Well once I took a long time to get to know someone over the internet and phone before, but then when we finally were together in person they ended up being physically and emotionally abusive.

Thanks, I used to be the kind of person that hid everything from everyone and watched and analyzed every little detail about someone. Then I learned that wasn't good for finding the right person, so then I did the complete opposite. Guess I need to find a happy medium between the two.

Thank you, I'll try. It's just kind of hard at the moment because almost every little thing I do is somehow reminding me of the person.

That makes sense I guess. I think I just am usually very up front with my feelings, probably too much and that makes me get attached to someone a lot faster than I should. Maybe I should try and be a bit more hard to get and mysterious too? XD

My entire family has gotten texts like this...some even in spanish...does this mean my entire family is made up of international pimps?

Yeah, I know...though I'm not entirely sure I trust how I feel about anything anymore. I've thought I've found THE one for me before, but then things changed in one way or another and I just end up getting hurt. I've had way more heartbreak in my life already than I should have, I'm starting to wonder if I should just stop letting myself get attached to anyone.

Thank you. I know like my family tells me, I'm young and probably just being overemotional. But it still really hurts to be suddenly rejected like that.

Lonely and sad. Worse than I have in a very long time.

After a long time of searching and hoping to find someone, recently I finally thought I did. So I disappeared from these kinds of sites and the internet almost altogether and started dating this person. But then after I missed thanksgiving with my family to spend it with this person and stay with them for a few days even though everything seemed to go well and I was really happy, they suddenly call me at 1am in the morning after I head home and basically decided that they only saw me as a friend and broke up with me. I'm not sure if I just have bad luck or there is something wrong with me. But now I just feel really confused and don't know what to do in general.

...Hah that's awesome.

Sadly...I feel that I know too much about a woman is thinking. Grew up with all women.

And still we don't know enough.

Well, did break up with someone I had been with for nearly two years, so I suppose the change thing did come.

I've gotten pretty vague stuff like "You will succeed" and "Time to make a change" lately as well.

How much DO we REALLY know?

Single. Was taken for nearly two years until recently. Hate it and wondering what it's like to date someone in general.

I like your mask.

I've gotten some like that as well. Though usually it has an actual fortune on it as well and just has the learn Chinese thing on the back.

...well that's almost as much as my mom makes after working at her job for years. The $8.90 that is.

I think it sounds ridiculous sometimes, but to each his own. :P