Wow, Im trying to figure out why you went anywhere near this woman in the first place.

If a woman has multiple children by multiple men, that is a clear cut warning sign to go no where near that. Its either

A. An insatiable biatch who you will never please.
B. A broken woman with serious mental baggage.

Since she packed the kids up and left, Im guessing you got a big serving of A.

I do believe humans are capable of emotional ties, I never questioned that. What I dont believe is in a world that goes around by survival of the fittest (in modern times, that means he who has the fattest wallet), "emotional ties" have no monetary value whatsoever, are not paramount to ensurance of survival and comfort, and therefore are completely cast aside or ignored for traits that DO ensure survival (good job, good looks, etc).


Most women, the overwhelming majority, do NOT care about a guy being sweet, funny, smart, sensitive, a good listener, or any of the rest of the drivel they spew. They care about two things, money/status number one, and looks number two. They simply view the other qualities as a nice little bonus.

Im sorry, the number one jack ass in the world, with zero personality, can drive up in a Bentley Continental, and 25 women will throw their panties at him. A nice guy who drives up in a broken down Chevy Celebrity will not get the time of day from even one woman. That is fact. You can deny it all you want. There is a reason why complete ****s like Donald Trump, can grab any super model they want, and akward video store guy is still sitting in front of Cinemax late at night.

At least guys are generally honest. Most guys want a "hot" girl, but they dont cover up that fact with, "Oh I want a nice girl who will listen, and make me laugh", yet still only bag "perky breast girl".

Yes, you may have married for love, but obviously you are in contempt of that situation and have an animosity towards the party who had no money.

I doubt you know very few women at all, who have any measurable self esteems, who are cool with a guy making no money at all. Yes, they all might not want "Donald Trump", but all of them will be gold diggers to some extent. Whether they want a job, a Lexus in the driveway, or health insurance, they want gold of some sort.

Now yes, there are women who are severely broken, that will stay with a guy who has nothing, but simply because they believe they have no "value", or they have some alpha male connection to him (he might be a gang banger or biker guy)

It is true a man has the option of not wanting a housewife, but my point is this, most men, will respect the housewife for what she does, regardless if that would be their choice for a partner. It is normally of little to no concern that a woman makes a paycheck to a man, unless dual incomes are absolutely neccessary to survive.

On the other hand, men gain no respect for being a house husband from women, mostly because men are viewed as a paycheck by women, and without one, they become worthless. It is normally ALWAYS a requirement for men to have a paycheck, and a good one, by women.


Yes, and I will agree with you, amongst most men, money is not a concern because "perky breasts" and whatever else is all of the concern. Yes, men are inherently perverts, Im not arguing that. Men will usually take the best looking woman their paycheck can "buy".

On the other hand, women are gold diggers inherently and take full advantage of this dynamic of men. Women are generally aware of the "price tag" on their forehead, and will take the highest bidder they can get.

I do not have a vendetta against any one woman and holding all accountable. Its just, I am tired of being judged on my value as a man by my income, by ALL women, not just the variety with "cute butts" and "perky breasts". All men are judged the same way, wallet first, looks second, everything else is nice but doesnt really matter (dispite what a woman will tell you).

Women gain some marginal respect for being "house wives" to men, but a "house husband", is looked at by women in general as a "lazy worthless bastard". Why is this? Women have zero respect for a man who has no dinero.

How exactly is that NOT the definition of a gold digger?

Did I also add on that all women also deny that they are gold diggers?

You yourself have "a job" as a REQUIREMENT alongside a "pulse" for a man. It is not acceptable for a man to provide no monetary contribution to a relationship in your opinion. This clearly makes you a gold digger of some degree. You want a man for his monetary contribution, and not for his personality or non monetary contributions to a relationship.

On the other hand, men, constantly excuse the fact that a woman brings no, or little monetary contribution to the table. In fact, "steady well paying job" is usually not even top ten in a mans requirements for a woman, but is ALWAYS top 5 in a womans, even in a womans who makes good money herself.

Woman are gold diggers, period. Its not a matter of if they are, its just what degree of one they are.

To 98% of women, a "job" is further defined by a certain income level. You should clarify that as well.

I would spare as many hours as wasnt required from work.

I also believe one should work to live, not live to work. The 80+ hour work week people take on to buy things they dont need, and keep up with the Jones', is not for me. I actually place far more value on human bonds then I do any type of possession.

I dont know where Im supposed to be looking, but Ive gotten more then one "cross eyed" look even holding the door for complete strangers who are women.

I think if closely examined, most people would come to the conclusion that most, if not all of their past failed relationships, were with the EXACT same type of person.

I believe that certain people are psychologically and biologically attracted to a certain set of qualities and features, and most of their relationships, not casual dates, but real relationships, tend to mirror most of the traits, and likely most fail for the same EXACT reasons.

Unfortunatley, this ALSO leads them to believe that "all of the opposite sex" are losers, dispite it really being the fact that they keep dating the same person over and over again.

I think romance and chivalry in general is now extinct as a successful gesture towards women.

Women are more likely to be offended, repulsed, or label you as a psycho then appreciate these types of related performances.

Many people doing the "distance thing", are simply playing a game. They do it for entertainment, and never are meaning anything to be serious. Id stop putting much stock at all in someone who is crazy in love with you from 1000 miles away, or youll continue to get your heart broken.

Wow.....so um, go ahead and stay away from alpha male, and your problem is solved.

Or, instead of that whole list, simply buy you a BMW and throw a handful of diamonds at you.

Its ironic how many people state that "looks dont matter", yet anonymous survey after survey state the exact opposite. Looks certainly matter to an overwhelming majority of the population.

Yes, it is true, since women are gold diggers, they will often excuse looks in exchange for a fat paycheck. However, if you dont have a fat paycheck, and are ugly, its likely your woman is leaving with the next best thing. Period.

Guys will rarely excuse looks. Ninety percent of the time, if you are ugly, and your guy is more attractive then you, and knows it, he will be leaving for the next best thing. Period.

Few people are fine with having the feeling that they simply "settled", that is a fact of life.

Women are inherently gold diggers, and as such, they are primarily interested in a guys income and job prospects. This is EXACTLY why guys always feel pressure to present their assets as a topic of conversation on a date. The unfortunate fact is, to most women, a man is nothing more then a walking wallet, period.

I think most girls who have the outlook that "most guys are so and so", normally, assholes, jerks, crazy dudes, need to look at themself before they start stereotyping guys in general.

Most girls like this will go on and on in long winded bashings of the male species, but will acknowledge they know there are "some" good guys out there, they just cant find them.

Well here is news, maybe YOU just arent looking for the "good" guy. Stop dating biker guy, or alpha male, or other such male who is prone to anti social type behaviors, and maybe youll stop pulling so many duds.