"" but most of them. |
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racism still exist
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Because of radical Islam. india is a hindu dominated country my friend and the muslims we have over here are the most liberal .india is itself suffering from terrorism because of radical islam (from pakistan) long before you would have heard the word terrorism........ Hey, if you don't like answers don't ask questions. take a chill pill ........i thought we were having a discussion.it's not about liking or disliking your ans i was just correcting your facts for your own general knowledge |
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racism still exist
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Because of radical Islam. india is a hindu dominated country my friend and the muslims we have over here are the most liberal .india is itself suffering from terrorism because of radical islam (from pakistan) long before you would have heard the word terrorism........ |
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Topic:
misuse of personal photo
Edited by
alok99
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Fri 11/23/12 05:38 AM
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one *** hole is using my personal pic as his profile pic...........how to get rid of him On Mingle2? You can report it by clicking on 'Report This User' at the top of their profile, to the right. thanks for your advice but i have already tried that they just block the person from your list but he still continue to exist at the website and viewable to all other user's |
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Topic:
racism still exist
Edited by
alok99
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Fri 11/23/12 05:25 AM
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Who hates India? I don't like curry. it's second largest growing economy of the world it has got the second largest armed forces in the whole world,it,s a nuclear power 5th country to be succesful to sent rocket to moon and still you just relate india with curry or tajmahal. and if hate is not the right word majority of people look down upon it can't understand why. |
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racism still exist
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why you all hate india so much?????it has its share of flaws but then which country does not?it's a peace loving country with majorly good warm and loving people. it has bad it has good like every other country den why this hate?????????????????
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trust in relationship
Edited by
alok99
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Fri 11/23/12 02:27 AM
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The one who is cheating in a relationship is the one to talk about trust in relationship the most
this i have noticed in real world agree or disagree???????????? |
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misuse of personal photo
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one *** hole is using my personal pic as his profile pic...........how to get rid of him
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