Topic: trust in relationship
alok99's photo
Fri 11/23/12 02:18 AM
Edited by alok99 on Fri 11/23/12 02:27 AM
The one who is cheating in a relationship is the one to talk about trust in relationship the most pitchfork


this i have noticed in real world frustrated

agree or disagree????????????

1alskangrl's photo
Fri 11/23/12 03:01 AM
dont know hoe this works

no photo
Fri 11/23/12 03:12 AM
Idk, but I like to be friends first. Just to be sure we can weather most storms. I like to know what I'm letting myself in for, before making it an official relationship.

Toodygirl5's photo
Sat 11/24/12 01:01 PM

The one who is cheating in a relationship is the one to talk about trust in relationship the most pitchfork


this i have noticed in real world frustrated

agree or disagree????????????


I met a nice guy he talked about a serious relationship, during our friendship he had about 3 other women he mentioned tring to get acquainted with. Yet, he talked to Me about having One woman.indifferent

bastet126's photo
Sat 11/24/12 01:19 PM
it's a coin toss.
trust matters immeasurably; but for me, someone obsessed
with it is a red flag - either they are a cheater or have been
a victim of a cheater and the world is blamed. i have seen both
talk incessantly about it.

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 11/24/12 01:36 PM
OP you might have a point. Just because someone is holwing at the moon doesn't make them a toothless wolf.

But the sad fact is in the real world people don't have to be around very long to figure out if you put all your eggs in one easter bunny basket they are not likely to get to the finish line with enough to make getting dressed up in their pretty clothes worth it.

Is the grass always greener with and endless supply of fish in the pond? Nope but with so many buying into the myth usually they are old has been's before it sinks in that it isn't.

I can tell you after studying many relationships that even the long ones are rarely golden. No bodies perfect and most of the ones that like to pretend that they deserve all this adoration have skeletons in their closets; they just didn't keep knawing on the bones.

jacktrades's photo
Sat 11/24/12 01:42 PM

Idk, but I like to be friends first. Just to be sure we can weather most storms. I like to know what I'm letting myself in for, before making it an official relationship.
Im onboard with this advice. Deeds not words ring true to me.

onlyme245's photo
Sat 11/24/12 02:18 PM
cheated one